Stuck between .

Fluffy maybe? My bride says cuddly.

A picture is worth a thousand words, and there are people interested in all types, don't worry and just have fun.

PandanBear

What I really like is how open people are on this site. Nobody had the same exact preference as anyone else. For instance, my hubby isn't very attracted to women with brown skin or blond hair, and I don't care how dark a guy is, but prefer lighter-skinned women as well. Personality definitely comes into play, though! And I've changed my initial impression of people after from g to know them.
That doesn't address what you're getting at though. I'm a little chubby and not really HWP, but I also don't consider myself BBW, either. I had a Mommy Makeover a few years ago, so my tummy is flat, my boobs are smaller (down to a 38D) and higher than they used to be, but I have a thick waist. When I can tell I have one.
I'd suggest posting more pix, in as variety of settings, doing things you enjoy. If you're a "sport fucker" (aan interesting and spot-on term! ) physical attraction will be more important than if you want to find people who you can share more intimate things with than just sex.

Good luck, and welcome. We only joined a couple months ago, but we have our first date set up, and chatting a bit has calmed my nerves about going on something like a blind date.

There is no reason to categorize yourself or anyone else.

For some people, personality is very important, for others, it's height, or hair, or sexual orientation, or tattoos/piercings, or hygiene, or race, or condom use, or convenience, or discretion, or teeth, etc, etc, etc....

The fact is, everyone is attracted to something different. For us, since we consider ourselves "sport fuckers", physical attraction is the main thing we are attracted to with just enough personality to keep us interested. It's great if our play partners have great personalities and we become friends, but it's not necessary. Yes, a great personality helps with the attraction but we need more than that.

We don't feel the least bit bad about our preferences and neither should anyone else. People like what they like. For example, your male half lists as straight, thus I assume he has no interest in bi male play, BUT what if a Bi guy had a fabulous personality? Should he then be attracted to him anyway? Sounds ridiculous, right?

Just be your fabulous self! Don't label yourself if you don't want to and don't let anyone else label you either. Neither of us are everyone's cup of sexy and that's okay, I'd rather be selective, and have my partners be the same, then feel like I'm nothing special.

~rabbit~

I found a cheeto stuck between.....
Just kidding.
On a mildly serious note, I have a question. Well, its more of a statement that I'm looking to gain some clarity on. Ya know what. I have no idea what I want. Just read on if you have some free time.

I have skimmed some of the forum topics and something has perplexed me. How do you know how to categorize yourself? Seems like it would be obvious, right?? As I type this, I feel more ridiculous by the letter.... Being a human, I have days where I feel sexy, confident, and really close to HWP. Then I have days where I'm super strict with my diet and exercise because I feel I'm creeping over the egde of thick and into the realm of the BBW. Then there are the days where I see me dancing in public and I feel like I suddenly resemble a drunk potato.
mostly sarcasm
I have never been a petit girl. But I have also never considered myself average or BBW. I can think of a lot of other very colorful words to describe me, but none of them are a typical category. I am not trying to speak ill of any body type. Just trying to find where the odd little peg that is I, fits in.
So I guess my question/statement/super long forum post is mainly about me wondering how many of you out there actually wait to see if the personalities click, and how many miss out on opportunities because the other people don't also look photoshopped in real life?!? Cause I'm funny, smart, and fun. And chubby. Oh and is there a category between HWP and BBW? asking for a friend
Yeah, I totally understand the need for the physical attraction, nobody wants to do the potato. I get it. I just feel like I am so much more than some numbers that tend to make the first impression before I ever get the chance to.