In the 10 years we have been playing, we I used a rubber once. We had an offer to play with that couple again and did not. All of our playmates have always played bare, and no one has ever had a single problem from that.
Mickey
It's much better that way!
We agree
Obviously if a partner requires a condom, and we are really into each other I am glad to oblige, however, I like to find longer term regulars and am really enthused if we can progress to the "bareback" stage.
I have been doing MMF and swinging since 1981. When asked to I use a condom. When I have a feeling I need to I do..In all these years, I HAVE NEVER CAUGHT ANYTHING. I get blod work every 6 months and get an HIV tesst every time. My doctor first tried to talk me out of it, saying he would have to report a positive..My comment, that woudl be the least of my worries. I love kissing, I love eating pussy, so if someone was infected..I woudl be done anyway.
Added note, I have been with lots of couples that when the guy sees my cum running out of his wife he gets fired up...I gues I am like the gambler, know when to hold em, no when to fold em..
I agree with FunCouple4Play503, if you do oral then the condom will not protect you.
We have been using them off and on for a long time. Why buy when planned parenthood will give you all you want for free
I knew of them. Just have never seen anyone actually use one. It would seem to be problematic keeping them in place, but apparently not.
There’s very little lube in them; I always run some in it beforehand, but I leak a lot during and I don’t recall the taste of lube being a problem, as there have been no complaints.
I have had some wtf moments when I ask the female of preference; it’s surprising how many swingers we’ve ran into that never knew of a female condom.
~Allen
As for pulling out and having her suck you, the lube probably plays a big part in that. Some of the lubes don't taste good but I believe flavored ones are available. That's assuming the female condoms aren't pre-lubed.
We have run across guys that hate condoms and will refuse to have sex with someone that requires them. I honestly forget they're on these days so figured guys that hate them likely have issues staying hard long enough to get one on. We've run into a lot of guys that fall into that limp-mode category.
Would be interesting if the same guys would be opposed to female condoms?
It’s more about a freedom and flexibility of being able to move about a woman’s body and being able to mix things up, not necessarily keeping it up.
I like using them, as I love to pull my cock out and have a woman suck me without missing a beat, then not to have to open another before penetrating again.
Once again, it’s another thing we have in our profile about knowing what they are because they are not the norm.
~Allen
In all of our travels I've never seen a female condom being used. Will have to check them out, but we find men's condoms tend not to chaff when well lubed as well. Lube is definitely key for many/most girls when using condoms.
I can see the appeal though for the guys that can't stay hard long enough to put a condom on. If the girl has the condom in her he can just enter when ready after that, and staying hard is not something a girl has to worry about while putting it in her.
F2C female condoms feel just like going bareback to the guy, and keep the woman's pussy from getting sore from the friction between the condom and the tissue of her pussy! Just squirt some lube inside the F2C condom and slip it into the woman's pussy with your fingers or by putting on the guy's cock and then sliding the whole package into her. A rubber ring at the bottom end of the condom keeps it in her pussy as the cock is pounding in and out. A rubber ring at the outer end keeps the outer end outside her pussy.
The are perfect for guys with large cocks! They are tough and do not break!
Available on line from Walmart and Amazon.
Az_couple. Yes we have read similar stats as well. Add that to the fact we both have been vaccinated for hep A&B and for HPV. So for the most part there are really only two scary, incurable std’s. Herpes and HIV. With herpes all it takes is minor skin to skin contact. So when you are really playing... lots of licking, sucking, and fucking. Girls cuming and squirting everywhere, then condoms off little protection. With HIV, well you just gave us the stats on that. But another factor is that for us, we primarily play with couples. Couples that started off in a monogamous marriage, had kids, then decided to become swingers. And we know, they pretty much seek the same. So it’s a pool of pretty clean people. So yes we feel very comfortable playing bareback. We don’t always for sure, but when we do, our worries are no more than if we used condoms.
The temptation and desire of having cum shoot in you is so strong..
AZ, nice to know the odds are against catching HIV "IF" the condom breaks.
We require condom for play.
When going to the safe sex board and seeing people arguing for bareback play, knee jerk was "crazy".
Then really thought about the data.
CDC has studied a lot of cases with one person in a relationship has been diagnosed with HIV or Hep C, and the other is negative despite years of sex not using a condom. For penile/vag 4 out of 10,000 bonks with an HIV+ woman man will catch. 8 out of 10,000 for woman to catch HIV from positive man.
Then multiply that by the 1 in 200 chance a person even has HIV or 1 in 2000 a person has and doesn't know.
Odds quickly reach the 1 in millions level probabilities. You get to the point that you are more likely to die from a 100 mile road trip than catch HIV from unprotected vag sex with a random sex partner.
Seeing a recent STD test result is likely a better "safe sex" than a condom.
But we still require condom.
@num1scamp
Good advice.
I personally prefer bareback. I like men cumming in me or on me, but in this day and age, condoms are simply a necessity. I always have condoms in my purse. Unless we know our partners extremely well we use them. I've never had an std, and prefer not having one. My husband dislikes them as well but he uses them as well.
I understand the woman's desire wanting to feel the man cum in her, I love the feeling when the husband cums in my mouth....Mary Jo
We usually use a condom when playing with others. I say usually as we were at a hotel party and wife was feeling pretty good. We got caught up in the moment and she got filled. The other time was with a good friend of ours. She had been with him a couple times previously wearing a condom. But this time when he reached for it, she surprised both of us when she said, I want to feel you cum inside of me. He looked at me and I just shrugged my shoulders and it was on.
Fully agree about oral. Have brought women repeatedly to intense orgasms that way, but not all enjoy receiving oral. Regarding bareback, very nice for all . . . . just know and trust your playmate!
We would love to meet people that feel the same
We find that we have much more intense orgasms with oral. And no need for condoms. With another couple condoms are mandatory for intercourse but not for oral. besides my wife really likes swallowing a hot load. I personally hate condoms so I prefer a woman who at least will allow me to cum in her mouth. I do not care if she swallows or not
I go bareback
