Have you seen them all?

Gotta catch 'em all!

Polemon!

It’s undeniably clear now. Thanks.

BT

Yes, BT. You could be wrong, and most certainly are wrong if you don’t believe the denial of the thing that you thought you saw, but never actually did, otherwise they wouldn’t deny the thing that you didn’t see. See?

And, to be OP, your post had the word “I” four times in the first few sentences, so, yes, we thought this was all about you

“It isn’t about me or the lack of a response.”

Wait...you began this thread with... “ I have read every single profile around. All of them. I have written to every profile where I believe I could be a good match according to what the profile says. Five answers to say “no thank you.
What’s next? ”

I think that’s probably why you’ve received the responses you’ve seen thus far.

Maybe you need to explain that What’s Next part a little better?

I could be wrong though. These days, you can watch someone on live tv say something, and deny saying it a moment later and some people actually believe the latter, but I digress.

BT

I see Velma every day and time I open my SLS page. Not that it’s tedious or anything, it’s nice to know she’s waking the chickens to wake me.

:-)

~Allen

Yes...

It's like that in small towns or cities.

Not that way in ATL, Miami, Philly, Phx, LA, etc.
Millions and large neighbor cities.

It is what it is. Whether SLS, POF, Tinder Grindr, AOL or Yahoo Dating.

Stay for the job and family, or relocate to get a bigger dating and swing pool.

no

Perhaps I didn’t explain myself correctly.

It isn’t about me or the lack of response...

The question was: have you ever opened your SLS account and thought “the same people over and over”

There’s also a pandemic going on.

But yeah – post in the better profiles forum.

Definitely change up your profile. Start a tread in the better profiles section. There are some things that you really should amend. Get rid of the selfies especially the ones in messy rooms. Take any negative statement out of your profile. No one wants the possibility of negativity or drama when meeting someone. If it is in your profile then it will most likely show up with you. You may have it there because of discouragement or bad experience. Keep in mind it is a red flag to most couples. Get rid of all of your pics and put up nonselfie ones at the same you update your profile text. New pictures will get you a second look at your profile. Good luck.

It's simple, really. If you don't like the results you're getting, then change something. Get out to LS events or clubs, update your profile or pics, change your wardrobe, etc. There's a mountain of options to choose from. Your success is in your hands.

Most importantly, be realistic about your expectations. Us SMs just aren't in as much demand, so we have to work harder.

I have read every single profile around. All of them. I have written to every profile where I believe I could be a good match according to what the profile says. Five answers to say “no thank you.

What’s next? Have you ever open your SLS and see absolutely nothing or anyone new? The same people every time. What do you do now?