The no drama couples

I wish I could give more details, love...but I saw my name and looked at the profile pic of the one typing it. Everything else just went blank.

A little of both I think. However, Don Ron got miffed at me a couple of days ago and blocked ole Tramp. So, I'm affraid I can no longer comment on the 5 minute APL (average post lifespan) of his input. Sowwy.

Tramp, have you finally gone off your rocker or have posts "poofed"?

Is it just R&K rolling up their posts behind them? Or do we have a new annoying post poofer amongst our ranks?

~rabbit~

Lol

Fair enough...my bad.

We don't want FWBs. We want casual sex with other couples then when its done some social for a little and then leave. Its the fun of the first time sex that makes swinging fun for us.

You should look up Ron (RonKathy). It sounds like you guys would be perfect for each other.

You could be one of his very, very, very special FWBs as he/she/they travel all over the country.

They don't have any drama either. ;^D

Tramp drama is a desired state that does not need to exist. We have always been open about everything in our marriage. What makes my wife happy I enjoy doing our its ok with me if she is doing the things that she enjoys, She does the same for me.

The little things that cause many couples to fight we just do not deal with and do for each other because the other half does not like doing that thing. My wife has a thing about all the cabinets being closed so I close them. I love her to dress almost naked and she does that for me. She has always love that I like to fish dive and hunt and bring home dinner. Neither one of us is very material or need to spend the money to keep up with the herd.

Before we got married we agreed on how to raise our kids and how to spend our money. We promised each other to keep our bodies in shape,

So where is the drama in our lives? Way back in time when my wife tried to do the marketing for our company. She just can not do this her brain is wired to be a scientist and sex goddess. I don't even attempt anymore to do the things she is good at. Such as where things go in our house, or the business books. The house we bought she did the inside I just hired the contractors.

Kids where normal stuff, nothing serious to get drama going.

"We have no drama in our lives."

You are a liar, sir...and not a very good one. But, thanks for playing.

We have no drama in our lives. Our business provides all the thrills that anyone needs.

I've yet to meet anyone, couple or single, who was drama-free.

Life is both dynamic and filled with drama.. more than enough to go around. In fact, I enjoy a reasonable amount of drama from folks. Otherwise, the whole affair seems rather static and mundane.

It's the aggravating people that I avoid, not dramatic.

BTW, I feel the same way about all the like-minded people. I've not yet come across anyone totally like-minded to me...thank God. ;^)

We have bumped into the "no drama" thing a couple of times where a couple saying they wanted none created it. In our most dramatic case this played out BEFORE we even met, so we consider ourselves lucky in a way in that instance.

Sometimes you can tell just from the profile and/or the online interactions. You do start to develop a bit of intuition regarding this after a while, but nothing is fool-proof.

We are no drama, its just couples that like sex for fun are getting harder and harder to find.

Yup. In fact, it's axiomatic that if you find a couple that describes themselves as "no drama," they're all about bringing the drama. I've never figured out if they're using magical thinking - if we say we're no drama all this dramatic stuff that happens when we're around will just stop - or if they're just phenomenally lacking in self awareness.

In our experience over the past few years we have noticed something. Why is it the couples that say "no drama" are the ones that bring it? Anyone else notice this too?