Getting Started
New swingers start here.
Baby Steps
First off sorry if this post doesn’t belong here. Let me know if it doesn’t and I’ll happily take this down. A little back story my fiancé and I have been together for 11 years an…
by Olivia4334replies936viewsTrapeze or Genesis?
We are Nashvillians but thinking of exploring a bit maybe to Atlanta or Memphis. Anyone have a preference of clubs and why perhaps?
by wv_tpa0replies626viewsWhere can/should we go for our first club visit?
We are trying to get out there and experience what this has to offer, but we're kinda stuck trying to find a good place to start. We've played on video in the chat rooms, but we w…
by MandM2632replies882viewsBest public place for a first meeting?
I didn’t want to hijack a similar thread in this forum, so I’ve decided to ask his as a separate question: what places do you prefer for a first public meeting? I love hotels. But…
by hotluvrs5replies1,291viewsWould love to find someone to help this newbie
New to lifestyle and would love to connect with another female on questions, etiquette, etc.
1replies796viewsFirst meetings
We are new, and the only in person meetings we’ve had was at a bar takeover and a “second date” with a couple we hit it off with at said party. Another couple we’ve been chatting…
10replies2,207viewsNavigating the site
I’m finding it really hard to use this website on my phone. I uploaded a picture and I guess it was too big as only half my body shows up. I also thought that the picture would be…
by MollieKen5replies1,007viewsAcronyms?
Does anyone have a quick reference guide for all the acronyms? I am starting to figure them out, but oh my golly it would be faster with reference sheet! Hahaha HWF ?? Haven't fig…
by Stell73787replies1,317viewsDoes anybody really want to play?
We thought we wanted to take the route of meeting couples outside of club where we can have drinks and get to know each other then have a very nice hotel to play. We talk to sever…
by Deutsche3452replies4,883viewsGuidance new game .want to have fun
We are a couple that is looking to have fun with a female. I want to be with a woman while my husband watches and participates. I would like to watch him with her soft at first bu…
6replies754viewsHall Pass
I REALLY want my guy to enjoy a "hall pass". I am not sure how to arrange it for him but it is definitely one of his fantasies. Ideas?
9replies1,812viewsNew Person
I’m a widow, an older woman who is looking to enjoy herself. Yes I’m very new to this but life is to be lived. I’m opened minded but need to ease into it. It doesn’t bother me it…
by wyndan19263replies993viewsWhat to look out for .
Hi! New to the swinger seen and curious about previous experiences and what to look out for when meeting people online? Do you share your real names? Do you have any suggestions f…
5replies1,311viewsChicago couples massage
Does anyone know a sensual couples massage in chicago? Or just a male masseur for my wife with happy ending?
1replies539viewsWho is invited?
I'm new to the site and working on figuring things out. I have a question that I haven't found information on. I see that many parties and gatherings have the disclaimer: "Sorry,…
by Prof100014replies878viewsCouple looking for single female.
My wife is bi curious and having a threesome has always been a fantasy of mine we are both very interested. First of all I feel it's hard to find a single female interested and on…
by Airdriscoll97replies1,007viewsNew to the lifestyle and bit frustrated
My husband and I are brand new to the lifestyle. We have been interested for quite some time and decided to take the plunge on a house swingers party. When we showed up, we were g…
14replies2,372viewsShared pictures
I looked around and tried to search for a website thread but I couldn't find one. Is there a page to see who has shared pictures with me or do I just need to stumble on a profile…
by pmoose47443replies1,099viewsProfile
We have been in the LS for just a few years now and I have noticed a trend. Outdated profiles. We have met some great people and had some very good times but it is very frustratin…
11replies1,343viewsNew to the lifestyle
We are new to the lifestyle. I don't know if we made our profile right. We haven't met any friends other than the one couple at a club we went to. I don't know if it's because we…
3replies972viewsNew to this CNY
This is actually a bit more difficult than I thought it would be. Looking for a bi couple to play with. Unfortunately no actual bars or clubs up here. We’re on this site. Other su…
2replies596viewsHotwife(anklet)
We were curious when a couple goes clubbing and wife is looking for a date, does wearing an anklet signifythe lifestyle. Or is rhere anything a wife could wear that only people in…
2replies1,526viewsOlder Couple
You already said you brought it up and she said no. There's your answer. Is it possible she just enjoys looking and feeling sexy and would appreciate some support?
