Bareback.

We are also, and enjoy it.. Especially after 4 hours of having sex dicks start to taste like a dam condom !! YUCCCKKK.. XOXOXO Rosie

We are its a must

i love it without condoms. tough to find couples williing.

we use plan b whn im off bc.. which some are ok with

We have been in the LS for 10 years and have preferred playing bareback from the beginning. We have no problems using condoms with people that require them, and are prepared to use them in any group play. However we’ve found that the majority of couples, even the ones that say they require condoms on their profile, are pretty eager to play bare.

For anyone interested, I have started a new thread in Safe Sex for HPV.

There were several discussing HPV, risks, testing for, etc, that included some excellent information as well as varying opinions. Such threads are the ones I wish management would NOT arbitrarily delete. You might want to start a new thread there seeking information, etc.

Sorry to mislead you Phoenix. As r&k suggested, the threads I was referring to didn’t survive the purge.

Feel free to pose your question there as I’m sure you will get more replies in that forum than here.

~Scamp

Scamp, as you suggested, I perused the Safe Sex forum.

Of the eleven threads there, I did not find a single one that mentioned HPV in either its title or in the OP. Granted, I did not read every single posting in the thread, but I did read each OP.

There were only eleven threads under that section, and of those eleven, only two have had comments within the past 45 days, and only another two have had postings in the past 100 days.

Not quite the activity there that I expected.

There are lots of posts in regard to hpv in the Safe Sex forum if you want to get some feedback.

The bottom line comes down to risk/reward and what are your tolerable levels of risk?

~Scamp

Maybe veering the topic a bit, but I am reading more and more lately about how prevalent the HPV (not talking HIV!!!!) is now, and how easily it is spread simply by any kind of sexual contact, even foreplay.

From that, it almost seems that unless each person is wearing a full-body condom from the moment that you walk in the door, you/we are at significant risk.

Thoughts??

I've been astonished at the amount of guys I see at parties that can't get or stay hard in a condom, I see it with my own eyes. This often becomes the "spark" for bareback in groups. I've yet to have this issue personally, knock on wood....no pun intended, but, it keeps me invited as a single to events.

FC4P: Welcome to the forums. Nice first post containing no smoke and a lot of truth, especially about those not using condoms. After not discussing condom use once, the husband of a couple tried to claim his wife and I wasn’t using one. It’s a good thing Mrs. 888 has a good head on her shoulders and came in to check. I was using one, but too late then, the deception had us calling it a night with that couple. After that, we always openly discuss the use of condoms with people we just met and have an interest in playing with, before parts become exposed and before going to separate rooms.

For us, there’s only a few couples we have been with for years that we don’t and we definitely don’t try to fuck everything at a party; those that carry that level of “special need” of “puff-puff-pass” with partners should wear a body condom all day every day. lol

What you also don’t hear from claimed avid condom users is the real time effective protective rate is only 30% for SOME STD/STIs and some.... just..... don’t..... know by claiming the 99.7% protection listing on the box (for pregnancy).

To each their own in preference, use or no use.

~Allen

In our circles it's more like 1 in 10 don't use condoms. I disliked them at first too. Then I found out they come in different sizes and thcknesses shortly after and found not all condoms are the same. Between that and Viagra, condoms ceased to be an issue. The ones I settled on are non-latex (Skyns brand). Yes, they do tend to require lube or the woman may get sore.

The other thing is how much you play. We have had trifecta weekends (played Fri, Sat, and Sun, all with different people) and have played with as many as 8 - 10 different people in the course of a night at parties. The unprotected oral is a valid point and we are under no delusion that condoms are perfect, but at our current level of play we feel it is worth the bother. YMMV.

FWIW - Nobody but me cums in the Mrs without a condom and I don't generally cum in a woman without one except in very rare occasions during oral and the woman actually wants me to. You always hear about the person that got an STD even though they used condoms, but what you NEVER hear is how many times a person was protected by one.

My wife and I have been playing in the Lifestyle for about 20 years and my experience has been about only one in ten use condoms. What really bothers me is when you go in separate rooms (Or motorhomes) with a couple and the lady requires a condom. Then you find out later from your wife that the subject never even came up with them. This has happened to me at least three times.
Then there is the fact that if a guy is eating pussy and the woman is sucking dick without a condom, it is more than likely that any diseases that anyone has, would have been transmitted that way, even if a condom is used later for screwing. My wife was a nurse for almost 40 years, and I know at least half a dozen nurses in the Lifestyle that agree with the above statement.
Also my wife's pussy gets irritated when a guy uses a condom and I just plain don't care for the way it feels. So short of Jaylo coming to me and begging me to fuck, but only with a condom, I don't plan on using them anymore. In my dreams, Jaylo never requires one.

I usually eat some of the creampie

I really only give the women I fuck bareback they want that load , at sls parties I use protection

Agreed about the lying. Overall, in all the years I've met with couples, the biggest "discrepancy" I've found amongst couples is "no kissing." Many husbands quickly say no kissing during meets. But to be honest, I veeeeeery often find out that the wife absolutely wants to kiss me, and they most often do find a way to do so.

When play time comes, we find most people lie in their profiles, especially about preferring condom use.

~Allen

Obviously a lot will depend on if the woman can get pregnant. Beyond that, condom use is something that, at a minimum, people should put in their profile.

I know that we've had people say that they'd love to play with us but didn't ask because they know we use condoms and they only play bareback. Saves time and potential issues to know that up front.

Billnsuzie.... Thanks for clearing that up, all this time I thought I had been with you guys.....lol.

Biblk,, you have not been with us yet. A moment of pleasure just is not worth a couple months of worry or a lifetime of regret!

It's definitely a benefit of the couple life, it's addictive. I love being on the verge and asking hubby (if he's not a cuck) if I can cum in his wife. So far, thru all these years, the answer has been yes 100% of the time.

Oh, and by the way, we are a “condom for coitus” couple. After playing with a bunch of people at a hotel or club, going skin to skin once we get home makes the after-sex even that much more sweet.

We used to enjoy some stranger/danger sex. My wife love to watch guys jerk off and cum on her. Once or twice a year we’d end up in an adult theater in Florida.
We know that most folks in the vanilla world would think us crazy for having my wife jerk off complete strangers, so we try not to judge, but we think bareback gang bangs are just plain crazy. It was amazing to see how many couples were comfortable doing that with complete strangers.

We go bareback. The chance of catching something we feel is not that great with the people we meet. We love the feel of total nakedness and pure uninhibited sex.