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Open forum: Politics and such
Lack of response on emails
Why don’t people on SLS practice professional courtesy such as RESPONDING to emails. How hard is to say “no thank you”. It’s just common courtesy when someone sends you an email t…
17replies572viewsWhy do people close their Private pics?
This happens so often that I'm assuming there must be something we're missing. When you connect with a new couples, everyone opens their Private Pics and there's mutual interest..…
5replies569viewsSee who has opened pics?
Is there a way to see a list of people who have opened their private photos to us? I see a lot of comments like “if our pics are open we’re interested” but you don’t get any notif…
by MGDR314replies567viewsPics being rejected.
For the second time in two days, we're having Facebook friendly pics rejected. The one from today has a shirtless pic of me (male) from the waist up. Illiacs are showing but penis…
by iron_couple9replies567viewsBachelor Bachelorette Party!
Me and my fiancé are looking for fun ideas for our bachelor and bachelorette party well something we can do together any ideas?
by Twodivine23replies566viewsIs it Guys or Women in couples profiles more active?
I am wondering what the ratio is if its the guy in the couples profile is the one seeking or is it the woman? Who is more active on the profile? Or do both of you actually sit dow…
by lenoircple7replies566viewsWTF? IM of the day
To call out SLS members who are not here to defend themselves is considered bad form. Consider genericizing your post.
4replies565viewsGrace
Now for something a little different... What is the first thing that comes to mind when someone uses the word "grace?" All answers are welcome. Respond with a work, a sentence, a…
by tbrmskss11replies563viewsSLS is getting attacked by aliens ????
For the past several days I have been having more trouble with SLS communicating. Now the Message part is buggered up. It takes me to the wrong message place and is much slower...…
8replies563viewsScience News
Why not a science thread? Plummeting sperm counts, shrinking penises: toxic chemicals threaten humanity Erin Brockovich The end of humankind? It may be coming sooner than we think…
by that7girl6replies562viewsGot A Maybe A Silly Question About A Former Site
Please don't kill me. I honestly don't know the answer. Does anyone here remember the site Swapper Net? I met a ton of good people from that site. A ton!!! At that time it seemed…
by BruuceWayne2replies562views- 5replies561views
Back in the middle ages
I was watching the History Channel and learned that back in the middle ages, they celebrated the end of the plague with wine and orgies. Does anyone have a specific location and d…
5replies560viewsPHOTOS
Trying to open my personal photos for IM chat friends. ????????? What do I do ....hard to get hold of the Help people
2replies560viewsMeeting
Where do you like to meet new people? We prefer to meet at parties, meet and greets. It seems easier to meet people and play there, than if we meet outside of parties for the firs…
by cvsoftswing2replies560viewsSend nudes.
is there any exhibitionist lady who enjoys sending nudes to a single guy?
1replies559viewsForum cleanup
When and why? Obviously, I am not around here as much, but I saw some mention of a clean up in other threads, so I was wondering what happened.
by irishrose224replies558viewsHow to respond?
We had some questions about organizing a swinger party. Some of the questions that are hard to answer, we like some input on. One of the major ones we always get is "How many coup…
4replies557viewsFREE PROFILE POSTINGS
We are life time members.....I have talked to other paying customers here and they agree why should you clutter up the system with free profiles, to me they are like BOTS. They ar…
1replies556viewsVR Headsets and Sex
We love our Oculus 2 Virtual Reality headset. I use it for exercise (I'm a Beat Saber addict and the other day I did yoga on the edge of a volcano lol) I loved the Van Gogh immers…
7replies555viewsDistance Problems
Hey, has anyone noticed the distances between cities being wrong or off? We have looked at profiles that say they’re are 50 Miles away which isn’t bad when we could split the diff…
by KingDMelonE2replies555viewsHow do I change my entire profile
No longer with partner. Need to change name and all content.. How do I do that?? Angel
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Messages isn't work
Quick issue before I head out to work. Messages isn't working. I can't open or see any. I tried to create a ticket, but not sure if it's working. Since a ticket uses the messaging…
by AbstractFun8replies553viewsHow has the 'Rona impacted your interesting going forward?
