Phnx,
The problem is that you see difference in color of skin but your deaf, dumb and blind to understand the differences of being Black in America and White in America, and you would need to read Baldwin and study history and read African American literature and listen to African American voices, past and present, to begin to understand that difference. But you have no empathic curiosity, so I don't expect that from you.
We are all creatures of self-interest (as well as creatures, I hope, of compassion and kindness and love and empathy, and I could list you a million ways easily how whites have profited over their whiteness and dehumanizing African Americans and denigrating them to a subordinate , inferior status, and how the consequences of those actions or the legacy of that anti-black racism are still all around us.
Baldwin was the son of a minister, and he turned to writing essays and novels as a way of preaching, and his preaching in part was to try to save American as a place of equality and justice, which had been wrecked by that long legacy of rendering African Americans inferior to the white man. He wanted to use his words to create a more perfect union, a more just America, a more fair America, and if you think he was just out to profit himself materially, you are hopeless and clueless.
Have you ever read an essay by James Baldwin? What do you know about him other than what I have said? Are you speaking from ignorance or knowledge? Are you just projecting a stereotype on Baldwin? Just because maybe a primary concern of yours is making lots of money does not mean that is the primary concern of every writer, minister, teacher, professor, social worker, judge, etc.
Baldwin, if you cared to understand him, could save you even maybe from a dessicated understanding of people and yourself. I don't know you but you are have as much depth, complexity, and understanding as a slice of Wonderbread has taste compared to the rich range of breads that one can. savor, including brown bread and pumpernickel.
You cite some cases where in your experience white men and black men are equal. But let's say you are standing in line to get an airplane ticket or there is some problem with airplane reservation, and you want to talk to someone higher up than the person serving you, and then you keep going higher up to solve the problem, and one privilege of being a white person is that the higher up you ago in a business or to solve a problem by talking to people in power, the much more likely--like a 98% certainty--that you will end up talking to another white person.
There is something that money can not buy: intellectual curiosity and empathic curiosity.