because we new or what

Where do you vacation? Try an adults only vacation.

no one said you should quit. you asked for advice and was given some good ideas. spruce up your profile and get some better pictures.

I see nothing of anyone telling you to quit, unless there is a blocked user posting such. What I do see are others reaching out with criticism that should not be taken lightly and used as the advice on it's face and seek more help to become more enticing to other viewers.

Good Luck!

~Allen

We would decline because you are looking for something out of state and you aren't married. To us that could mean drama. Not saying you will bring any, but the need to play out of state because of your professions is a huge red flag. Everyone in the lifestyle needs discretion, and it's expected. All of this sounds as if you're trying to hide something. Your profile really could be why no one is interested.

Speaking for myself (the male half) I think your biggest hurdle is the fact you are looking for a fling while on vacation. Not saying it can't happen but honestly you are limiting yourself. If we were looking for an encounter while on vacation we would find a club in the area we were heading to and go. In fact once things settle down here that may be something we do in the future. We have found in the lifestyle most folks want a repeat performance (or several) and getting together with someone who is on vacation for a one time fling does not match that.

BTW there is nothing wrong with what you are doing but looking closer to home might end up being the better option. Find a local club and attend a party or two. The thing is a lot of swingers have "professional jobs" and need to be as discreet as you do. In fact I always risked being fired if what we did on the weekend was found out and made public. In fact I still do but not in the same way as I work for myself it would just cost me "clients". There is something to be said for discretion especially involving your job but you can be far too cautious and end up never having any fun.

Your profile pictures seriously need work along with the wording as well. Better Profiles could do you folks a magnitude of help.

Good luck!

~Allen