humiliation...is not part of the Cuckold scenario...IF that play leads to that you probably knew in advance...The lifestyle is not bound by any one persons Penthouse Forum scenario....Then on the other hand its my belief most here in the politics forums are not in the lifestyle anyway
I'm not trying to judge people who enjoy the sub aspect, even to the point of humiliation, by way of expressing my disinterest in that type of play. I have encountered people who fall into the hotwife/stag-vixen or just voyeurism/compersion zone of MFM encounters but say somewhere in the conversation that they're interested in "cuckhold" play, without knowing the possible connotations of that description that they may or may not be after. Since I very much enjoy the two men one woman dynamic, I think it can be worth further polite exploration of what cuckold play means to them. I wouldn't want to let a fun time get away over unreasonable fear of a train wreck.
A similar situation is when I find a couple, perhaps a newer couple, where the guy describes as straight, and who suggest they're looking for an "MMF". I would say at least half the time this ends up being a simple matter of confusion over terminology.
VA - "The whole "you happy to have a real man instead of that worthless tiny cock?" aspect. I find that approach to be a huge turnoff."
Unfortunately, at least in my experience from the ones that have reached out to me, this is exactly what the male half is looking for. I think one of them even used that exact wording (i.e. worthless tiny cock). This whole thing kind of comes under the realm of "acting", both on the cuck's part as well as the Dom/bull.
While it's not something I could ever do and mean it, doing it with the idea that it is wanted/desired might be something I could handle, As mentioned though, I've only ever run across people that want to talk and fantasize about it, but not actually do it for real.
I'm also not Bi, so having a guy clean me up after I fucked his wife isn't something I'm interested in, so I also wouldn't be an ideal candidate for this kind of play.
"I would never humiliate anyone , unless they wanted it as part of the play."
how about your wife? does she know you are on here?
OT~ to each their own. watching is one thing, but not into men who like to be humiliated or submissive.
Yes, I agree. My understanding of the word "cuckold" was a bit narrow, referring to the situation of him being humiliated or at least not really having any say in the matter, at least on the surface.
That's the major difference between stag/vixen couples and cuckold/hotwife couples.
I can get into the idea of doing a girl in front of her husband while he watches, and I've done this - and watched Mrs. VA - a number of times. The whole "yeah baby you liking that? Good." aspect.
But I cannot get into the humiliation aspect, even if it is explicitly wanted by them. The whole "you happy to have a real man instead of that worthless tiny cock?" aspect. I find that approach to be a huge turnoff. Obviously this is not the case for some, and definitely "chacun son gout", but I wouldn't want to be part of that in any role.
Some ladies like guys to shoot load after load into them and then the guy takes her. To me that is a little too much.
I understand that this is not about stealing and man wife, it's only for the pleasure of all involved.
"I would never humiliate anyone , unless they wanted it as part of the play."
I should certainly hope not, since anything other than full and enthusiastic consent is inappropriate and unacceptable. But even if humiliation is part of a cuckolding scene, the solo guy leaves and guess who - to use a very old fashioned concept - gets to keep the girl? The third person, no matter how intense the scene, is pretty much just a tool that enhances the couple's sex life.
Yes, it is definitely appealing to some men even when it includes humiliation, which is part of traditional cuckolding as far as I can tell. As often is submissiveness of the male partner. Including to the point of "cleaning up" the other guy's cum from the woman. None of these is appealing to me. Fucking the hell out of another man's highly aroused wife in front of him is, however, appealing as hell. Though I prefer participating when it's my partner involved, there are some times when I'm happy to watch...at least for a while.
I do agree also with GGMM that there is a broad appeal to the concept minus the humiliation. I would say that (i.e. deriving pleasure from watching your partner pleasured by another) is so broadly appealing as to qualify as normative behavior in the lifestyle. I think that's why there are an increasing number of alternative terms evolving to describe this type of play including, "Hot wife play", "stag/vixen", etc.
That really sounds like it would be really hot, pleasuring another mans partner as he is forced to sit and watch. Then be told to clean up.
Though I have never actually gotten to the point of meeting a cuckold couple in person (that I'm aware of), I have chatted with a few that have reached out to me. In all cases so far, they wanted to be told/made to do things and got off on the idea of that. For example, being told to clean up his wife's creampie after a guy came in her, preferably making him watch while the incoming guy made said creampie. A lot of them want to be told to lick the guys cock clean, forcing them into Bi play behavior they might not normally do, but want to.
I think for the ones that reached out to me, it was a fantasy that turned him on, but when push came to shove, it was all just fantasy and not something they were prepared to act on.
I have no doubt it happens in real life, and as GGMM mentioned, it doesn't have to have the humiliation aspect to it, but it is apparently one of the draws to this fantasy.
In a lot of respects it kind of reminds me of a Dom/sub scenario, where the incoming guy is the Dom. The hubby/bf does actually want to be told or made to do things.
I would never humiliate anyone , unless they wanted it as part of the play.
Certainly not every man, but it's a very popular thing both in porn and in life. Also, it doesn't have to include humiliation, which increases the size of the population it appeals to.
Sure wish I could find a couple who enjoy this.
Have you ever looked at Pornhub and searched for "Cuckold"? It is a very popular category. I believe it has also been discussed elsewhere in the forums, but the short answer to your question is Yes.
Do men really enjoy this?
