No interracial .

Vabeachcouple,

No one’s arguing. Do you feel that way?

Who are you arguing with, Trainer?

I don't think anyone is actually disagreeing with you per se. You seem to be lecturing us about terminology adopted within the lifestyle as if we created it or are defending it.

Perhaps you're simply asking people not to perpetuate it, which is fair.

Anyone think that English is his 2nd or 3rd language?

I know my Italiano while living in Italy was like Trump speaking English.

Funny though. I understand the slower Southern Italians better.

I've seen women or couples meantion BBC and BWC.

I've seen them request white or light Latino only. I've seen women say light Black men only. She likes Black men, but not dark. I'm not offended.

They could say Black men with big cock only.
Then average to small Black men would be slower to message them. I've seen women request average guys, not size queens.

Each woman has their own size and color preference. Some don't like uncut dudes.

Ckmste, you win. You one up'd me. You win.

So, as I was saying...
Let's not belittle and ridicule the new guy.
Nobody came into the lifestyle WITH experience and hip to urban and suburban myth and jargon.

What if the guy never asks questions?
Or gave up on the site or lifestyle?

Everybody has always been the newbie at school, work, military. Everybody had their questions called stupid.

Unless.... Ckmste hasn't?

Let’s make it more clear.

If a profile says no BWC. Are they saying no to white men or no to white men with large penises?

Also, the original post in this thread is big time lol-worthy. If a man with a small dick felt intimidated and worried about losing his partner to a bigger cock, I'm pretty sure he wouldn't be concerned about the color of the dick. Which is bigger....an 8" black cock or an 8" white cock?

T

"If a profile says no BBC. Are they saying no to black men or no black men with large penises?"

I'd say the general consensus would be that they are saying no black men regardless of their actual dick size...which definitely validates your point that BBC and Black Male are not exclusively one in the same and that the label of "BBC" definitely refers to black men more like a commodity or tool rather than as individual people.

T

CopNKitten....

that’s the point I was trying to make.

If you label, call or refer to black men as simply BBC, which is the stereotype, then you’re implying that all black men have large dicks.

BBC just stands for big black cock, an appendage.

I’ll prove my point.

If a profile says no BBC. Are they saying no to black men or no black men with large penises?

"If black men are BBC, then all black men have large dicks."

not true in my experience. also not true that white men don't have large dicks. each man is different

“Wife wants a _______(well endowed/hung/above average) black man.”

Any of those terms would fit and are suitable.

Or you can go the numbers route.

“Wife is interested in black men, with 8 or more inches.”

Using the term BBC just solidifies the stereotype. If black men are BBC, then all black men have large dicks.

Well, that's the language people typically use in their profiles. Sometimes they say they specifically want black men, and sometimes they say they want "BBC".

While I appreciate that this is referring to people as though they are a disembodied dick, that's the term they use. I don't think I've ever seen a profile demanding a black man with a BBC.

Yes it was a blunder. He could have propositioned the question better, but it is a valid and interesting question.

From my experiences, people have their preferences. There’s nothing you can do to change that. If someone chooses not to educate themselves or see beyond certain concepts, let them be.

And to clarify black men and BBC are not synonymous. Using that term alone is a stereotype in and of itself.

One is an appendage and the other is a person.

yet, Mr ‘8’ inch, you feel pretty high and mighty to come out with your own guns blazing because of MY opinion of the OPs post.

The title of ‘hypocrite’ fits you well!

Hotluvrs

I do know what you mean. Seeing "we don't want (race) people" in a profile leaves a significantly worse taste in my mouth than "we want".

Kind of like "I really like Mexican food" is a positive statement, but "I don't like Indian food" is not.

8inch, it is a pretty funny post that deserves a bit of fun ridicule.

For me, the funniest part is the assumption of the tiny peckered husband that abounds with inexperienced sm's. It becomes more amusing when they do so attempting to insinuate that they are well hung, huge, etc.

What I do not like in the least is using racism as bait to brag about yourself in the way in which the OP does. He didn't just shoot his leg off. He shot his leg off and hopped one legged into the croc pit.

"really enjoy when people are able to blow their own foot off with just one post...
...this guy took off most of his leg too."

Why do you enjoy it? Why pile on?
Your attempt to show the world you're smarter and more exp'd in the lifestyle?
The guy is newish and will learn there are no written rules to the lifestyle.
Everybody had to live and learn.

But, I guess you showed him!
Give him some knowledge, don't belittle the dude to make yourself feel bigger.

Ok, I get that the original post was pretty stupid, but I do understand the idea that any statement saying something like “only play within our race” is a whole different vibe than other statements professing a preference.

What!!!? People have preferences on who they find attractive and want to play with. Who knew and why weren't we informed sooner.

Or blah blah blah nobody owes you any explanation for what they want or don't want sexually.

For every couple who says "no interracial" I see a (white) single female with "BBC only" on it.

I see some, but not many, black couples insisting only on other black couples.

Once in a while I see a black couple where they insist that one half of another couple be black, but the other can be whatever.

really enjoy when people are able to blow their own foot off with just one post...

...this guy took off most of his leg too.

Most couples who state they won’t play with other “races” are Caucasian... I imagine there’s a man with a tiny pecker afraid of losing the game they start.

I think the male feels intimidated, and is afraid his partner will truly enjoy. (I might be mistaken).

Or some guys want desperately two girls, but they don’t want their wives to experience two guys...