Hilarious.. since when do people swing with GUMBYS .. if you are on a swing site have a well written profile and nice photos or it is NOT happening.. and YES swinging well over 25 plus years and our guys and gals get it!
Huh, I thought freebie people had it bad. Post a public picture in your profile. Though even after I removed mine peeps still open my profile. Be honest in details, either they feel there is a good vibe or they run. I rather have a runner than have them change their mind during a face to face meet up to get aquainted. I see a lot of peeps lacking confidence on both sides. When playing with couples, men seem to be the one to make the decisions. Being too confident when texting you have no clue to who is on the other end. One day could be the primary person from the profil, or partner, or both. In other words swinging single is more difficult with obtaining a couple for play time. IMO if you want sex, its how you communicate. I've gotten more fun in not looking, just texting without requesting or exchanging pix, as strange as it seems.
Right??? I mean, they all have the same chiseled physique and skin tone and we just can't wait to respond to their titillating reach outs laden with completely reasonable excuses for why they can't do what thousands of other legit profiles seem to be more than capable of doing on here even with "families" and "super important jobs".
This can happen for so many reasons. I think there's some other threads on it. For us, specifically, one thing we have hesitation on is profiles without a profile pic. I realize privacy concerns, but we're also a married couple with high profile jobs and even kids. So, single male profiles without a profile pic get a pffft from us by default. You can have private photos, but that's far different than being able to share a default profile photo. Single males who do not, we by default have to assume they're cheating husbands. And there a lot of those on here.