Getting Started
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MALE TROLLS
Not fooling anyone ! You are out there posting either a generic photo of your wife, maybe when she has her back turned in her nightie, maybe partially nude, or maybe your cock. Th…
by MNJFLA4replies1,086views- 1replies856views
Photo Albums
Hey! Not sure where to post this and I don't seem to be getting a response to my support ticket. We have created a personal album well over a month ago. It has 19 photos in it. Wh…
by BHMLT197replies1,889viewsWhat is “The Wall”?
New SLS feature called The Wall has appeared on my home page. Now the first thing we see are posts from people we don’t know. Is this supposed to be like a Facebook kinda thing? H…
by Playful082820replies2,699viewsHow to get my lady into a full swap
My lady wants to invite a female into the relationship, but i want to see her get busy with a male. I really think she wants to, but everytime I mention a guy, she says that it di…
by KRAMINATOR12replies1,221viewsNew and Looking for a Lead
My husband and I are new to this. We are seeking a couple to help us through.
6replies802viewsBeing a widower and older
I am 67 and I am still healthy. I don't have any problems. Once in awhile a pill is necessary but not always. I am a widower also which makes me a single Male. Yes indeed it is ha…
6replies1,261views- 0replies604views
First House party
Looking into holding a small house party. Any advice on this subject will be taken to heart and applied as required.
4replies1,926viewsFriends with benefits
I'm really just curious just house many people single or couples are out here to find other people to be friends with. Just someone to hang out with and tell stories to. And just…
by renob052316replies3,012viewsHedonism II
We are new to this and have never done anything specifically "lifestyle". We've been to a nude beach and webcammed. We had paid to go to a hotel takeover but had to cancel at the…
by CTCoupleCam2replies1,448views- 3replies993views
Should we be more aggressive?
We are just starting and have had a profile for about a month. We’ve sent and received general interest but then things fall flat when we suggest meeting for a drink. Should we be…
by BMandKS24replies3,264viewsGated Communities and house parties
We threw some great parties at our old house and finally are getting our new home set. We now live in a gated community, meaning our guests have to be called in to the gate. Quest…
by halftook10replies2,123viewsAdvice for a newbie hotwife couple dealing with a persistent/pushy single guy?
FYI this is a joint account and we are both asking for advice. We are a newbie couple. 1st experience was horrible, 2nd experience they both rocked each others world..I mean reall…
by RoccoLexi6919replies2,353viewsMassage +
I'd like to find a man to give my wife a real massage . . . yes, table and all, a real massage and then, if something more happens that will be fine but, got to be a real massage…
by funcplfuncpl2replies1,579viewsDisappointing weekend
My wife and I are brand new to the lifestyle. We've decided to give it a try. We have contacted folks, texted back and forth and had 2 meetings set up for this weekend with differ…
by USMCRet19939replies1,733viewsdefinitions for newbees
we're new to the sls site. Unfamiliar with the acronyms and code words. for example, I understand cuck means cuckold. what does hotwife/stag mean? Anybody?
5replies1,532viewsHaving Trouble Here
Hey guys how’s it going? I need a little help here. So I’m brand new to this lifestyle thing here. I decided to try something completely crazy but it seems really exciting and I’m…
by Youngli0n6replies1,133viewsLooking to start a new sex group
A friend and I are interested in starting a sex group in our city. Seems there isn’t much here that we know of for swingers. Any suggestions as how to get one going??
by Newbie21743replies1,111viewsNewbies looking for sexy Halloween party in or near South Carolina.
We just joined the site and have no experience but are curious yet cautious. We do want to attend a Halloween party or parties the weekend starting Friday, November 1st. The prior…
9replies811viewsIdeas for LS Social Get Together?
Just moved to a new place and we have discussed hosting a social get together for about 6-10 lifestyle couples. Could use some ideas, thoughts, advice on what you think would make…
by ckmate202022replies2,063viewsMMF
Thanks for the feed back RonKathy! You're right, I do need to invest more time and creativity into my profile. My profile is currently awaiting changes, as they haven't been appro…
1replies1,712viewsAsking for advice on the lifestyle
Hi all...I recently met a great man - who happens to be in the lifestyle. I on the other hand was solidly living a monogamous, conservative life...and I have decided to go on this…
9replies1,401viewsNew to this group. Where to start?
Hello everyone. I am brand new to this website and even this idea. I am decently shy but I am trying to try new things and meet new people. The problem is that frankly I have no c…
1replies954viewsFirst Meeting Advice
The wife and I want to eventually get to swapping with a couple but want to try a mfm to get things started (to see if we like it). The wife is interested in hooking up with a SM…
4replies1,599viewsWife concerned about getting an STD
Hi all. We are new to this lifestyle and my bc wife is concerned about catching a STD. I know she should be concerned but how do other people handle this fear?