3replies1,141viewsNew to the site :)
Hi hope you're enjoying the summer! Hoping to make friends anywhere along the California / Pacific coast, as we will be taking a road trip and work will keep us travelling as well…
0replies591viewsLifestyle virgins
Any all guidance and advice is sincerely appreciated. Check us out and lead us into the lifestyle. we are excited to engage and mature as with embark on this journey. We will be a…
5replies2,108viewsLittle help needed
Is there a way to create a gallery that is locked and when I respond to people’s ads, unlock for that person to see? I’m not really seeing how to do it and figure I must be missin…
2replies715viewsWe need some help!
Hello all, long time member but first post here. We need a little help & guidance on where to go (and how) in order to take things to the next level. We have been together for ove…
3replies949viewsWho wrote it?
I've read some entertaining stories since joining the group. I was surprised the authors were not listed. Is there a way to find out who wrote and story and what comments they are…
by Prof100014replies721viewsNew and want to explore
Hi all, after having fantasized about other people for quite sometime, we are wanting to explore the idea of swinging. We are completely new but totally open to the idea so we wan…
by Midlo20044replies884viewsnewbie couple or experienced couple
we have decided to meet a couple for drinks and see what happens. We are not sure if we should meet newbies like us, or a more experienced couple to start with.
2replies789viewsFinally starting to move forward
My wife finally made out with two guys and let one suck her tits at the bar the other night. What’s our next move? Would love to watch her have fun and take it to the next level.…
1replies684viewsFirst time at Club
We are new to the LS and will be going to a club for the first time. Any suggestion?
3replies1,168viewsNew to the area and SLS
Me and my wife are new to the life style and are looking for a party or meet and great in the fort drum area
by Bbwolf19881replies631viewsPlay rooms.
The wife and I are going to be attending some lifestyle events this summer for the first time. We have yet to be with another couple, only single female. Would it be uncommon for…
by candprey5replies1,095viewsLooking for a couple
We are new to this looking ok’ing to spice things up and keep it interesting. We are looking for a couple with either bi male or female or both straight
by Micheallynn2replies817viewsSenior St Louis Missouri Swingers
Are there any couples who are over 60 who swing in the St louis mo area?
0replies513viewsWhat do you do for the first meet up?
Looking to see what others do on a first meeting specifically with single males. I know dinner or coffee are common but looking for other ideas? I like the idea of meeting with so…
by Here2play8985replies1,595viewsI’m new to this
Really exploring what’s out there. I just lost my gf and I’m trying to get back up on the horse so to speak does anyone have any advice?
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Been away for a while getting started again
We have enjoyed some time with couples some time ago, its been close to 8 years. While we don't really consider ourselves newbies, as we have an idea on expectations and what we a…
by FredTammy18replies1,785viewsHello! I am new to the community!
Hello all! Thank you for taking some time to read my post. My name is Ace and I am new to the site and just wanted to introduce myself! I am excited to join a new community and ho…
by adachaz127replies754viewsSexual Social Media and Why it Rarely Works
There have been success stories in our generation which found their beginnings in the dot com phenomenon. The world of promiscuous sex is not one of them. No doubt, the swinging w…
by _Tramp_92replies5,291views- 9replies2,458views
Real names or Knick names?
I think knick names would be fun, like alternative egos. He thinks it's not necessary and we would forget and mess it up. What are your thoughts?
5replies942viewsNewbie Couple Looking for Friendly Couple/Mentorship
I am sure lots of newbies would have asked where to go from here. We are one such couple and clueless. We just want to get introduced and honestly looking for friendly couple or m…
by laveenia9replies1,427viewsHotel party questions
I've never been to a true hotel party but planning to attend one the first weekend of June (total hotel takeover). I will be celebrating my 40th birthday too! How do people usuall…
by Sexywifey4u2replies1,152viewsPic Galleries
I have been trying to give access to my personal gallery to other members. Each time I try to do this, I click on the personal set of binoculars, and choose the time frame, when I…
by Jamesandzoey6replies1,599viewsMarried Couple looking for something new
My husband and I are looking to try out new, sexual things. Definitely new to the lifestyle. Would love to find a single female to help or learn with us the lifestyle....Suggestio…
2replies1,058viewsSaying your goodbyes
Hubby and I are debating this and need input. At the end of a successful date, when everybody is lying around naked and talking, when is it appropriate to get dressed and go if yo…
2replies1,206viewsWhich is better
I see many profiles on here where they are very interested in females, very interested in couples, but only slightly interested in men. Question is it better to email them, open p…
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