Black rings

Sounds like fun that is one of my favorite hangouts

DMan we should meet up at Hemingways and see if we can spot each other based on rings (although you know what we look like) lol

Yes S D C is big in Midwest and southwest and that seems to be the heart of the black ring thing. It's a cool thing .

Thanks Fokkkers, I like the naughty secret aspect of the rings. I think welll check it out and see how it goes. I have looked at Kassie before but I was referencing S D C. Is that another lifestyle site?

Thanks Fokkkers, I like the naughty secret aspect of the rings. I think welll check it out and see how it goes. I have looked at Kassie before but I was referencing S D C. Is that another lifestyle site?

Cassie (not how it's spelled) is a better designed site (more facebookie) but it really has no presence for The NJ/Philly area.

I don't know if it works, I have seen a couple of couples wearing them at clubs and there are a couple of retailers specifically for them online. I got ours on Amazon for under $20 for both. If anything it maybe a mental thing, but it gets us into the right mindset as we leave the house. With the rings on we aren't mom and dad anymore we are part of the secret sexy people.

they dont work anywhere lol

Do the black rings work in NJ? I'm not familiar with the other site you mentioned is it worth checking out?

I have seen one or two at clubs. Black ring on middle finger means asexual.
From what I have been able to gather black rings seem to be more prevealent in the Midwest. It seems to be a S Dee Cee site thing more than SLS or Kassie.

@fokkers - Do people in your area do the black ring thing? In the kink/fetish lifestyle, they mean you are "asexual".

We have black rings. When we are leaving for a LS date/party/event it's the last thing we do in the car before we leave the driveway.

I would never wear that Partners ID jewelry. It's way too big and the design is odd. (JMHO)

Has anyone found the partners id stuff to be effective in getting the attention of others in the lifestyle?

I like TomandDiane's suggestion of hanging a SLS t-shirt on your camping/beach chairs. Subtle but noticeable.

We have asking the same question about how to identifie other swingers as we I fave not been the lifestyle very long but we plan on doing a lot of camping this next year and would like to be identified to other Lifestyle members. I personally like the international swingers id jewelry by Partners id

There is real lifestyle jewelry that was designed specifically for swingers. The company is devoted to lifestyle jewelry and promoting it only in lifestyle venues. I If you see someone wearing this jewelry, we guarantee they are swingers. It doesn't matter if it's on the right or left, up or down, ankle or wrist, etc, it's the pendant which alerts you. Partners ID . com

You know where to find us! :)

froggy

We visit Dallas all the time during football season. We just may run into you this fall.

@DD, would love to see your ink!

I'll show you mine if you show me yours . . . lol!!

froggy

I tattooed my abdomen and breasts this year. Everybody at the pool assumed we were swingers. Hmm.

I have heard black rings, thumb rings, and ankle bracelets on the right ankle can all be signs.

I agree @zak69 SLS should sell a ring or something for discreet identification, Even if they changed it up every few years so as an example if the vanialla public came to know that black rings with the logo mean swingers change up to something else,

Convenient storage!

I wear mine around my wrist when I am not using it......

I have a black cock ring. When you see that, you know we're swingers! -James