This is SLS. There's nothing high tech about it; it's all sorcery, hamsters and an occasional bug.
Dating Classifieds
Wait… I’m single and can see his profile just fine. How is that even possible?!
I just don’t get all this high tech stuff…
GOODENUFF
How silly of you. That couldn’t possibly be how it works!
I had to look at BT's profile and realized I can't tell if he blocks singles.
I forget how this works- perhaps with his settings of no interest in men, a SM such as yourself can't see his profile...?
Everyone knows why.. he is the forum comedian and very successful on SLS.. where have you been?
Sort of like why do you post something so crazy on a swing site.. its NOT FB.. see everyone has an opinion and those here get what we do.. thats why!
So call me a conspiracy theorist, but am I the only one here who noticed that this guy only shows up when the NCWHINER is gone, and vice versa?”
Bridgetender, why would you post in a swinging single classified forum when you block singles from seeing your profile?
De-dump…
BT
Bump.
So, any international members viewing this forum?
Or bring you a beer
"So true! It's too bad more people don't realize that."
Werd.
wiggles puppet
Getting her to bed isn't the problem; the problem is getting her to make you a sammich.
"...if you can make a woman smile, you can make her laugh. And if you can make her laugh, you can get her into bed."
So true! It's too bad more people don't realize that.
I understand Lovemenot, but as we all know Hotdates is local as very, very few search for Hotdates in areas in which they're not located. That's precisely why I started this forum. As a guy who's search not for a date, but a significant other is on a gobal basis and I'm sure I'm not the only, this forum is long overdue. Sad that some people don't get that.
Indeed there are some folks who use the forums as an enticement by being funny and awesome. Or as an old girlfriend told me, if you can make a woman smile, you can make her laugh. And if you can make her laugh, you can get her into bed.
If I’m traveling and have the time and inclination, Hot Dates have been very useful. But you need to post them a week or so in advance, much like any other local dates that need to be planned. I’ve also met some folks from these Forums in person, again, if they happen to be in areas to which I’ve traveled. Although it does take some planning, I’ve found both very worthwhile. Just my $.02.
And that I'm now blocked is completely unsurprising.
For anyone else interested in finding partners of the female persuasion, instead of focusing on what you have to offer in the way of material goods, which displays a kind of unthinking contempt for women, emphasize your good character, sense of humor, and flexible temperament.
Yes, you did confirm that Hot Dates is local, not global which was my whole point. If you think I've acted "heavy handed" you're an easily triggered individual just looking for an excuse to be offended. Good riddance.
I never said Hot Dates didn't work. I've used it sparingly, but when I have, it's been a blast.
As far as your kind offer, apparently I wasn't blunt enough. You've burned too many bridges with your heavy handed sarcasm here on the forums and have joined my 'not with a 10 foot pole' list. Which is surprisingly short, now that I think of it.
At 95 years old, GOODGOLLYMSMOLLY is definitely the Queen of SLS.
If only I could be her Court Jester.
To anyone who interpreted my last post as snarky, I apologize. I usually try and do better.
I know it’s not an excuse, but I had a particularly trying day yesterday, dealing with airports, late flights, short connections, getting home well past my nighty night time. And to top it off, there was the couple who should have orange triangles permanently attached to their backs walking side by side completely blocking the jetway, who barked at me for being rude when I said “Excuse me, but my next flight is already boarding. Can I pass through?”
I am probably a little less tolerant today than normal, and shouldn’t be responding to some posts.
I know what forum regulars are.?? Thanks for confirming Hot Dates doesn't work for finding other singles that are looking. Let me know if you ever get to North Idaho. I'll treat you like the queen you are!
Forum regulars = people who regularly post on the SLS forums. So, I met them here.
Humorous Gentleman
Since you can “go where I want when I want “, go to Kissimmee Florida and spend a weekend at Secrets. You might meet several regulars. Post a hot date while you’re there. Go spend a week in LA and post hot dates for an entire week.
If you’re looking for someone to just drop a naked woman on your lap, it ain’t gonna happen.
For fucks sake, put some effort into it.

