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Meaning of Select Single Men
When they put "Select Single Men" in socials listing on here, does that mean single men who do not look like a movie star should not bother trying, or does it mean they are going…
by Ymichael1427replies2,867viewsGood or bad to mention political persuasion in profile?
Probably best not to discuss politics. We've seen a few profiles that state the couple is liberal or conservative & some even state "No Trump supporters".
by TomandDiane128replies8,532viewsActually looking like your pics
We met a couple and they said that we actually look like our pictures...I thought that was crazy that they said that...yes those are our pics and they’re current....the other coup…
93replies8,947viewsBest Houston area lifestyle club for 60+ newbie people
We are trying to figure out which life style club in Houston would be a good fit for newbies at 60+ . Regards C and T Kemah tx.
1replies455viewsAre there any beginner resorts clubs or events for newbies?
Hey! We are new to the Lifestyle. Literally just in the curious/learning/baby steps phase. We were wondering if there are any beginner events? Like a LOT of newbies... wading into…
12replies2,009viewsMeeting Swinger Friends
Suggestions on how to.meet swinger friends? We aren't new to swinging...been almost 4 years since we started. But Jean and I are both painfully introverted. We go to clubs, sit al…
by midagehippie13replies1,692viewsNaughty in New Orleans for newbies in New England
Hi all, N&F here. We consider ourselves still new to the LS simply because we haven't made many friends of other LS couples yet, and maybe even found the LS scene in our area. How…
1replies539viewsApproached wife about sharing her with another man/men.
I recently approached my wife with my fantasy of sharing her with another man or men, and I gave her a dozen or more articles about the psychological viewpoint of normal relations…
by danianddoug15replies6,473viewsWearing LS apparel
Do you wear LS apparel, like shirts or jewelry, while going to a vanilla bar?
by Jrrl80813replies995viewsRequesting an invitation to a house
Ok, got it this time. I have seen it posted in these forums that you shouldn't cut and paste an email to a profile because it makes you look lazy and you can't be bothered to send…
by Ymichael144replies755viewsHotel take over
Hi everyone. We are pretty new to this and going to our first hotel take over in a few weeks. It's BYOB. Do you go back to you room each time you want to refresh your drink? I kno…
by onstandby0162replies861viewsLifestyle is a small world sometimes
This weekend I travelled over 200 miles from home for a vacation and to visit an on premise club in another state. While socializing, I mentioned I was retire military and my pret…
15replies3,173viewsWhy no responce
Every so often you come across a profile who constantly view your profile. So in return you view there's. There is interest so you send a message. To your surprise there is no ans…
by whyyeslets16replies2,494viewsIs a club a good place for a SM to start?
I see a lot of advice on here for newbie couples to start at a club because it is very hard to meet anyone online. Is that advice true for SM as well? I just think a club would be…
by Ymichael1410replies2,124viewsWhy not?
Advice to noobs. Free advice, so worth what you paid for it. When you reach out to someone and they say "not a match", do not ask "why". The why is irrelevant. If it was explained…
16replies2,740viewsPHOTOS ARE CROOKED
Nothing wrong with my camera. My photos sometimes come on here crooked. Other sites have a feature that you can rotate the photos. IM not deleting these and fooling around trying…
by MNJFLA4replies1,411viewsPhotos
Again I rant: when people continually post with no photos or no face photos we just BLOCK them. I do not know why people have to wast time doing this. One more thing men that post…
by MNJFLA7replies1,915viewsNerves nerves and more nerves
Welcome.. and I am saying this in all honesty after swinging now going on 30 plus years successfully. We have come across all sorts of people , singles and couples and some are ju…
by RonKathy6replies1,666views1st time to a club
So the wife and I our looking to visit our first club. We read dress to impress. She already has her dress picked out. What do guys typically wear. My dressed up, is jeans, a long…
3replies1,425viewsWhere do people meet?
Visiting central to southern Indiana for the next couple of weeks. Where are there any adult theaters, booths to meet with others. Where do people meet around here. Thanks in adva…
by g00dtimex0replies908viewsVegas clubs?
Has anyone been to the swing clubs in Vegas? We feel like this might be a good first step for us. I’ve mostly seen The Green Door and Red Rooster mentioned but I’ve heard bad thin…
by WeLikey794replies1,310viewsHung single guys
So for "us".. we have played with every size guy you can imagine over 30 years... big, small, average, and HUGE ( Coke Can) . We find it is the person who makes the experience goo…
by RonKathy3replies1,567viewsWhat to expect for first time-Atlantic city
I want to set some expectations as far as our first time going to saints and sinners AC on a Saturday night It will be our very first experience at a club and we are not ready for…
by Eternal4you2replies915viewsExchanging phone numbers
Is it common to give your wifes number to a select male to become so call connected prior to first meet and greet. Any advise would be appreciated
13replies1,651viewsA Beautiful Feeling
I have never seen something so sexy. I shared my sister with my husband. She is staying with us when she works in Miami. My husband's desires for her have been noticed for a long…
by MartaBebe2replies759viewsFirst timers-visit a club?
