saw all the viagra headache comments and thought I'd help you out. I take the blue pill and I always take it with Advil and pepcid ac as it can also cause heartburn. again!
Viola! No headache, no heartburn and I have an 18 yr old cock again!
Headaches happen in those men with high blood pressure. Viagra is the greatest sex drug of all time
For those who took the time to answer my questions I want to say Thank You. To comment on a few things said. I know this is mental and not a health issue. When it comes to those situations or any situations I could not ask for someone more understanding then Jenn.
I also know as we age things don't work as great as they use too but from what I am gathering the "Blue Pill" seems to be a man's best friend in situations like this. Have never attempted to take one, but will enquire with the doctor for a prescription and give it a spin.
Thanks again and wishing you all the best experiences you can hope for. :-)
Really that is a first? A woman that preferred rare rock hard cock in her mouth instead of her pussy? But hey that is one of the fun things about sex different people doing different things.,
Then you don't know women..She was determined but not impressed. It was long time before she wanted to go down that road again.
BLM well she was impressed that you where rock hard that long and wanted your cock in her pussy instead of her mouth.
Awwww, I didn't know you cared. I'm positively verklempt.
Ha! I dated her for a year and half after that. I made sure the next time she didn't get lock jaw...
Sorillo when was the last time you had sex with someone besides your hand?
““hour and and half blow job” “
As much as I love sucking on a dick, I’m afraid after that long I’d be using a phrase coined by another Shelly... something like, “Suck your own cock I’m going to the mall now”
Mrs U
IN ACCORDANCE WITH THE PROPHECY
Viagra is the greatest sex drug of all time. Even just for my wife I take it once in a wile for her pleasure. A healthy mans cock gets rock hard way harder then normal, women love it.
For women if they take Viagra before sex their pussy gets 30% more sensitive, my wife takes it before group sex when she is going to be fucking all night.
I remember taking Viagra after a VERY long marriage... all I can say is that for the first couple times I was a board.. but couldn't cum...the only complaint I got was after an hour and and half blow job... but the complaint that sounded like ..Zzzzzz...
"All men who are experienced in group sex take Viagra before the sex begins."
For anyone new enough to believe what random strangers say on the internet, don't. In particular, this poster is an unreliable narrator. And that's his good quality.
I know, I'm not a man. But I've had a lot of sex with a lot of men, almost exclusively in semi-public settings like clubs or parties. The vast majority have not taken ED drugs. Maybe three regularly and half a dozen occasionally, plus one guy who should have but didn't and got so spun up that he eventually retired. How do I know? Well, people have a tendency to tell me pretty much everything they've been thinking for the past week or so, plus the refractory period is different and the consistency of the erection is likewise a pretty reliable indicator.
Being difficult to distract is a pretty useful quality for swingers, but it's one you can learn. Just practice a lot. ;-)
Oh shut up!
/for many years I could not get it up in group without Viagra, I just have to know why about everything that I am interested in. Once I discovered how the porn stars got it up in a shoot I worked at being able to get it up in group without Viagra.
Well actually it was last year at Sea Mountain when group sex started in the hot tub and there was not time to run to our room.
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NNJ Its a rare man that can get it up in group or on camera without Viagra. Back in the days before Viagra, in porn the man who could get it up was more valuable then any of the women. They where that rare. in the clubs and swing parties no one did group sex. it was all full swap off to a private room. The club we went to had little " cubbbies" stacked three high on the walls. kind of like a coffin box big enough for two people maybe three fit people. Mattress mirrors and a curtain over the front. people
I can get it up in group without Viagra but why bother to put out the effort to put the blinders on.
What you are experiencing with the inability to get it up in group is normal for almost all men. All men who are experienced in group sex take Viagra before the sex begins.
Not only can you get it up in group and also be able to enjoy all the visual stimulation around you, your cock gets so rock hard the women all love it.
If you don't want to use Viagra then you have to learn to block all the visual stimulation around you and put mental blinders on so you just have 100% focus on the woman.
See you went to the orgy room at Freedom Acres, that is the last real swingers club left.
To OP:
I had to work up to public sex. I had an issue on our first full swap where I could not get and stay hard. I found out about generic Viagra that's available online for less than $1/pill and got some. They worked well and as I got more confident that things would just work in a more private setting, making the leap to public sex was seamless once we finally got to that point.
I used to think the pills were as much mental as physical. One time I had thought that I actually took a pill and didn't and had issues in a public setting. It wasn't until I put my pants on after and felt the pill still in my pocket that I realized they do actually make a difference.
I've said this in other posts before but in case you missed it, a common side effect of Viagra is a headache. Before you run out and order a bunch you'll probably want to try it first. Little point in having a boner if you get a headache in the process.
Not all swingers are sport-fuckers. ;-)
It happens. You can try a more private setting in a club, which works for a lot of men, or an ED drug. Mostly though, just get out of your head and don't worry about it. It's a distracting environment.
Female half here, yes it’s not unusual for men to experience similar “shyness” issues when they are new to sportfucking. It takes a bit of time/some patience but most men overcome it with the help of an understanding partner.
Greetings Men and Ladies as I would like all opinions. Certain things Men do not like to talk about or may be embarrassed but I would like some honest answers to be able to enjoy certain situations even more and to make my Jenn enjoy it more.
Jenn and I have only been to two clubs. One once, the other twice. The second club requires all men to be naked. I was able without even thinking about it to go down on Jenn even on a couch next to the dance floor. Jenn and I are exhibitionist and very much enjoy being watched. But as turned on as I was, I was not able to get an erection. Behind closed doors this is not a problem but in public I have not been able to change the brain connection to say "The hell with it, it is perfectly ok here" Jenn did say that it is certainly mental. Society has told you your entire life that being naked around strangers or certainly getting an erection is not ok. That makes sense of course.
So my question is, have any of you experienced this and how did you over come it?
I thank all of you that take the time to answer honestly and wish you all the best,
Ian
