PS full disclosure we both had rather 'interesting' vanilla sex lives before we met. I may not have known anything about the LS but I had very special friends who introduced me to some fun stuff. Though the FF aspect didn't happen until . . .
I was in my 50s he was younger when he started. For us, this site and the thought & talk of a threesome was foreplay - for an entire year. It was hot, it was exciting and it was fun fantasizing about such activities and reading around SLS. Then we made plans to meet a couple but as often happens he was called out of town. He encouraged me to go and the rest as they say is history. Interesting sidenote we have never played as a couple - it's not something I am interested in - I cannot even imagine watching him with another woman, the same cannot be said for him LOL This is why the profile is now of a SF, that and we don't live as close as we'd like (now there's an understatement). In our case, neither of us needed to talk the other into anything because it started as a mere fantasy - probably the only way this could have worked for someone like me (very monogamish).
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Now with Covid, it's back to being fantasy.
"When someone told me I lived in a fantasy land, I nearly fell off my unicorn.”
I was in my early 30s and my wife, at the time, was in her 20's. We had a female friend over who put the moves on my wife and next thing you know we're having our first FFM. We went headfirst into the LS from there.
We got in it together. A spontaneous MFM with a long time friend of ours, back in our 20's. (early 1070's) That started pillowtalk. Went to a meet and greet and got 'inducted' into a very classy group. Stayed with the group for seemingly ages.
I was 45 working as a private security contractor in Iraq told wife to find a friend to full fill her desires while I was away. We both found others to play with while apart and then together when I returned.
50 years old. I told her we was going to Jamaica for vacation, she thought it was a great idea, we went to Hedo 2. After the second trip we were in the lifestyle
how old where you when started swinging an how did you get spouse involved