The hubby and I have just made the decision to try swinging. We’ve set our boundaries/rules with/for ourselves. Not totally sure if we’re looking to make new long term friends or…
by Break_Us_In18replies2,174viewsVirtual swinging
Hello all - we're finally starting to think (and fantasize) more seriously about trying out the lifestyle. Was wondering, as a starting point, if there are any virtual swinging-ty…
by ExiledFun13replies1,991viewswife
So let me tell you all our experience, I am forty two. She is thirty nine. We are both slim and all my buddies still to this day ask me what a fox like her is doing with me. I jus…
5replies2,315viewsFirst bi for wife - rub and tug?
As we get more into the lifestyle, my wife is a tiny bit curious about other women. She'd like to try something anonymous and fun. We were wondering if any ladies here have gone t…
by TandW787382replies1,425viewsSingle Lady new to LS
Hi everyone, I'm Lola. I am fairly new to the LS and want to learn all about it. Sometimes I play with a partner, sometimes play alone. I would like advice on how to get invited t…
by Lolalux20211replies784viewsMessages
I’m showing I have 8 new messages but I don’t. It’s been like that for a day. Any clue what’s happening
by CincyBatty7replies826viewsOnline Play
We are a couple new to this lifestyle and have met a wide array of couples. Sometimes we come home from meeting a couple and we think it would've just been much easier if we would…
5replies808viewsMovie Suggestions - Seductive or Swinger
Any good movie suggestions that are just very seductive or soft porn with MFM preferrably.
by Johnny_273replies1,172viewsAsking for galleries open?
Why do people message and request us to open galleries. They don’t say hi, they don’t even open theirs. Just open ours? Wtf. I think that’s rude as F. Are we wrong to think that’s…
29replies3,653viewsIs one enough?
Incredible community... still having fun! Burning question of the day: If I've messaged a profile but not heard a reply, is it safe to assume that they've read it and are not inte…
by HartwellHeat25replies3,039viewsContacts
Okay, I know I’m new here so please bear with me. I was all set to meet someone, but when I gave him my phone number he started bugging me to talk and text. I find this extremely…
by Mssuzieq6611replies1,501viewsSunny Rest Resort
Sunny Rest clothing optional resort, in the beautiful Pocono mountains of Pennsylvania. Sunny Rest was the first clothing optional resort in the country that was lifestyle friendl…
by f4all3replies1,099viewsGhosting
I’m a new senior BBW. I had a couple of men show interest for a few days. They texted me and called me several times a day. Now I have been ghosted. I send message with no respons…
by Mssuzieq664replies894viewsLooking for a Married Friend
I am very interested in finding a married woman for chatting, talking, texting. Given the distances that always seem to be an issue, this would most likely never be a physical rel…
0replies926viewsVoyeur
My kink is just watching a live show but can't seem to find any around area. Maryland here
by cycleguy500replies776viewsFirst Contact
What is the preferred method for first contact? If someone isn't replying to your messages should we assume that they are not interested or is there another way to contact people…
by DandDLFfun1replies858viewsHosting first house party
Considering hosting our first house party. Do we make a theme or how to proceed. Looking for suggestions from those who have hosted their own.
28replies2,686viewsNew here / fun plans
Hello there! I am new here and looking forward to sharing with new people in June for bukkake with my partner, and potentially more fun. Single males welcome, couples are a possib…
by roadtrip20210replies726viewsLol red flag ahead
I wanted to talk about a few red flags I notice here. We are currently looking for single males to play with us. I have had quite a number of guys with a couples profile contact u…
by Obxboater12replies2,533viewsHow tough finding 4-way connection?
What’s your thoughts? What’s your experience? How much work does it take to find a good matching couple?
by DuckDuckGone29replies3,592viewsHow to get kids taken care of?
Okay, so we paid and we're here. I can't imagine our problem is anywhere close to unique, so I'm hoping there will be some great ideas here. We have two small kids (4 and 2, both…
by 2tallpeople4replies1,235viewsWhere to meet quality people other than loud crowded clubs?
My bf and I just got back from yet another meet-and-greet in a loud, crowded club with no info from the host as to where the SLS group was meeting. Many people wanted around tryin…
3replies1,549viewsGetting her to try the lifestyle
I know I can’t be the only one, but how others get their wives or girlfriends interested in trying the lifestyle. I’m sure their isn’t one approach but there must be a few suggest…
by nhdoc5724replies7,306views1st house party
Going to our first house party in a couple weeks. 50 plus people attending. New to us. What should we wear/expect? TIA
7replies1,379viewsOverwhelmed Newbee
Question from a single woman's point of view .... WOW. I'm New after being referred by a friend to this site. After clearing my messages last night for a total of 117 I woke to ov…
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