Are any men interested

goodenough,
I had the ninja nuns, turn a yard stick into a samuri sword. Sister Mary Eunice, the head ninja nun.

DBCooper, I go to clubs regularly, in fact I go to a club in Melbourne FL, and yes there are bbw's and bhm. Yes I've observed the same thing. The skinny healthy types congregating together. Not sure what they talk about, but I'd guess it's work out times and how well their wheat grass smoothy tastes. Being realistic you do see bbw's getting lots of attention and often time it's from the work out gurus or skinny ones. I'm no gym rat, in fact I don't have six pack abs, I got more of a dad bod. So it's not the lifestyle that needs to change, it's peoples attitude. True swingers are more accepting of everyone, no matter body shape and size. Swingers are probably more accepting of people in general than the vanilla world.

I got those.

They didn't work. I couldn't see through the girls' uniforms at Our Lady Of The Bleeding Knuckles Catholic School.

Or the nuns' habits- which was probably a good thing.

Nope. The X-Ray glasses.

Bazooka Joe?

$0.15 + 5 comic strips and 50 years later you're STILL bitching about your "free" magic magnet set aren't you?

Even Bazooka Joe is feeling the effects of inflation!

I try to accept everyone for who they are, unless there a jerk. As for Bbw, I ve found that size has very little to do it. Sexy is sexy , but I do prefer a full figured woman over a skinny one. Just my 2cents, which isn't even worth a Bazooka bubble gum, lol

FRIENDLY_SWINGER

"It's the same with those in the lifestyle that try to say single men have no place in the lifestyle, for the few that say no, there are those that say yes."

Kind of funny you just posted this. Here is a copy / paste from the profile of a couple who viewed my profile today. My profile thumbnail clearly shows that I am a single male.

Fun Couple, single men need not reply!

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No single men, you shouldn't be on here anyways!

I’m so lucky to have a beautiful sexy Bbw that loves sex, who would want more. You’ll always see a smile on my face

I’m not trying to start a battle or put anybody down. Please don’t take my comments that way. I’m just so sick and tired of the excuses and victimhood our society has embraced. If you don’t like somebody these days it’s because your racist, homophobic, transphobic, fatphobic, etc… Remember when you weren’t any of those things because you preferred red heads over brunettes?

“ Fat people get worse healthcare. Fat people are promoted less in jobs. Fat people are mocked, joked about, shamed, and considered unattractive in every corner of the media and internet.”

Easy answer would be to put down the cheeseburger and pick up a jump rope. My wife and I are both overweight “fat” by societal standards. Doesn’t bother us in the least. Could we change it? Sure could, need to hit the gym more. Our size is our choice. It’s not a phobia and we’re not victims. If you drive around in a neon pink car and somebody says it looks disgusting, are they pinkphobic?

New_and_Naughty
Society, not community, society.
Just Google fatphobia.
Fat people get worse healthcare.
Fat people are promoted less in jobs.
Fat people are mocked, joked about, shamed, and considered unattractive in every corner of the media and internet.

This isn't about preference. I'm not begrudging anyone their preference. But when the OP makes comments that they're only slightly overweight and not "gross and disgusting" (Implying anyone heavier IS) and pushes that thin guys are the "right" relationship. Yeah, that's not just a preference. That reflects on ALL fat people.

As for this community, anecdotally there may be more fat people than not here but that doesn't mean there isn't discrimination. The original post is evidence of that. If there wasn't discrimination against larger people, the OP wouldn't have posted this. It's just a shame she doesn't see her own biases.

“ Odds are, that won't be happening any time soon because this society is inherently fatphobic.”

Fatphobia is the fear and hatred of fat bodies. Nobody fears you, nobody hates you. We live in a world with so many options available to us, there is something/someone for everybody. Just because somebody doesn’t desire what you desire does not make them a bigot. Honestly calling them names for thinking differently than you makes you the bigot.

FRIENDLY

I base my post on my own personal observations, mostly from clubs and events. And from what I have seen, the "Fit" or "athletic" are far outnumbered by those who might be considered out of shape. And those "out of shapers" are having one helluva lot of fun!

DBCooperMN,I beg to differ with you. The lifestyle is accepting of all. There are a small group that insist on "HWP, or FIT and Athletic build" because well it's their preference. IT's the same with those in the lifestyle that try to sale single men have no place in the lifestyle, for the few that say no, there are those that say yes. Even in club settings you can tell which are the cliquish type, and in all honestly, they seem to be the most judgmental type and keep their circle small. But seriously how fun can people that want to compare their abs, legs and arms be if they're only trying to impress themselves?

"If you want the lifestyle to be more accepting then it has to be accepting to everyone, regardless of size. Odds are, that won't be happening any time soon because this society is inherently fatphobic"

I couldn't disagree more. I would say much more "overweight" than "fit" in the lifestyle, with plenty of sex going on.

I’m so confused by this post. Yes, there are plenty of men who are looking for BBWs, myself included. Just do a search on this site and online. It’s a preference for plenty of people.

What’s confusing is that the OP is concerned about how men see women and that they’re “closed minded” but then makes sure we know she’s not “gross and disgusting” and that her boyfriend is a “little guy” so she’s doing “something right”. I’m guessing if her boyfriend was even just a few pounds overweight that would be a loss? So, it’s not okay if some people don’t want fat women, but okay for others to not want fat men. Gotcha.

If you want the lifestyle to be more accepting then it has to be accepting to everyone, regardless of size. Odds are, that won't be happening any time soon because this society is inherently fatphobic. But if you want people to be less closed minded, maybe start at home. Don't refer to people larger than yourself as gross and disgusting, Don't associate having a relationship with a thin guy as some kind of ideal. Because, no matter what your body looks like, body shaming is ugly on everyone.

Love BBW coming north this summer

As a BBW, it's more a head game than anything else. I've been told by society that I don't count and should hide, for such a long time. it's difficult to believe that anyone actually is interested in playing with me. It's so wonderful to see there are men on here who want to be with BBWs. I'm very happy when someone reaches out to me and either doesn't care about the BBW or is actually looking forward to meeting a BBW. By the way, my husband is thin and has always supported me, regardless of my weight.

I only get off with woman who feel like woman. Curves, ass, tits, shape. I cant cum with a really thin woman

@2new2pa

I enjoyed her pics in the gallery. I love bbw - you always have something to hold onto when things get rocking! If you are ever in CT . . . ??

The general population shows more
Overweight people than HWP people.
There must be more BBW in the lifestyle.
But good things are hard to find

I've found that bbw are much more sexier than skinny woman. I love exploring every inch , skinny woman have less to explore and dont appreciate the attention to detail.

We’re here also and yes everyone is so far away

Juicy, here's one, my sexy wife. Pity you're so fat away........hasn't been easy finding interest in bbw where we are