Real talk : Please be honest

As a guy who plays solo and as part of a FWB couple for me it’s situational. When solo, I primarily am playing with a Hotwife while the hubby watches. I almost always use condoms except for the finish. I can last 30-40 min with a condom and really have to concentrate hard to cum. I have positions that are easier for me to finish in due to the angles and how aggressive I can Be. My go to finishing position is standing doggy style as I can really go hard and fast. With a sexy attractive wife, I can usually play 2 rounds before I’m wiped out. It helps to have a partner who is vocal and able to tell me what she likes so I can help her cum also. I’m not selfish and it’s really important to me to do the things she needs me to do to help her cum as many times as she can.

If I am at a bigger event or house party with 6-8 couples I have a very different strategy. I can’t cum 6-8 times with each wife...just not possible. I do take the generic blue pill so I can get and stay hard all nite. I will have sex in different positions for 15-20 min with each of the wives over the evening, but I will only cum 2 times. I don’t fake it unless the wife really wants me to cum inside her to help get her off better. I can fake it with the best of them, but since I have a condom on they really can’t tell I faked it....although I don’t loose my hardon immediately so I usually throw on some undies till it goes back down.

"If you always play with condoms , please don’t attack me. I’m just stating what feels best to me"

Everyone has their risk profile. Like most guys. I hate condoms, and am not 100% opposed to non-condom play. There would have to be some sort of discussion about exclusivity in that case though (i.e. the parties agree we only do non condom with each other).

Most our play tends to be pick up play at clubs as of late (haven't done a date through SLS since maybe July), and no condom is not an option we are comfortable.

Thanks for asking Candy. I do have sensation with an implant though not as much. I do not ejaculate as easily but when I do it is very intense. The tradeoff for me is that I can pump up and stay hard for as long as I want. The penis is a little wider as the tubes go on both sides in the penis. The cock gets hard and I can feel the hardness and love it. I usually do not come but can fake it with the best of them. It is a great feeling to look at a woman and think I want her. To be able to ask her to play and be able to please her. For me to come I like to look at porn, and simply jack off. Keep in mind by the time I can come is is very intense and I shoot lots of hot come. Please continue to ask questions. I am happy to respond and hopefully will convert more men that can not get hard and stay hard. The AMS 700 from Boston Scientific was me and my Doctors choice for various reasons.

Overeducatedcouple, thank you for responding. I have mixed feelings about playing with condoms. I’m all for being safe and realize that STI’s can be passed without having symptoms however I do love the sensation of skin on skin contact . The pleasure is indescribable and not the same with a condom. If you always play with condoms , please don’t attack me. I’m just stating what feels best to me

MNJFLA
Thank you for your candid response. Can you educate the rest of us? Do you have sensation with an implant ? I’ve never been with someone with an implant but I’m curious.

Man here, and I have faked orgasm before to help my partner explode. Also, not sure how many people are aware, but a man can learn to experience non-ejaculation orgasms. I learned this years ago through study of Tantra and it really adds to the playtime experience. Because of this, I have been accused of faking when in reality it was a 'tantric' orgasm, no ejaculation. Took months to explain to my current partner that I am indeed orgasming with no ejaculate. (She was sad because she thought she was not satisfying me.) She now understands clearly the benefits of such male orgasms. (One can have dozens of these prior to actual ejaculation - this turning typical short encounters into day/night long sessions.) Anywho - just thought I'd chuck this out there for those interested.

I had two back to back (like within a couple second of one another) during one play session. The woman who was playing with us was shocked by the amount of cum. I don't always get off though as I'm a very stubborn orgasm and condoms don't do me any favors.

Since having a penile implant and my medications I have problem coming. I fake it works for me.

"Yes the post is directed more towards women but some men fake it also if a woman is too loose for them."

Honestly, I never fake my pleasure with loose women and fast cars.

Or tight women and slow rides.

Where did you say you're from? I think my tongue just got hard.

I'm reminded of Leslie Nielsen as Frank Drebin claiming that he faked every orgasm...

Step1letsmeet, thank you for replying.
I love , love, love receiving oral! I agree, just feeling someone’s wet , soft tongue between by legs licking my erogenous zone incapacitates me. I’m weak for a talented tongue . Sorry for digressing however I still long for the thick , hard cock that pounds me until I release a fountain of gratitude.

"Damn it. I’m pretty sure I just fell in love again. Or, in lust. Or, whatever the hell that feeling is."

And that's how the "I have safety issues" lemon gets turned into really delicious lemonade. ;-)

“ I only have sex in view of other people, which allows me to relax, which privacy doesn't.”

Damn it. I’m pretty sure I just fell in love again. Or, in lust. Or, whatever the hell that feeling is.

Molly, thank you for responding
I’m envious of your ability to cum from penetration alone . I definitely need oral to cum but I also love giving oral .

No, I don't fake it. I have a super responsive body, am fortunate to be one of the women for whom penetration alone is enough, and have no qualms about either giving instructions or a demonstration of what works. Also, with people I don't know, I only have sex in view of other people, which allows me to relax, which privacy doesn't.

Hello hotluvrs ,
Thank you for responding . Yes the post is directed more towards women but some men fake it also if a woman is too loose for them.

I’m assuming that you are talking to the women. Yes, my wife will fake it. Especially during a gangbang, faking an orgasm sometimes helps to get the guy off. Some guys will try to hold back until the women is satisfied, but during a gangbang, for my wife, it is all about the “next”. Get in, get off, get going.

I’m curious about how many of you really have orgasms when you play with random people or do you fake it ? I will start the discussion by saying there have been people that I played with but never had an orgasm but it was okay because they were very sweet and nice people. I could never hurt anyone’s feelings. Please share your experiences.