We agree with Mature. Gangbangs at good clubs are relatively easy to set up.
The difficulty goes up when the woman wants to feel a closer connection to the guys. That connection requires either previous encounters, or some pre-bang time to socialize. We are still advocates of establishing some sort of online group so that the potential gangbang participants can get to know each other.
We found using swing clubs to be the easiest. Plenty of men to choose from and very safe. My gang bang at the club started with one guy solo to get warmed up, then in the back room 10 men lined up to take a turn. Not all fucked me, some got a great BJ. Then took a break and came back and did 3 more at once. Total for the evening, 14 men. Now that was fun. That was my record. We did smaller ones frequently on our boat parties.
We are going on a cruise out of New Orleans on January 28th. It is a Carnival cruise that is technically vanilla but there are 1,700 swingers booked. You should join the fun.
~Scamp
Unfortunately, we don't have any work or other trips scheduled for Narlins. We have thought about it as a departure port for a cruise at some point in time.
@Holly
Any plans to visit New Orleans?
;^D
~Scamp
Mrs MusicalPair enjoys very much. We've done the Multiple Men thing on several occasions. When I say Multiple, I don't mean MFM. I'm talking 5:1 and 4:1. One of the most interesting was a variation. Rather than having several men all at one time, I arranged for her to meet several men one at a time, all in one day. We rented a room, and between noon and midnight, I had her meet 5 different guys throughout the day. It was a good 12 hours of sex with different guys, and with breaks in between.
Stan
I always love a good bang.
This is why you invite a bunch of guys, even if one or two disappoint, you still have a great time.
So Holly, are you looking for more volunteers?
~Scamp
I would gladly volunteer, Ms. Holly.
My preference is hours or hard pounding if I can get it. The key is always, as mentioned, being sure the men know how to work to together to alternate in and out.
Unfortunately, I have had a sub 90 sec guy before that wasn't young. You never know what you're going to get when you roll the dice.
Not like us old bastards. We stay hard all night. Lol
We also found out afterwards that the 90 sec wonder was only 21 years old. He looked at least 30 or so. Seems a lot of women really like the young ones but our experience with most of them has been either this or they never get and stay hard. Meh!
Mayhem.....90 seconds from soft to pop? That is crazy! I'll have to call bullshit and see that for myself(wink, wink).
;-p
Hubby is known for lasting a long time in the right situation. We hads girl at the club we used to go to that he set a record with. 6 hours with onlya single break for her. He continued playing witha coupler if the other ladies that were present at the time. Likewise, he's also been popped in only a few seconds. More often than not though, he goes for at least 30 minutes.
Yes, 5-10 mins per guy would probably be ideal for many with a half dozen or more guys. Ideal is hard to find sometimes. I've seen the Mrs take a guy from soft to popped in 90 secs, and that was just from a BJ. She has done that more than a few times. Also common is the guy that wants the never-ending BJ and doesn't get or stay hard long enough to fuck her. Neither is of course ideal, but does unfortunately tend to be more of the norm at an "amateur night" type party.
Just like everything else, everyone is different. I've seen women that want to be pounded for as long as a guy can last, and others that prefer something more rapid fire, and everything in between. Many people envision stuff like this as a classic gang-bang. Though that "could" happen, much more common for us is where the Mrs will play with 2-4 guys for 30-40 mins, take a break, then do another round or 2. It's more like 1 - 2 hours of play time in a 3-4 hour window.
The after effects are definitely awesome. We've come home from parties where the Mrs has had a multi-guy experience and not even made it in the house. She once literally kicked the car door open in the driveway as soon as the car stopped, spread her legs and said, "Do me!!!" right there in the driveway...lol Then more sex when we got to bed, and the next morning and night for up to a couple days afterwards.
Hotluvrs
You sound like us. Would prefer several one and done guys. Each lasting 5 to 10 minutes or so. The wife likes high energy porno style sex so if a guy is giving her what she wants there not going to last to long. And after about a hour or so of that good hard pounding sex she's going to be done.
Lucky, lucky you. I say we work on that for you. I'll be happy to help get your wife horny for a few weeks.
WooHoo! Sounds like we have the beginnings of an after party.
Speaking of after-parties, one of the amazing things about successful multi-guy encounters, is how incredibly horny my wife will be for the next week.
I have the ride home. Our home! :)
I volunteer to provide the tequila during her break! Lol
Ha!
That’s funny, but the truth is that at parties like this, we prefer the one-and-dones. Ok, maybe not literally one minute men, my wife certainly isn’t looking for marathon men. The appeal of this kind of party is the energy, and excitement of different cocks, one after the other.
Besides, neither of us are spring chickens. My wife can get physical at a high level for maybe an hour, tops, at the end of which she’ll either need a break, a shot of tequila, or a ride home.
Sounds about right for that kind of party. The host of the one we go to vets the SMs pretty well and it's rare to get one that doesn't perform. He also has a pretty strict no-show policy so on the day of the party you get a really good idea of who's going.
A single guy like the ones at the party we go to are probably equivalent to as many as 4 or 5 that actually manage to get hard but then be quick one-and-dones at the cheap hotel party. I guess if you're doing 5 or 6 guys it may not be too bad if they are quick one-and-dones. Ummm, wait, that's only 10-12 mins of fucking. Hmmmm, sounds like you may need more guys ;-)
Mayhem,
We find that cheap hotel room parties are often amateur hour. The requirements for entry are minimal, so you get a lot of curious single men who think this is something they want. When the action starts many can’t perform with a room full of strangers watching.
6:1 is the current count. We all know how these things fall apart as the party gets closer.
1/2 of the single guys, and 1/3 of the couples/single women will no-show. Of the remaining men, at least 25% either only want to watch their wives, can’t get it up, or are too unappealing to consider.
So, here’s my guess as to final numbers: 2.5 to 1 final ratio.
Funny. My multiple guy fantasy is one guy to cook, one guy to clean and one guy to drive me everywhere.
Currently my husband is doing triple duty. I really should give him a raise.
Well, sounds like a few girls are going to have a very happy New Years ;-) We'll be attending a party on NYE afternoon, but that is only a tad over 2:1 (12 men/5 women) at the moment. It is a mostly known and experienced group though and most everyone is up for playing multiple times so will be fun nonetheless. As the saying goes, it's not the dog in the fight as much as it is the fight in the dog...lol
