Visual stimuli on not?

I don't think you're an anomaly. It's not that I don't appreciate beautiful bodies, but they only turn me on if they're inhabited by people I like.

Words. Words and talk ( in person) are more stimulating than pictures. Smells, taste, words. For me are the epitome of sensuality. I have had friends - not necessarily 'hot, stud, handsome ' men who looked me in the eyes with a martini in front of us, and had me in a positive dither for hours before completing the task on hand

I can think a woman is hot and not be sexually aroused. Arousal for me come in forms of attire, flirtation, body language and a woman’s intellect along with her ability to transmute it into brain stimuli.

A woman who expects a man to be erect and ready with a snap of her fingers, without other interaction won’t cut it with me, she needs to show effort, which is part of the chase I adorn, if she isn’t willing, she will have a longest short night.

Some of us are In absolutely no hurry and like a fuck partner that can relate when things are heating up.

I’m not sure why others over the years that posts in the forums that “we are not looking for another spouse” believes that a different approach to lifestyle preferences with interaction to play means bad news, but there is also another side of the fence to just meet and fuck approach.

~Allen

Just going by the one other time you mentioned character in all of your posts, you tied it to politics. My apologies for trying to figure out what you meant by one’s character. Happy to see you don’t judge others because they love or hate the ex-President. You’d be amazed how many of these assholes do. And yes, it’s awful both ways.

Judging by one of your previous posts “character” to you has a lot to do with politics. You’re not the only one on here that feels that way, however, it cuts your playing field in half. Your wife has the right idea, in my opinion. You’re not here to find a spouse, you’re here to add spice to the sauce. If “character” is what you’re looking for, go stand outside a DNC convention and hold up a sign that says SWINGERS.