I love condoms!

8inchcableVeteran
Milwaukee, WI, Us

"TIP: ALWAYS lube your cock before putting the condom on. It helps you stay hard while putting it on. And it feels better when you are fucking. Also lube her or your condom covered cock before insertion."

But not too much lube on the inside. Too much will make it slide off. It's happened to me.

On the flip side.... Carefully watch who is playing with your wife/GF. There are lots of guys that intentionally over-lube the inside to make it come off on purpose. Like those dudes that slide condoms down a little bit when you change positions.

mayhem8Veteran
Auburn, NH, Us

Aanother thing that is pretty wel known now but something I learned the hard way is that coconut oil breaks down latex. It's a great personal lube, but not if using condoms.

Palmerton, PA, Us

TIP: ALWAYS lube your cock before putting the condom on. It helps you stay hard while putting it on. And it feels better when you are fucking. Also lube her or your condom covered cock before insertion.

If you get too soft, if you are inside her, after you have cum, be sure to take the condom with you as you pull out. It's not so safe, and a little embarrassing to have to fish it out of her.

YMMV

mayhem8Veteran
Auburn, NH, Us

We have run into a few women that have latex allergies, so I've been using Skyn brand for a while. They are at least as thin as the Trojan thins and come in sizes.

Prior to putting one on, once I get it out of the package I'll just unroll it slightly so I know it's oriented the right way.

Only other thing is to use it when you get hard. So frustrating for the Mrs when she gets someone hard with a BJ, only to have the guy lose it because he insists on licking her and can't maintain.

Mentioned this elsewhere, but Viagra and other ED drugs make it a lot more likely the guy can maintain an erection while putting a condom on, but good point about having them handy, and perhaps even have the package torn open. Sucks for everyone when the guy loses it while looking for or fumbling around with a condom.

RonKathyVeteran
Woodstock, GA, Us

HL we second that brand too.. we have a variety of sizes in a red bag!.. and for us always travel with our "pink" lube!

Palmerton, PA, Us

Dude, your wife needs to teach my wife on her special talent ??

hotluvrsVeteran
Jeffersonville, IN, Us

“ Other suggestion is to try different condom brands out to see which one works best for you. I like thin condoms which are more sensitive.”

I like the Magnum Mega Monster size, because, well, you know...

GoodenuffVeteran
Brooklyn Park, MN, Us

"Here’s a scenario: you’re at a party, things are heating up, she’s begging for it and asks if you have protection..."

With the whole COVID thing, I'm wearing a Tyvek suit with a powered air purifying respirator. and she asks if I have protection?

Bitch must be blind.

Sorry, I just had to.

White Plains, NY, Us

Other suggestion is to try different condom brands out to see which one works best for you. I like thin condoms which are more sensitive.

New Orleans, LA, Us

I was going to slide in to offer an additional tip (or two) but you seem to have it all covered and I don’t want any ribbing for being redundant (I am a bit thin-skinned) so that’s a wrap!

~Scamp

hotluvrsVeteran
Jeffersonville, IN, Us

This a thread for condom tips, and no, I’m not being punny

Here’s a scenario: you’re at a party, things are heating up, she’s begging for it and asks if you have protection, you say “wait a minute” while you dig out a condom, open the package, figure out which way is up, struggle to get it onto your quickly deflating dick. Apologize to the woman, “this usually never happens”.

Ok, no one really loves condoms.

The reality is that many couples, such as my wife an I, won’t considering playing without them. Especially for single guys, if someone is a condom master, they’ll have a better chance of having sex, and more of it.

Where I work, I train people to do some physical tasks. I find that skill levels begin deteriorating within weeks, and are seriously eroded after three months of non use. People remember what to do, but the muscle memory fails. It’s inevitable. Condom use is no different.

If you haven’t used a condom in months, your condom skills have weakened, I guarantee it.

Here are my tips for a more satisfying condom experience-

  1. Practice. And get your wife or girlfriend to practice. We practiced for a week and my wife could get a condom on me while giving a blowjob in about two seconds flat. When she’s on her game I can’t even tell that she’s putting it on. Believe me, that skill results in her get more dicks that stay hard at parties: a win for her and her play partners.
  1. Be prepared. Have the condom ready to go, foil wrapper partially torn open, within easy reach. Know which way is up. By the way, most condoms are in the package with the tip facing the logo. As you slide the condom out keep it oriented the same way so you know which side to put on your dick.
  1. Programming. Like Pavlov’s dogs, we can be conditioned to respond to stimulus. Use a condom occasionally with your wife or girlfriend. Do that often enough and your brain will have your dick getting hard at the very sound of a condom package being opened.

I hope some of this makes sense, and I hope it helps some of you newbie (or wannabe) swingerS out there.