Ghosting

Wow Ed and Brit. That is some story. Good thing you knew the club people or you could have been banned. Some people are just assholes.

People come and go (and sometimes get weird) in the lifestyle... especially newbies.

If it happens over and over with every couple you meet then it's probably something about you.

If it was just this one couple then chalk it up to experience and move on.

Exactly.. we have some wild stories too.. maybe need to change forum to Wakcos and what they do !

Like us learn , do a better job vetting and trust your first impressions. they are usually right even after being "ghosted" !

We had a psycho encounter like that once...

Met a couple on here. The wife would do all the communicating because he didn't have time to chat during working hours and it was summertime and she was a teacher so she had lots of free time. Then we moved the communication to KIK ... you know, because its a chat app that works, unlike trying to shat here. Wife was very forward, came right out and told me the nasty things she wanted to do with me lol ...

They were completely new to the LS ... hadnt had any play experiences yet with others, but they decided that they were each allowed to play separately because they had a newborn, so that cut down on sitter expenses. We had made plans to meet at our home club and the 4 of us play.

So sometime between making the club plans, and actually meeting them there, the wife had her 1st solo play date (important later).

We were going to the pool party at the club during the day and we had hosting duties (giving tours) at night. So we told them when we are done hosting at 11, we are free to play.

My wife starts feeling crappy at the pool party, so we left way early, went to the hotel and she slept like 4 hours (turns out she had a sinus infection). She we still went to work our host shift at the club but she tells me she isnt playing but if the couple wants me solo, then she is ok with that.

So when the couple arrives, I inform them of everything and we say, we'll touch base later on playing etc. We chatted with them a bunch throughout the night.

Later I go ask them if they want to play, and I even tried to find a friend to take my wife's spot (we had a single female friend there that def woulda joined in ... I went looking for her but couldnt find her) ... so husband tells us to go play. I ask him if he wants to join too but he said no go ahead.

So his wife and I head off and have a great time ... She screamed, she came, she squirted, she yelled for me to fuck her ass harder ... all signs of a good time had by all.

Next day, we are blocked on KIK ... go to SLS ... blocked there too.

I come to find out from somebody else that chatted with her on sls, that she said I couldnt take no for an answer and I wouldnt leave them alone and I pressured her to play ... WTF??!! ... She called the club owner and told them all this about me ... none of which was true. I asked once about playing and they said yes.

So my guess is, since the wife got to play at the club, and she had that solo date the week before meeting us, that the husband flipped the fuck out and made up all this shit about me.

Some ppl are just Fucking Nuts!!!

Hmm seems it speaks volumes on what they thought then doesn't it... or as we have run into once a couple said they were experienced swingers but when it came to getting down all in same room at our home.. the guy went BONKOS and became a jerk.. he was quickly escorted out and they have not been back on SLS.

One other time we ran into a NEW SLS couple in Charlotte NC who requested my wife , our special guy we were traveling with and his wife.. they had a fantastic 2 hours of hot sex.. as we drank some great bourbon and watched.. we call that a one and done as they are nowhere to be found on SLS now.

Would not allow this to define your swinging as there are all sorts of people who really do not swing that say they do on SLS... move on and you enjoy your journey and learn from all experiences.. we do. .

You as single or couple, talk, meet and play with the perfect single/couple, everything was amazing! You agree to see each other again!

You come home and they blocked you, don’t answer text, they’re just fine!