Bi play required (WTF)

I'm pretty sure it shows on your blocked list the same way, we have people show up there that we didn't block.

"How do you check who blocked you? "

I dont think you can check who blocked you. you can only see who you blocked on your friends list.

go to the bottom of your friends page, the middle section- if you block them or they block you it shows up the same-

How do you check who blocked you?

We're just quoting another who has posted on this thread... Have no clue how your question got turned into white male privilege. Must be west coast thinking...

We are the OP and We're not Bi. White Privilege ? What ever that pertains to, sure the hell isn't me.

"The OP also provided an excellent demonstration of white male privilege. Gold stars.

"I am a straight white cis male who wants to swap so I can fuck another woman who isn't my wife. Why are you rejecting us for my wife not being bi? Why can't your bisexual wife be happy fucking just me?" "

We're wondering where we can find some of that white male privilege!! Glad we're in the middle of the United states where we think thats just a myth.

and 888 have you blocked us??? we never check who has blocked us!

We always enjoy it when people decide to define what is or isn't a "swinger" and then get angry when someone disagrees with them on a forum where people share ideas and discuss sexuality.

Some people really need to get over themselves already. SHEESH!

He blocked me too. No big surprise. I had almost done the same a number of times as most of his/her posts almost looked like deliberate trolling. No doubt they felt the same about mine. C'est la vie.

888eatme, He also blocked us.

Mayhem, if we play in the same room with a couple , incidental touching is just that, incidental touching.

Esperanza blocked me after I replied to their talking shit.

My wittle bittie violin plays a whittle bittie tear song for them called, if’n y’all can’t take the heat, stay outta mah kitchshen!

;-)

~Allen

"We know that many people use that so they can play more."

Or you can just do what we do both do Hedo and attend LS parties, and any meetings from online interactions are just icing on the cake ;-)

If couples do separate room play, it also eliminates the possibility that the girls (or guys) are going to interact in any way. I guess it could be one more reason couples choose to play in separate rooms.

Some time ago we stopped even trying to get in touch with any profile where it stats the women is Bi. We know that many people use that so they can play more. What ever turns them on. But since we started to communicate with couples that are both straight or bi curious, we've have met so many people and have so much fun , straight people meeting straight people, their all trying to hook up, and it works. So if a man wants to say his wife is bi thinking it will increase hooking up, because he depends on female bi play to make up for his lack of confidence, it's their loss not ours.

I wonder if this happens more in some areas than others (the Bi thing, not the ignorant/stupid thing ;-) ? Before we ever get around to meeting, it's VERY rare for us to be in a situation where we chatted and then later found out after meeting that Bi play was expected.

Generally, we exchange a couple messages to clarify what each is looking for (if it wasn't already clear from the profile). In just about every case, if girl on girl is a goal we quickly determine that we are not a match, so never get to the point of actually meeting.

There are some exceptions. We have our own parties and we DO have friends that are Bi (men and women) and they hook up with other like friends at our parties that enjoy Bi play. They also know and respect our preferences, so this is never an issue for us.

@TTV: Thanks, didn’t get an indicator anyone was posting, hmmm.

However, I will say that after reading their replies: Reading comprehension does go a long way; sometimes you just have to let ignorant people be ignorant and stupid people be stupid, without the worry in trying to find their just cause.

~Allen

Esparanza you totally read that wrong

he said HIS wife gets mad when a bi listed woman, isn't really bi. In actuality, it's a man, trying to get another woman to trick/force/beg her into being bi... Mostly so he can fuck the other man's wife

Eatme isn't the issue.. The couple with the fake bi wife is... And fake bi women are an epidemic

The missus relisted herself as straight because she’s tired of meeting couples with bi females where the guy wants her to convert their listed bi wife into truly being bi.

Ever since the relisting, new hits are........... Crickets.........

I thanked her this morning for being understanding to my video gaming needs for the past three weeks. She sent back an “lol”. See below.

https://1drv.ms/u/s!AhOaXF-VbgZsgwAPcrZBOLAqw08R

:-)

~Allen

Agree, that is some good feed back. My wife would probably be bi friendly. I don't have a problem with bi women, but to me it sucks when that's all they want. So if a lady is here looking only for another lady, is she a swinger, or what?

mayhem, that would be nice. You do have a way with words.

I list the Mrs as Bi-curious. She's not curious. She knows what she likes. She basically likes breasts, but she is perfectly happy to just play with guys. She always asks before she touches and if she got a , "Sorry, just not into that.", neither she nor I would pursue it any further.

If a woman was listed as straight, she probably wouldn't even try any breast play. We try to cater to the people we're playing with, up to our limits. If a woman was expecting the Mrs to lick her, that's beyond her limits.

There are many degrees of Bi, but if you're just looking at the toggles it really isn't telling the whole story. It's too bad SLS couldn't be more cutting edge (ha-ha) with some sort of 1 - 10 Bi rating where B1 was "maybe thought about it", and B10 is I want to lick you and expect you to do the same. With so many flavors of Bi, I guess it isn't surprising that some could view this as "skewed sexuality".

That said, no rating system will ever be perfect because it can't account for in-person chemistry. The Mrs has done more with certain women that she feels an attraction towards. That is still not going to result in her licking another woman though, or at least it hasn't in the 6 years we've been doing this. All things considered, she'd be about a B3, which is a little more telling than even "Bi-situational".

JDean, We agree. We also find that since we started only seeking straight couples we have increased our play time much more. Straight couples seeking straight couples, it seems that because it is harder to find couples to play with, because we are straight. We have found that many straight couple are seeking the same. So when we get together with straight couples we meet other straight couples. We don't click on a bi couples profiles, it's their loss.

Greyhound, it is harder for straight couples. If you do a search we see that around 90 % of the ladies on here are bi. I do feel that most of the ladies are just here to get with other women. And some guys just like to watch. Well guys most of these ladies don't want us, they only want the wife. To me that sucks, because we got into the "swing" life style to swing, to have sex with other couples. For both of us to have fun not just one. I have a high sex drive and don't care to just set and watch. I have nothing against bi women, hey have you fun. But a lot of times the man is put to the side and rejected, yet he don't even know it. Hell maybe us men here should just leave the site and let the bi women have it. And couples that want couples join a straight site. Anyone know of a swing site where the women wants a man?

GreyhoundGuy, I just searched your town for straight couples and found 30 within 30 miles and 137 within 50 miles all on the site within the last month. Don't give up yet you've got too many leads...hell if you can't find a date with those odds you probably couldn't find your dick with 2 hands and a map.

i have to say in our area a straight couple does not stand a chance in meeting with another couple