Bareback.

I just love love love getting road head.

:-)

~Allen

We use condoms for intercourse, but not for oral. When I wear a condom I rarely can cum. A women who is really into it and really liking what she is doing works for me Perhaps doing it bareback would get me off faster, but we use condoms when we play with people. Blowjob Gusto, that works for me. My wife can get me off with a blowjob in no time at all, She knows how, and what works.

tomjord222 we agree with you. XOXO Rosie

During all our play time we insisted on condoms for the other guy. We spent a lot of time with a single guy and got very comfortable and trusting with him. The last time we met up with him he told us that he was moving out of state. So this was the last time he would be fucking the wife. After he had fucked her for awhile she told him to take off the condom. She wanted to feel his cock inside her before he left. He fucked her for a good while bareback then she had him put the condom back on before he would cum inside her. That was one of the most erotic this we've ever done. We'll probably never do that again but it was fun that time.

Condoms used to prevent me from cumming. However, over the last year, I have been able to cum. Last time at Mojos, I think I had 3 orgasms during the night. Must be the sexually charged environment of the orgy room :)

Hope to have a repeat performance tomorrow night !!!

I tend to last longer with them as well, but I'm wondering how much of that might be the ring at the base of the condom acting like sort of a cock ring. My understanding of cock rings it that this is kind of their purpose.

I mentioned this elsewhere, but I had sex very late at our house on our bed at a party one time and then laid there for a bit and wound up crashing for the night. I got up to go pee later and I sit at night so I don't have to turn a light on. I started to pee and heard nothing and was like, "WTF?". I reached down and realized I forgot to take the condom off before crashing and never even realized it was there.

The best thing about condoms is that I last much longer with them. Although I am only 80% full as soon as I put one on. I guess only my wife get the whole package. ;)

We choose bareback. We look at the people we are with and if they seem clean, neat in appearance and look like they have good hygiene, we have no problem. We love bareback and you can pretty much tell by the people you interview whether they are clean enough, and if not we do not play with them for any reason. We are moving to Florida and with our annual physical we will get that added to our blood test. We enjoy hearing from you all and reading the forum posts. Anyone in Florida want to look us up we will be there permanently the end of July. Let's make contact so we can meet up then.

I guess one of the things that I tend to disagree with is that "it feels so much better without a condom". I will agree you do get a little more sensation without but I have literally forgotten that I have a condom on at times. In some cases, a slight reduction in sensitivity is not a bad thing as the sex can last even longer if the guy can maintain an erection, and that's one of the problems.

Where it does make a really big difference is that many guys lose it when they go to put a condom on. Their window of opportunity from being hard enough to penetrate to trying to shoot pool with a rope is open very briefly. Many times that window closes all too soon and they blame the condom because it's easier to do that than admit they couldn't maintain an erection long enough to get in there.

I have also found there is a fair bit of difference in size and thickness of condoms and while one size may fit all, there are definitely some that are better than others due to fit and thickness of the condom. I usually use Skyns large and they work very well for me.

Of course if you are into cum play and creampies and such, there is that, and unprotected oral sex does put you at risk as well. As with everything else, it's a personal decision, but if guys are being completely honest, I think the condom is vilified many times for reasons other than "it doesn't feel as good".

FWIW - I find generic Viagra definitely helps keep that window of opportunity from shutting and, if the guy has decent endurance, has some other benefits as well.

I believe that if you have oral sex with someone without protection, which most seem open to, I mean who wants to suck a dick with a condom on it, or eat pussy with a sleeve, at least for me, then if protection is made for pregnancy, then why not go bareback, it feels so much better and if you enjoy the taste of pussy or of cum then you have just put yourself at as much risk as bareback. Some guys, maybe me enjoy fresh or sloppy seconds and may even enjoy a creampie. If you enjoy tasting your wifes pussy on another guys cock you will only taste latex so there goes that. I think you should really get to know people before going bareback but having sex with other people always has some risk, so either don't have sex with other people or enjoy yourself.

@funly - My thoughts around things like this are that, if it's a deal breaker, it probably should at least be mentioned in the profile. I totally get leaving it open if it's something you can go either way on.

I also understand that people will claim things in a profile but then do contrary to what their profile says. So in this case, they either did't read our profile or when we said we are looking for people that use condoms, they assumed that part was really optional. Maybe it's time to update the profile. Version 237 coming up ;-)

Maybe the omission, is mention enough, or it should at least trigger the question

Yeah, as mentioned it wasn't a lot of back and forth and they didn't spring it on us, but was thinking this is generally something people would want to at least mention in their profile.

Thoughts? At least they didn't wait to get to the bedroom to mention it. Kudos to them.

~Allen

Checked out a couple and liked what we saw, so opened our pics. They sent us an email saying that they were interested and we responded back that we were too, then get an email that they play bareback.

Told them we only play using condoms for penetration (which is in the 2nd sentence of our profile) and ask if that's a deal breaker, and it was. Didn't waste a lot of time but did notice there was no mention of this in their profile. Was going to send an email suggesting they consider adding that, but then kind of figured that's their business and call, so I didn't. Thoughts?

Oh, ok.

I didn’t see anything upsetting her; she simply thought she saw it all, until this thread. She’s apparently happily advertising her expertise now being complete, without any input towards the thread.

I’ve not seen it all nor claiming such, but have seen that before.......

:-)

~Allen

What’s upsetting about this thread?

Just when I thought I saw it all— I read this thread.

Sigh.

Lovejoy - condoms aren’t super effective against herpes either. I realized this after watching a couple fuck and the condom doesn’t really go all the way down the shaft, skin on skin contact occurres.

Absolutely fuels a totally different experience

we always condoms, but just let you know if your partner has syphilis, condom will not help you much

One thing to note is that this thread is under the "Fantasy" topic. By definition, a fantasy is something that gives you pleasure to think about, but doesn't mean you actually plan to do it. If you actually did it, it would be a reality.

People have chastised others for sharing their "fantasies", and as a result, people are a lot less willing to share them. For example, I may have a fantasy of seeing the Mrs well used in a gang bang with guys filling all her holes with cum. Doesn't mean we'd ever do that, but it's hot to think about.

I am surprised by how many here are advocating for not using protection. I see it as you never win the lottery unless you play it. I am going to use a condom with any one but my wife and my wife will use one as well. If you don't use a condom we see it as gambling. we don't know who has been with who and such. There are studies on both ends about oral sex vs. vaginal/anal on what STD will live and die. What I do know is that HIV isn't the only one I am worried about. Some of these STD's can live outside the body and you won't know for years.

In my area where I live there is a few strains of syphilis that is resistant to all treatments and they have tracked it's course around the globe to the originating countries and due to the sex trafficking it is spreading. These new strains of STD's that are starting to pop up scare the hell out of us, but we aren't going to be stuck hiding with our head in the sand either. Protection is a must, no matter what we are gamboling but at least we will know that we did everything that we could have to prevent it.

even though I have a vasectomy and can't get anyone pregnant I will use condoms, and she will use them too.

Yes. Once we get to know the couple, or SM, it is preferred.