Play time talk

In the time since my last post, yet ANOTHER couple reached out wanting to meet tonight. This is crazy, even for us, not that I'm complaining. None of this was even on the radar as of this morning.

This is a guy with a FWB. He has played with the Mrs before and they both had a really good time, but I've not yet met his FWB. I let him know that we likely already had plans, but in the event that changed....

All of this likely sounds great, but honestly, we could just as likely be spending a quiet night at home with just the Mrs and I. It's just the nature of the beast when it comes to play plans. As you can probably imagine, there is a reason we gravitate towards the "more the merrier" types as we've have had small impromptu parties pop up like this at times.

As is usually the case, it's feast or famine and this weekend is feast-mode. Aside from the party Sat, we have 2 new couples that kind of just popped up. May be meeting one later tonight and another on Sunday. Haven't had a trifecta weekend in a while.

Of course plans can evaporate as fast as they materialized, but both sound promising as additions to our LS friends list.

Just took a look and the RSVP list is up to 96 people for the house party we're attending this Sat. There are about 5 guys for every 3 ladies at the party, so there's a good chance the Mrs will have fun, and I pretty much always have fun ;-)

Unfortunatly the last party wasn't that great for the Mrs even with 3 guys for every lady. She played with 3 guys and not a single one could get and stay hard.

This is a house party though vs a hotel room party, so the dynamic is a little different and there are more than twice as many people attending, along with a number of our regular friends that always do well with both of us.

I don't believe the lack of forum participation is indicative of the LS as a whole. Yes, the forums used to have much more participation, but that was prior to FB and FOSTA.

It also looks like FB groups and select areas and groups creating their own communities is where a lot of the participants are nowadays.

But, if adding stories and activities brings about more participation here, I'm all for it.

In our area the lifestyle is alive but not nearly as well as it is in your area.
House parties are just not very popular here in the Louisville metro.

We are headed to Florida this weekend. I looked up parties and events for the Fort Lauderdale area. It’s quite a contrast to where we live. On another web site here are two club events listed and no parties at all within 200 miles of us. In Fort Lauderdale there are a dozen or so events posted. Some of the private parties have over 100 profiles signed up.

A while ago, someone had indicated that the forums used to have a lot of posting activity around people recounting their LS adventures, especially after a weekend. I also see a number of people that enjoy hearing sexy stories. A lack of both made some think that the LS was slowly dying with more people leaving the LS than were entering.

From our point of view, the LS is alive and well and actually growing in our area. On average, we attend 2 LS parties a month (not including our own) and we have a date night with a close by couple to go out mid-week 2 or 3 times a month for dinner/drinks and to play cards after, and some bedroom play if all are up for it. Probably also meet with at least one or 2 other couples per month.

This past Sat was a LS party and both of us had a lot of fun. The hostess had a fuck-it list (like a bucket list) and had a number of combinations she and others wanted to do.

Usually, once I play I'll stay naked for much of the party. A women friend called me and another guy over because she was in the mood to suck a couple cocks. Then she wanted to get spit roasted, so we were able to oblige her. Unfortunately the other guy couldn't get and stay hard, but she was happy with what we were able to do to/for her.

I cleaned up after I came and then came back and she asked me to bite her neck while she continued trying to get the other guy hard, but then said she couldn't focus on that once I started nibbling on her neck, so I let her focus ;-)

This Sat we have a party with 20 people so far, which is about half the size of this past Sat. There are currently 15 guys and 5 women, but this is a bi friendly party so a number of the guys will play with each other and not just the women. Either way, should be extra fun for the Mrs and I always have fun at these hotel room parties.

Hope to hear from others to let all know that the LS is indeed alive and well as I can't imagine it's just us having fun here these days.