Given the current state with the 'Rona virus, how has this impacted your approach to the lifestyle? Will it make you more cautious? Will it change the way you participate /interac…
by 6zcouple7replies552viewsPictures
Does it irritate anyone else that people have same pics up for over 5 years??? It's not that hard to update.
by sexylulous664replies552viewsStupid Bowl, or Stupor Bowl
I’m not sure which would be a better name for that mess we watched yesterday. Don’t mind me, I’m just bitter. I wanted both teams to lose.
by hotluvrs3replies552viewsSome times I just do not know what to say
The male of our couple (Me) takes care of all the online stuff... emails etc etc... both here and on the other two sites we are on... I really do answer every email sent to us. Bu…
4replies552viewsMen and women; I'm listening.
I am a male, (I'm Bi) over 50. When lost or confused YES, I do ask for directions. That's what this topic is about, directions or suggestions. Here's the deal. There are no real c…
by dragonrapide4replies552viewsHelp
Me and my wife just decided to reopen the relationship.. How do I actually meet and talk to more people on here? Or anywhere. We live on the MA/RI border and looked up a few clubs…
4replies552viewsNot interested, thank you.
No one is entitled to an answer, specially single men. I get that, I really do. But, telling someone you’re not interested can save a lot of time and shows you as someone polite,…
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Sensory play
We like to blindfold and tie each other down, then treat each other to sensory stimulation all over. We’ve used fingers, tongues, breasts, beard, vibrators, feathers, lambs wool,…
by GingerScots8replies549viewsHBO’s Chernobyl
Anybody watching the HBO Chernobyl miniseries right now? The geiger counter is becoming the soundtrack to my nightmares. I never thought a piece of graphite could be a better vill…
3replies549viewsLet's make this interesting.
Given how people find it difficult to reject others, here's a painless way to go about it and make it a standard thing across the community. It is tough to verbalize rejection. I…
by 6zcouple6replies548viewsRoommate.
I have been ask to move n with a couple. He is straight she is bi hot wife. I don’t have to work. They will take care of all my needs. Believe me, they have the means. The house,…
by Ironman19751replies548viewsKey West Fantasy Fest anyone attend
So SLS swingers anyone attend? Word is from south Florida news that it has now forever changed to more of a straight Halloween dress up event vs the day gone by era of painted bod…
by RonKathy7replies547viewsAlmost a CV19 induced screw-up
I'm working from a home office of course and sometimes there is some slow time, so today I started sorting out a desk drawer that had collected miscellaneous stuff over the years.…
6replies547viewsAre you in the US buying ED drugs from Canada? If so which one?
I had been buying generic Viagra from Canada Drug center but they were shutdown by the US govt in July. Never had a problem and the drugs worked a swell if not better than the act…
by owcangrace1replies547viewsMassage for wife
Hi All, My wife and I will be in Cabo San Lucas for a couple weeks starting 10/12 and I’d like to get her a sensual massage. I know there are happy ending places everywhere for gu…
by fireball2104replies545viewsFantasy come true
Thought maybe this could be fun… tell the fellow forum-ers a fantasy you had that you were able to make come true! Share as much or as little detail as you’d like. We will start i…
5replies544viewsSouthern California Clubs
Are there any clubs in Southern California where a younger more appealing crowd gets together. No offense but we are in our early 40's and have visited the local scenery and lets…
5replies544viewsSetting up a Meet n Greet
Hello! If any of you have set up a Meet and Greet can you please give details. What type of venue did you use? How did you spread the word about the event? Did people show up? I k…
by Stell73782replies544viewsNews of the World
I can't find a "news" topic. I guess they all got zapped one way or another. At least 215 bodies of aboriginal (read: Indian) children were found in a mass grave outside of a form…
4replies543viewsWhy do we have to rate pictures?
Why do we have to rate pictures on here as "child safe" or not? Children shouldn't be ON this site. Why punish the adults for a few juvenile delinquents?!
by midagehippie5replies543viewsConsent
News of the vanilla world suggests that there little education and less understanding of consent. (CNN recently reported that only 8 states require education on the topic of conse…
3replies543viewsQuestion?
your appearance and profile are fine, but unfortunately alot of couples are not looking for single men. find the ones that are.
by CopNkitten7replies543viewsAmazing Facts About the Clitoris
“The clitoris is not a button, it’s an iceberg.” — Artist, Sophia Wallace. The clitoris doesn’t usually get a lot of press. It’s usually upstaged by the vagina, which often gets l…
by FunInMidwest5replies542viewsnew friends section
the new friends section is not good. it can't look at the friends here
3replies540viewsSwinger Parties
We just attended a swinger party at a couples house. We drove ninety miles to get there down some dirt road. We arrived on time and were introduced to many people there. It was no…
by MNJFLA3replies539views
