Getting Started
New swingers start here.
Girls are the prize, guys are the price?
Lets just say after 25 plus years swinging we will not take "one for the team".. we are both in it to have fun, good times in and out of bed including travels with our FWB.. We ha…
by RonKathy25replies3,228viewsSend us the bird?
New to site, what does it mean when a couple indicates “if interested send us the bird”?
by rufastr5replies868viewsSouthern Oaks
Winter Texan here. Same old story. Wife no longer interested. Anybody here in Southern Oaks RV Resort
by Newbie48630replies407viewsHouse Parties - What do you like to see as a guest???
Considering all the GREAT information posted by those who have house parties on the other thread (LOVED the info), Thought we would ask.... When attending a house party as a guest…
22replies2,340viewsTrying to meet ppl
Hello were new on here what can we do besides up dat profile to get ppl just to say hello to us usually ill just message the person that looks interesting. hello how are u guys to…
by Oldfart426replies1,007viewsNext Step
My wife and I were at a hotel last weekend. The couple next door (or perhaps two couples...not sure) we're very vocal and coming through the wall. Lots of sexual sounds....and wha…
7replies891viewsMilitary Swingers be discrete
Military Swingers face a rough go with the Uniform Code of Military Justice (UCMJ) hanging over their head. To insure discreteness, do not advertise the base you are stationed as…
by f105thudfan7replies1,100viewsFirst time hotel takeover QUESTIONS
We are new to the lifestyle and trying to sample all the various activities available to us. We've attended some clubs, house parties, a local meet & greet, and met with a few cou…
12replies1,798viewsWho looks at profiles more the male or female of couples
We were just wondering is it the males or females of couples that look at profiles more
10replies1,204viewsOther sites?
I'm a lifetime (now life of website) member here, and have had some success in meeting some great people through SLS. I'm curious though about experiences with other sites that an…
by bobbyjoelong7replies1,167viewsNew the group play Rochester NY
I've been wanting to join a couple or group but don't know where to find these situations in Rochester NY, any info or Interest if your in the area then please message me
1replies767viewsNew to the lifestyle. Whats the best way to meet new people?
Hey im new to the lifestyle and fairly new to this site. Been trying to connect with a female or a couple but i haven’t had any luck? Not sure if it my profile or maybe im doing s…
by Jay007bbc20replies3,724viewsKinky?
What is usual definition of "kinky" in the lifestyle? Does it mean just BDSM? Or can it mean more or just something different? Appears best solution is to just ask: what do you me…
by Arlingtonray8replies1,121viewsOne legged swinger
Disclaimer: I am posting this without my partner as my partner is no longer on board. I am hoping for some helpful insight for what seems a hopeless situation. What do you do when…
by Joinme05052replies5,002viewsRunning into people you know.
I'm sure it has happened to most of us. But, what happened when you ran into someone you knew, in the real world, at a lifestyle event? How did it come about? How did it work out?
27replies5,741viewsBreaking the ice?
I will add a few thoughts, some beyond the scope of your question, but applicable to the scenario you described for a first meeting. One - We never commit to a dinner for a first…
10replies2,640viewsThe Newbie Excitement
For me, this has been something I've mentioned to my SO for years and finally got the courage to push her on it last month, with our first trip to a club. We just dipped our toes…
by cbsreturn2replies1,277viewsGang Bang in Hotel Room?
My wife wants a small gang bang with 6 bulls and I am trying to find a place to do it in. I don’t want to do it at our house until we get to know them better. I was thinking about…
by SandLXXX3replies1,411viewsHow much personal information is usually shared?
How much personal information is usually shared in encounters that are one-time meetings with others for play? What kind of information do people share or not share with other cou…
7replies994viewsWhat are the * holy grail on books on Swinging
Can someone help me with books on Swinging BDSM I know a woman. Who in some SLS had her book but you had to order it via mail Barnes & Nobles to but I. Forgot her name plus there’…
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Any warning signs or tricks to look for, or other tips to use, when reading profiles?
SLS does not auto-update ages, so if a profile has existed for 7 years, unless they say otherwise in their profile, there's a good chance they are 7 years older than their profile…
by mayhem83replies1,052views- 9replies1,452views
Photos not loading???
I have opened this site and the photos have not been loading with the peoples profile. I have also had trouble downloading photos to the site, as they come in crooked. I have neve…
by MNJFLA1replies493viewsLiterally Getting Started
My husband and I opened up our marriage, have been talking to a poly councilor for a bit, and we are just about ready to start swinging (seeing as covid is starting to calm down).…
3replies1,211viewsAnything in Tijuana?
