I guess my 1st had an ultimate fantasy. She barely knew me yet she let me do things she never done before on a first time seeing each other. Practically a blind date... as our facial photos were all we had to go by. It was not much of a fantasy for me as I knew from her messages that she was deprived from feeling held close sensual sex. I felt more like a gigolo in providing for her needs, while picking up the tab as a gent. Two things in one. I knew she was touchy by her twitches, in a way it was stimulating her. Having sex with a stranger she barely trusted, probably was her ultimate fantasy mixed in with having an encounter that was deeper than being submissive to a mans needs.
As for me my ultimate fantasy, it's now within reach but it is not sex driven, but when I do obtain it, sex will definitely be part of it, and it will be in years not days.
Donno... that is my take for her. I wonder has anyone found their ultimate fantasy and is willing to share?