Obvious reasonings have been expressed. Ive been observing this phenomenon for almost 2 decades.
Bi male intolerances are falling off the same cliff as most intolerances must. That said? I thoroughly appreciate a cpl writing "no bi guys", thins out my "who's on" page by knowing who to "block".
Yet here you are still
I do everytime this dull subject with the same dull answers from the same dull people come. Glad you have a home here...
LOL
There's no obligation to read the thread ya know. Move along if the conversation doesn't interest you.
The bisexual police are here again. Can we find something new to discuss?
Bob,
Feel like you kind of dodged the question TBH. Do you tell those straight couples that are clear in their desire to not deal with bi guys that you've had some bi experiences?
Many aren't transparent about their bi experiences and openness To us that's a lie of omission and part of the reason why bi guys get a bad wrap.
@A&J…. Of course boundaries, expectations and “no-go”s are made clear in advance of meeting anybody. Couldn’t imagine going into a “date” without everyone being on the same page. I guess maybe people meet based on profile alone, we wouldn’t.
Here's the problem Bob. When a couple reaches out to you and you look at the profile and it clearly says "no bi men" do you tell them that you're straight but have had bi experiences and don't necessarily rule it out in the future?
Seems to us their intent is to say to all that they don't want to play with anyone who is open to bi play especially if they have bi experience. Are you open and truthful with them and let them decide if they're comfortable with you? Or do you simply not say anything?
Most who we encounter take the latter route. They simply don't say anything.
I don’t consider myself bi. But, in the context of MFM and MFMF play, I have had my cock played with by the other guy and have returned the favor. I don’t seek out guy/guy action and would withdraw from most guy/guy activity. I think a lot of guys look at the bi label and don’t identify with it, but would still be fine with some stuff. Bi, or not bi?
Once we posted I am bi, interest in us doubled! Lotta guys are embarrassed to admit they'd love to suck another guys cock....Although
selective, I love it!
I agree with folks that it is more important to be honest right up front. If you are not comfortable with who you are then I do not wish to play with you.
Guys tend to be MUCH more reckless when it comes to their sexual health and safety. Combine this with the fact that anal sex is by FAR the #1 way HIV is transmitted... andnyou see why many are afraid to welcome gay/fully bi guys into their sex lives.
Plus, many women are COMPLETELY put off by male gay sex. Most women enjoy a man who is masculine in the bedroom, and the image of hom getting railed by a guy from behind has a way of erasing ALL signs of masculinity from his persona.
Yes. It is NOT fair... as most guys see the image of their girls playing with another female as a major turn-on! It just doesn't translate in the other direction for most women.
This is the 9,456 time this has been posted.
Who knows? As many answers as there are clandestine bi guys...
The main reason we get from guys when we ask this is that they realize some folks won't play with bi guys. So they're leaving their status as straight to not be ruled out by those people.
We see that as intentionally lying to those folks. And if they're willing to lie to then then they're willing to lie to us. So we immediately rule those guys out.
If your bi ,even just orally bi why not post that on your profile? whats wrong with being bi?