9replies2,534viewsIs it wrong that we don't want to know you too personally before you make love to my wife?
My wife wants to experience sex with a hugely hung man. She's really built this up in her mind and wants to experience one earth-shattering orgasm on top of another as her lover c…
by ApsaraFan22replies3,364viewsswingers Movies/Documentaries
Does any of you know any good informative movies/documentaries???
by Cozmex24replies3,706viewsLooking for another women.
Hi, I have been in the lifestyle a couple years ago. Took a break. Met an awesome man. That is new to the lifestyle. I would love to make his fantasies come true with adding anoth…
3replies950viewsThe flow
We are not new to the swingers scene but it seems like we constantly get told not interested, but most the couples in the area don’t ever say why, but by the profiles it seems lik…
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Cuckolding -- the journey
I understand cuckolding as different from swinger lifestyle. When I first opened up and introduced my wife to the world of cuckolding and her becoming a cuckoldress/hotwife, she w…
by Gandhhotspot12replies2,605viewsFolks don’t like fat people here
I am going to say mean things to you, so be warned. Your profile is substandard and makes absolutely zero attempt to appeal to others. Your photos are even worse. It's like you ca…
7replies2,024viewsClubs for mature, new, and for BBW in New England
So like the title says, we are new and exploring the possibility of her having a man friend or two. We are 61 and 63 and wife is XXBBW. Hopefully some one here can give us the nam…
by Gandhhotspot0replies670viewsWe’re Newbies
So we’ve never done this, ever! She has always had an interest in kissing and touching a woman but never pulled the trigger. So we’re looking to make that happen. ???? we just hav…
by Thecees37359replies1,626viewsFolks don’t like fat people here
My wife and I are large people (fat. Let’s call it like it’s is) and seem to be no one interested in even meeting us guess we should just delete our account and leave. All ken and…
0replies818viewsIntroducing a friend
What is the best way to introduce a female friend to the lifestyle?
6replies1,063viewsClub etiquette
We’re going to our first club on the 27th. This will be our first time experiencing anything lifestyle related so we’re a bit nervous. Any club/ lifestyle etiquette/tips/etc we sh…
27replies2,955viewsAre we the only couple that just wants to start with a chat or video friendship???
Hello! We joined today and have had a nice evening going through the site (I'm sure a lot we still need to learn :-). Even though we listed watching & soft, it seems people want t…
2replies740viewsPlatonic Friends/pen pals
I'm new to using the forums, somewhat new to the site so if I'm posting in the wrong place or if theres already a thread for this going, please point me in the right direction. I…
9replies808viewsNew Unicorn - NC
Single and ready to meet other like minded people. I am a bit - stand and watch until I know you. But if there is chemistry... Watch out. If you are one of the tons of messages in…
by UnicornMelli0replies639viewsNewbie Confidence
We are new to the lifestyle. In fact we’re attending our first party in a couple of weeks which will be our first experience. My husband recently lost A LOT of weight (418lbs down…
5replies1,322viewsWanting to Get Started
I am wanting to meet some new people. Doesn't really matter if you are far away or near by. I've tried messaging people on here when it says they are online, but it's kind of clea…
1replies938viewsMeeting others in Lifestyle
I recently moved from Florida back to Arizona, and I'm looking to meet new friends. Any suggestions?
0replies900viewsNewbies Looking to Learn
Hola! We need some guidance regarding getting more swinging experiences. What we had experienced in the past is that people are willing to make the first step to reach out, and ge…
5replies1,303viewsDoes this happen a lot?
It’s amazing how many couples we meet on this page. But when we try to set something up they either ignore us, or, if we start messaging on Kik it’s always the guy. It’s getting a…
by Alexkel12replies3,307viewsNewbies and Feelings
SO, my gf and I are looking to get into this. We are a bit unique in that we have a large age gap. I am 43, she is 23. The realist in me feels that humans aren't inherently monoga…
by michdom1241replies11,561viewsWe are quitting!!!!
When you interviewed for your current job, did your resume state, "My name is Jim Smith and I need a job"? No? It had a little more detail and gave a prospective employer some ins…
6replies2,545viewsNewbies
Do you find that most couples steer clear of "newbies", we've sent a handful of emails but I'm upfront and honest about being new and feel like maybe that is a deterrent. Thoughts…
by DoubleDnurse1replies1,015views
