1st time to a club

Dressed to impress men equals to a nice shirt button-up nice pair of jeans or slacks with no holes with nice dress shoes or loafers.

Which club? We've been to a number of them in PA and could probably give you an idea of trends

That really depends on the club. For men, the better you dress the better your odds are as a couple. A button-up shirt, pants, and decent shoes should be fine. Again, every club is different and dress to impress varies place to place. Reach out to the club and ask them or ask some people who regularly attend. You can always take off a tie, but changing out of jeans is a harder hill to climb. The biggest thing is to smile and relax when you are there. Be friendly and don't wait for people to come to you, unless you just want to observe the first trip out. Hope it goes well.

So the wife and I our looking to visit our first club. We read dress to impress. She already has her dress picked out. What do guys typically wear. My dressed up, is jeans, a long sleeve and carhart vest. So I’m looking for suggestions. What’s a man to wear?