Hello all! We are new to this but super excited. Is there any action in Tijuana? Daniela is unable to cross the border. Tim can cross, but we want to do everything together. Looki…
13replies1,130viewsAdvice for rookies?
1. Things we should make sure to talk through with each other before our first encounter. Cover all of the bases when it comes to likes and preferences. Know your partner well and…
by HollyBlue1replies1,087viewsFear of Covid and STI's
I am new to this and this is covid season. It's hard to meet people even if just for coffee, what to do? Second, how do you know that people are "safe?" Or, free of herpes or hpv…
6replies1,388viewsJust joined an excited about it!
Hello everyone! I am a new member to this site and very excited to reach an meet new people! This is both inside and outside the bedroom. As new as I am to the site I’m also that…
by JustKain14replies1,642viewsLS Lessons I've Learned
I know that similar threads are out there, buried well beneath the News of the Day, but this is a little different. I'm starting this just to give me a place to make a note or two…
260replies24,313viewsSleepovers ???
How many people like sleepovers? We have with very close friends and enjoyed time with them. New couples we just meet we tend not to sleep over. Our thoughts are that if it is goi…
by MNJFLA27replies2,783viewsSex Chat
So we are very new to this lifestyle but we have known this was a fantasy of our for over a year. She has slowly been getting into the sex chat thing with other guys but having a…
by 00gagt30replies4,934viewsWife was in
Okay so the wife and I have get to take the plunge. Haha little about me married 33 years faithful 60 M Straight I have been in the lifestyle. I was a bull in a ski area got invit…
15replies2,719viewsI need help with my husband
I'm 33 weeks pregnant. At 28 weeks I was put on bed rest and told not to have sex...it will only make the baby come early. We are both open as long as in the same room. I know my…
by softkisses16replies6,283viewsHow was your first event?
Hey everyone just wanted to introduce myself, I just started getting more in to this lifestyle, I mean I was never shy to perform in front of people, but then again they were just…
by anthonygv9225replies3,815viewsWhat is a hotel party like?
Thinking about going to my first hotel party. I play with my boyfriend sometimes but I'd probably go alone. What's the setup? Do people mingle in a common area and then go back to…
by Leucadia19replies3,831viewsStarting a topic and never responding to replys
Regardless of topic, it's always bothered us when people (usually new people) start a thread asking questions of the community, numerous experienced members come back with helpful…
by calcanfun27replies715viewsHello People I just Joined
Hello I jus joined. I am looking forward to meet new people for hang outs, fun and friendships
7replies952viewsWhat’s wrong with a friend request?
So in my opinion if u add in ur profile that ur interested in single males and also say Single men if we are interested we’ll contact u! But get a little additive when i send a fr…
by Funfun880880replies5,439viewsHow can i hide profiles im not interested in in search function?
How can i hide profiles im not interested in in search function? Is there any button to hide those profiles?
by DragonXX1replies791viewsSwapping pics
Are there any couples on here that wanna swap pics. Cant be same area as us. So anyone outside Chattanooga. We arent wanting to get into anything close to home.
by tntctr0replies761viewsHeading to Pensacola
We are heading to Pensacola in October and would love to meet some of the hot couples we see on this site! We arrive on the 18th and would welcome some ideas and and news about pa…
by Koolkids21replies562viewsLooking for advice on safe first meet.
I am new and planning my first meet imminently and wanted to get advice, dos/donts, ALERTs, etc. from experienced sls members. I want to make this first experience as memorable (i…
14replies1,818viewsNewbie questions
The screen name isn't too bad. Support should help you out if the transition is possible. You do have options once you click on "edit profile" that will limit who can view your pr…
by HollyBlue49replies7,091viewsAny swingers dating sites that anyone knows of
So I was wondering if there are any sites or groups for single swingers looking for relationships. I would like to find someone that wants to be in a relationship and still be abl…
by ecitycpl10replies3,066viewsSwinger lingo?
Can anyone give us all the lifestyle terms? Like and swinger dictionary.
by TimAndRobin2replies1,137viewsSpouse is hesitant
"How did you convince your spouse to try out swinging?" not by making a single male profile behind her back
by CopNkitten2replies1,329viewsHow to make it work when couple has different needs
The wife enjoys the same room and being watched while playing, and hooking up at parties etc. The husband has more poly interests, and prefers having a single play partner. Any ad…
7replies2,119viewsGoing down on a lady
I love it. Sometimes that's all I need. Some I have met feel the same. Others only enjoy it as foreplay. Strange. I could spend an hour going down on a lady and 5 minutes getting…
12replies4,081viewsNew Friend Feature
Ok so does this mean the friend has full access to private pics as opposed to using the binocular button which permits access for a set duration? I dont yet see the point of rhis…
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