No condoms Then what?

If she wanted sex bareback she should communicate ahead of time with the guy, that being said if she is afraid of STDs or pregnancy she should not have unprotected sex. she can become infected or impregnated from the semen the guy has prior to ejaculation, I have semen dripping out of my dick about the same time I get hard or even before If i am turned on. So pulling out is not protection in anyway. If she wants bareback she should realize the risks and know the guy very well. Besides how else can anyone enjoy the creampie.

I thought I had seen it all..

Until I read this quizzical nonsense..

I agree with outdoorlovers. We usually play bareback. And out of courtesy l usually ask where you want me to cum or do you want me to pull. Almost always they say cum inside me. So yeah it’s a good idea to ask, but if you are going to play bare, there’s a pretty good chance there will be a few creampies. Otherwise speak up and say, make sure you pull.

After a lot of thinking about this. I'm gonna agree that both parties screwed up by not communicating "BUT" I'm leaning more towards an 80/20 split and putting 80% of the blame on the lady. The fact that she got all pissed tells me that she knew AHEAD OF TIME that he was not supposed to cum inside her. The guy had no idea that he wasn't supposed to. Like I believe I stated originally. If no conversation was made about this I myself would simply not think about it and where it happens it happens. Now if I wasn't v safe that's an entirely different story.

OffRadar: This thread is about choice of communication, not choices of condemnation; there are debates of right or wrong in the other threads, should you prefer to join in debates.

~Allen

If you both decided to go bareback the polite and respectful procedure would be to discuss where the gentleman would cum, doing so would eliminate any awkward unpleasant situations.

that should be discussed BEFORE playing

Some people just learn their lessons best the hard way. Aside from disease, who knows if she was even using any contraceptive. Swinging or not, if he got her pregnant and she decided to keep it and go after him for support, I'd guess that the courts would side with her for BOTH of them paying for their mistake. Sounds as if neither of them was thinking in this case.

For those that don’t get it! Communicate your do’s and Don’ts before the sex starts, Period. How is she or anyone for that matter going to get upset when she made no mention of not climaxing inside of her? Same goes for oral, say something before hand.

Maybe I'm just in a mood but it just seems to me another reason to just go with the flow rather than implement a bunch of rules and expectations. I have to say though that I haven't ran into this situation all that often which is part of the reason I brought this up. I have this vice that it is very difficult for me to get off when it's not Tracy. I can get hard and stay hard with another woman but I just can't get off. It's awesome when you wanna play Tarzan all night long but it can be bad when the lady is left feeling like she hasn't done her part.

I'm surprised the woman had any support for her complaint. Because, yeah, that's not exactly how guys work. I mean, yes, I love being asked where I want him to come, but that's because it's hot rather than because it's a courtesy I expect. Plus there's the whole 'didn't use a condom thing, so how the hell is he supposed to know that coming inside is a problem' problem.

That makes it even more surprising, I would think she would know to have that conversation in advance. And him as well.

~Scamp

They were swingers.

The obvious answer is, the onus is on both parties and this was just really bad communication. Even in my pre swinger days, I would ask before I came inside a woman. It can be very sexy to ask her where she wants a man to cum and it felt like the right thing to do is ask.

That said, she needed to take charge of that situation. She allowed him to fuck her without a condom them expected him to pull out? As rabbit just said when I read this to her, the guy has his dick in his favorite place and at his favorite moment, he’s expecting to be thinking, hmmm, maybe I should pull out.”

BTW, this wouldn’t change my answer but I’m wondering if this was just a hook up or two swingers?

~Scamp

Recently watched a discussion on a private FB page that that I hadn't really thought about. A girl hooked up with a guy. Did not require a condom and nothing was said as to what the guy should do if he was going to cum. Well as fate would have it while in the course of their sex the guy climaxes inside her. The girl was mad as hell! Said that it was wrong that the guy never warned her nor asked if he could cum inside her. The suprising thing to me was the amount of other people on FB that backed her. Me and the mrs I guess have a bit different take on the matter. We both always just assumed that if condoms are not required and not preferences are given the guys can cum however and wherever they like with the exception of in the mouth. (not all girls like that) What do you all think?