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@ DB- It could be the attire in your default photo. Try changing it to a shirtless one of you holding a fish in one hand, a can of beer in the other and see what happens.

Hope this helps.

"The swinger lifestyle is high school all over again. All the cliques are still there, the car guys, the nerds, the jocks, the cheerleaders, the rocker druggies, the hillbillies, and more."

You missed flat-earthers. Anyway, something for everyone. Just like the real world.

Whodathunk?

We drink wine and eat food...

ANDRERWROBIN

There is one couples profile that keeps coming up on my Random Matches list whose tag line is "Looking for upscale people who KNOW food and wine".

I have no idea what males SLS think we could possibly be a match.

MedicAmber,

The swinger lifestyle is high school all over again. All the cliques are still there, the car guys, the nerds, the jocks, the cheerleaders, the rocker druggies, the hillbillies, and more. Also "leagues" are in effect, as in "out of your league". People swing within their "league" 99% of the time. You are back in high school, and there's no changing it if you want to participate in swinging.

@MedicAmber, I so agree with your statement. I've seen people get picked on and then vanish from forums and eventually their profile goes away. While this is my first post in forums I do read almost everyday and your statement in my opinion is worthy of a reply.

I enjoy reading the forums. Sometimes I see people picking on others which reminds me of my high school days. The mean folks tend to be overly blunt or aggressive. Other words Brash, crude, ignoring common courtesy. These members remind me of "The Cool Kids". As I was a Nerd in school I'm happy with who and what I've done in my life.

The question marks at the end were supposed to be crickets.

What’s with the no reply people?? All over their profile—little one liners..”Check us out”..”send the bird” bs. Then we send a multi line greeting message, open pics and ??????????

Good question.. Some people on forum can be very rude and quick to judge and some are nasty.. Just hit that block section on their profile that's what it's here for. Even people that are posting replies are forming an opinion.

I've actually read some topics where people are getting torn apart and shredded.. I was taught from the very beginning that swingers except each other we are all different just a thought. I would just start blocking people.. funny thing most of my block list are from people here in forum.

Just a vent...

It is that moment when you realize you can never like a person that is within your immediate family.

According to your profile, you have been a member since 2003.

20 years on SLS and you are just discovering this now?

cwtipper - If you do see people doing that, sometimes it's meant to actually help people, but is usually proceeded by some sort of "why won't anyone play with me" kind of complaint by the person getting profile advice. The advice can be perceived as an attack. People can have an off-putting profile and not even realize it.

If you reached out to someone and they came back with profile advice, it could well be that they were turned off by something in your profile. So many want to know why the answer was "No Thanks", and then when they get an answer, they complain about it. Like Sorillo said though, with no other context, nobody has any idea what your complaint was really about.

FWIW - Complaints in general are not always well received and particularly so by SMs. Not saying this is you, but many SMs on sites like SLS are their own worst enemy.

lol yep

Yup and yup

LOVE IT... Kudos Sorillo

Ping pong.. next

I love how people here post cryptic comments about how everyone else is a poopy-head but passive-aggressively expect everyone to know what the hell they're talking about.

What are they attacking you about?

Not having pics?

If you "love" it, there's no need for this subject.... Right?

Whether social media, vanilla dating, or adult lifestyle, pics are the key to seeing who you're talking with.

I love how people on here will attack your profile and I don’t even know you.