Swinging and sex with other people is for FUN. Don't make it a serious thing. have the couple over and just have a good time flirting and fucking. go with he flow. Sometimes the women are so into the men that they just love being around the other guy all day, sometimes just for sex.
Have fun, just like you did in high school. That's what swinging is really like, being back in high school but now everyone knows what they are doing.
Scamp is 100% right. This is not a game time decision. Decide now what you're both comfortable with and stick to it. You can always change your decision next time after discussing what happened privately.
To be clear, you have a couple coming over to swim and are asking if it’s ok for you and your wife to play separately?
This is a question you and your wife need to talk about and agree on. Don’t wait until the couple is there and your wife wanders off with the guy and you are left wondering what is going on.
Decide ahead of time if you want to play in the same room, same bed or if it’s ok to separate. We will be waiting for an update to hear how it went.
Good luck and have fun.
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