Black rings

Haven't seen any black rings. If you want to meet swingers just go to a Lifestyle M & G, club or contact them through this site. When traveling, the Hot Date feature works too.

No one here wears rings or bracelets or anklets. Nearly everyone here has a pineapple in their shopping basket (Duh..it's Hawaii). Every third house down the street has white rocks in their front lawn....etc, etc, etc.

we have never seen any swingers wearing black rings

... but it isn't very good. You can only use it from your phone, through a browser, not an app. And you can't upload pix not on your phone.

... aaaaaand it already exists. Check out mixxxer. Found it googling "tinder for swingers".

Idea for having swingers identify each other in public: An app on your phone that signals you when it detects the app running on a nearby phone. For best results, you'd have to be running your GPS, otherwise you couldn't be assured that you'd be finding someone really nearby.

Of course, anyone could download and run such an app, so for security, it would be need to be tied into membership on SLS, for example. In fact, this would be a terrific SLS feature. The app could make the phone buzz discreetly and show a public photo of the other SLS member.

Mrs. Erotikos has worn black thumb rings just because she liked the look -- who knew?

As far as I know, there are no real true "signs" that swingers use. There are a lot of ideas and items being tried.

I heard of this and posted a similar question but I guess my phrasing was not proper because the whole subject and post got deleted. I found a couple places that spoke of a Black ring on the right hand... but did not know how universal this was for swingers.

Ex hotwife and I would have never displayed any sort of swinger symbol to mark our home. If we were going to a swing club or to pre-arranged meetings with couples, there was really no need for any visual symbol. Many times when we had no prospects for a meetup, but we were both in the mood to try to pick up a couple (or be picked up), we would switch our engagement/wedding rings to our right ring fingers. It used to be a swinger symbol, but I'm not sure if it still is. We would barhop vanilla bars and nightclubs and look for the same symbol. We met several couples this way !

L went on Amazon and got her a black ring for shits and grins. It's actually a very pretty ring. We know it doesn't really mean anything but she wears it when we're together sometimes and it's like a inside joke for us.
Now that it's spring we started to work in our yard. It's was a blank slate when we started so we've been looking at everything. We have joked about putting something pineapple related knowing that it doesn't mean anything either.

Heard of it all.. bumperstickers, tshirts, rings (another site has a couple who has made some) anklets, everything you can imagine. I would not approach someone in a vanilla setting period. But that is just my way and my opinion. Your mileage may vary.

Yes we have heard of the black ring theory, many places, on your thumb, mr's wears it when we attend the events, if she doesn't forget

In a meeting Sandra wears a collar. This tells a lot to those who know what it means.

Actually, I tend to wear a minimum of jewelry when I am at a swing event. If you get naked, it's just something else to worry about losing {I usually skip panties too}. Then there's the slight possibility that some rings for example might have a sharp edge that could damage something like a condom.....then what would you do?

No, I don't know of any special ring for swingers...I have also heard rumors of people using symbols of a yard decoration similar to an upside down pineapple ornament affixed to their gate or mailbox as a sign a swinger lives there. Rumors or urban legend as far as I know.

Ms Uriah

here we go again...

there are sevreal threads about this already. Some do some don't some asexuals do, some don't. Some people just like black rings, some don't. Personally I wouldn't approach someone in a vanilla setting just because they were wearing a black ring.

Do swinger couples wear black rings on their right hands

when they are out to signify they are in the lifestyle

and open to meeting others ? If so you you wear them out ?