sweetjza i know what you are talking about, BUT i have met ,and even started to have sex with very hot sexy woman, who made me feel like they were doing me a HUGE fav just letting me touch them much less have sex with, i was attracted to their looks, and the thought of having sex with them because they were very sexy was wonderful, but when their attitude and actions kicked ,that they were doing me a fav or taking one for the team?? i stopped and left them there half naked, they asked what was going on, i politely told them i was not going to play with someone who shows me 0 respect,and thought they were better then me, maybe thats rude, maybe not, but i would rather play with someone who is a 5 on the scale of 1-10, and has a amazing personality, then going after someone for looks alone, most the time that can only end badly.
I have had some women friends tell me the same thing about egotistical men as well, i am not bashing you, just disagree with the notion that looks alone is what makes great sex.