How does a couple start with the cuckold process?

Wannahavefun18 - It may help if you post here what YOU think the ideal cuckold experience would be. Whatever that is, you probably want to request it in that specific way, especially if you have no desire for humiliation.

If you just want to see the Mrs get well fucked, you likely want to leave out the word "cuckold" altogether when looking for people to join you (possibly via a Hot Date) for this. Generally, getting volunteers for this isn't too hard. Getting people that are what they say AND will actually show as planned is another matter.

The other option is to attend a LS party where you get to meet and talk to people in person. Doesn't mean you have to do anything at the party, but at least you can sort of interview people for what you're looking for and set something up for another time/place if you prefer a different venue to play in. Some parties do not have private play space.

As has been mentioned, "cuckolding" as a term isn't very informative. If your definition includes submission or humiliation, not being sure about it yourself would suggest starting without those two things. Instead, have your husband watch instead of also participating.

Whatever your definition, be super careful about the guys you pick. Even if you want extreme humiliation, pass by the guys who don't start with respect for both of you.

Start the process by changing the name.

Cuckolding is a broad word that gets used as an insult. It also says the process is about the guy.

Female centered, stag- vixen, hotwife, cuckolding.

The commercial porn is ridiculous and not especially positive.

There are a few podcasts with sex positive real couples that explore different aspects and stumbling blocks.

I’ve only engaged in this with a bf and a married dynamic is different. Im an info geek so Ive done some reading more than a little dabbling and one thing is absolutely certain, it’s very specific to each person/ couple.

You probably should sit down together and make sure you both agree on a definition of cuckold.

At its most basic a cuckold is the husband of an adulterous wife.

In swinging cuckolding often includes submission and/or humiliation.

And I'm sure those involved in such relationships/activities could identify other nuances that I'm unaware of.

Mid thirties couple here with hubby looking to get cucked. How do we start that process. Hubby wants it but I’m not sure about it