Finding guys

why do you suggest he is being dishonest?

you could try being honest and list yourself as BI instead of just bi-curious...

Was thinking that providing proof of STD status implies bareback play. That could be limiting as well for a number of reasons.

As for trying to meet LS people in general, parties are just way more productive than online. You may want to look to see if there are any LS parties listed as Bi or Bi-friendly near you. If nothing else, you'll be able to meet people and get contact info for them.

We have a Bi party by us, but one of the party rules is that condom use is expected, though I suppose you could negotiate otherwise if all agreed. Being that you are looking for guys, you are probably already aware that there is no test for guys for HPV.

Well looking at your profile you don't exactly say what you are looking for. Another downside is that you both are smokers. That would be a turn off for us and we like playing with bi friends. Maybe add some additional pics also. Don't have to show any faces but some hot body pics may help. Lots of "straight" men couples are also into bi play. Don't give up!

Why is it so hard to find bi guys? I mean actual bi guys. Not the “you can suck my dick but that’s it” kind of bi guys. I mean I understand that not everyone wants it in the ass but seriously, you’re not bi if you’re only willing to let another guy suck your dick. You’re just a straight guy who is willing to tolerate a guy sucking your dick just so you can have sex with his wife. We want a real bi guy. Which means at the very least he’s got to be orally bi but we would prefer a bi guy who is versatile and wants to play with us both. Why is that so hard to find?