Hotwife

Agreeing to meet and not showing, exception being an emergency, is so much more than rude! Ive rarely sought an MFM found myself in a few unexpectedly though, and was and will be, there for my own, and my partners' enjoyment.

That guy was a fool Onehotnywife. You are so sexy.

Our very infrequent forays into setting up an MFM with an SM outside of a LS party are more miss than hit. Since we go to LS parties regularly it doesn't take much for me to just stop looking for SMs ever. It just isn't worth the aggravation.

We are at the point that we are not looking anymore.We have a close friend that we play with often and he knows anytime he can come over we all get together with no drama and we end up playing or if I am not home he will play with my wife with no problem at all.Sometimes we all go on trips together or her and him will go on trips together.It’s a great relationship with us

We are at the point that we are not looking anymore.We have a close friend that we play with often and he knows anytime he can come over we all get together with no drama and we end up playing or if I am not home he will play with my wife with no problem at all.Sometimes we all go on trips together or her and him will go on trips together.It’s a great relationship with us

Most ghost cases for us this last 2 years... we found out they were married or had a significant other lady !

Bingo these and their BS... like we are not going to find out!

We had a similar experience a couple of years ago. Nice looking guy big cock all about meeting us. Set to meet at a Buffalo Wild Wings low key no pressure. Texts us he is around the corner at the light when I contacted him about being late. 15 mins go by. I go to reach him again on SLS and he had us blocked. What is wrong with people like that?

Onehorney: Yes. We were stood up Saturday by a guy we've actually seen at parties. We set it up. He texted he was 30-45 minutes late. He texted that he was parking. And never showed up. By the time we got back home, he had blocked us on sls. We researched the phone number given and it seems it was a fake #. We can only assume he is cheater/creeper.

We never saw him enter the tiny wine bar in which we are cozily enjoying ourselves. So, we're not sure what happened. Cold feet? Wife found out? Thrill seeker only?

We do this at LS parties all the time. Usually if she's doing an mfm or mfmm I'm not directly involved. Neither of us at this point has any desire to do completely separate dates. Not saying that couldn't change, but we both like to play and both enjoy seeing/hearing each other having fun with others. I don't have any problem with her playing with anyone she wants to while at a party.

If we were ever to do completely separate dates it would be like others mentioned and with someone we both knew well.

We do this at LS parties all the time. Usually if she's doing and mfm or mfmm I'm not directly involved. Neither of us at this point has any desire to do completely separate dates. Not saying that couldn't change, but we both like to play and both enjoy seeing/hearing each other having fun with others. I don't have any problem with her playing with anyone she wants to while at a party.

If we were ever to do completely separate dates it would be like others mentioned and with someone we both knew well.

franhubby. We are also having a difficult time meeting decent guys to join us. Seems over the past few months the quality has dropped off considerably. Lots of young inexperienced guys thinking they can just get whatever they want with no effort to impress a woman. Lots if losers!

Couple4:
We both enjoy her playing alone. The times she has, it's been with guys or couples we know very well. It has been extremely hot for all involved.

She generally won't meet new gentlemen alone in private settings until she's built some form of trust between all of us. And like Ronnkathy, that usually means he plays with us together at least one or more times.

With all this said, it seems very difficult to meet new decent guys right now. We do have some trusted single guys she can meet at any time she desires. And they are really great gentlemen, we like in and outside of the bedroom. We also set expectations in messaging and in person for what she likes and does not like erotically and socially. We also really care that the gentleman has a good time he is fulfilled as well. Win - win!

Appreciate the replies.

Same here as ONE.. we both have played with single guy or married guy (in 3sums).. who can play alone once ALL have played together and they fit what we seek, enjoy, and get what we are about including the security of Kathy while with the other guy! Does the guy have some class, does he dress nice, is his car well-kept and not a pig stye. You get what we are saying. Its also easy to VET people in this day and age and see if they have lied to us about anything like cheating on wife!!!

We have done this for years and it has worked out very well and in fact invited the lucky FWB on some trips with us to Costa Rica and Florida!!

The return visits home are mind-blowing sex always !

Any alone play my wife has done is with someone we have played with together. After a couple of times doing MFM with a guy if we are both comfortable and see he isn't some crazed killer we will see if just some hot wife play is in the future. It has worked out well a number of times.

First, only do what both of you are comfortable with. It won’t be good if you are second guessing and a nervous wreck. Try and start with someone both of you know well. Safety is always a big issue and we like to, but not always, meet the sm together ahead of time. You can set up a camera and watch real time or she can send pics and video clips during the play date to keep you updated. This is a lot of fun and it lets the sm know the male partner is still involved. Just talk through everything first and find someone both of you like for the first time.

Question for Hotwife scenario. We have been active in the lifestyle for years and enjoyed it all from men to women and groups. We’re evolving as I like to sometimes watch her with others and not participate. Leads me to asking what did you guys overcome to let her go on her own and enjoy another man or men on her own? Were you close by but not involved or did you trust that it would go well and she would be safe? Want to try this but not sure I can get over the anxiety of knowing she is safe…… advice?