DBCooperMNVeteran
Prior Lake, MN, Us
StudForHerToPlay58
Since I can't meet anytime soon, I won't contact you.
But were I within the 1- 1 1/2 hour driving time, I would definitely be contacting you.
Furthermore, I WOULD SHOW UP.
Two guys
eroticamazonVeteran
Santa Barbara, CA, Us
@Stud
You might want to change your profile around, well, if this fits you. There are some couples where each can play alone or together. As an example, either myself or my wife can play solo without asking each other's permission. We can join in a one on one or as a third. We only have to tell each other after the fact. I bring this up because you may find a LOT more considerate to your desires and time males if you expand. I do realize that we are not the norm, but in our circle of roughly 60 couples, we are not that far from the norm :) There are quite a few like us. I think it has to do with age and comfort.
Good luck finding the person you are looking for.
Why is it so hard to actually find a few STRAIGHT guys for ongoing threesomes. We are real , she is petite , very sexy very oral and pretty with beautiful teeth and smile . We found 1 guy in over 4 months literally hundreds of hits and emails and only 1 actual playmate and hes been back a few times so far . All the guys complain that single males get a bad rap , well no fucking wonder .
Why is it so hard to actually find a few STRAIGHT guys for ongoing threesomes. We are real , she is petite , very sexy very oral and pretty with beautiful teeth and smile . We found 1 guy in over 4 months literally hundreds of hits and emails and only 1 actual playmate and hes been back a few times so far . All the guys complain that single males get a bad rap , well no fucking wonder .
profpresRegular
Middletown, CT, Us
I f your husband is okay with it, reverse cowgirl him and have the other guy lick and tongue your clit - well, I love to do it! And if the other guy is orally bi and hubby is okay with it, when he pops out occasionally he get a bj too, as well as a helping hand to get back in the action.
DBCooperMNVeteran
Prior Lake, MN, Us
Invite Me!
curious_moMember
Seattle, WA, Us
Happy 2020 everyone!
OP - Consider trying blindfolds next ;) guess who is in your mouth and whose mouth is at the other end? Even if you guessed, it can still make for a fun mental stimulation.
hotluvrsVeteran
Jeffersonville, IN, Us
I’ll reference the great puppet master here. Sorillo once described his procedure, and I think it’s perfect. If he see a profile that interests him and seem like a good fit, he’ll compose a thoughtful letter, hit “send”, and forget about it. Like a message in a bottle, if it comes back to you, it was meant to be. If it doesn’t, there’s no reason to spend a moment of this precious life fretting over it.
MandC508Veteran
Framingham, MA, Us
Dirty,
That's true for us as well. If a couple Messages us, and there is potential, I make sure we both see the profile and pics before responding positively.
I know what C likes and what we she doesn't like, so if I don't like a profile, or I know she won't, we can send a nice "we don't see a match" reply. So usually for us, a non immediate reply means there's a good chance we like what we see and want to send an interesting reply.
Holly, MI, Us
Zee... So one thing to remember when messaging with a couple is that they might need to communicate before responding. Life, work and everything else can sometimes delay this. I don't like to respond to someone and then have the hubby, for whatever reason, give me a "nope", then I just feel like an asshole and I hate feeling like an asshole. That coupled with life in general can delay a message days and even sometimes a week. So even your simple solution of message read, wouldn't be accurate.
TravelVet... I will say that since I added "don't send me a dick pic with a hello" to our profile. It has made a difference. I do like when I can tell a guy has read our profile and not just trolling.
@ RonKathy..
Was that literal? You won't answer unless they ask what you're looking for? I only ask because your profile says what you're looking for so why would they ask again?
I think there is the issue. And no it's not something to cry and complain about. But we are in a forum and it came up. There are so many little rules and regulations that are not said. Some want a pic in the mail, some say open before you send, some say don't open before you send... Some want a book, some don't want long novels. Some want you to pick out from their profile, some hate that and feel you're copying to appease them... But you don't want to say the same generic things to each person either
You try to conform to all these while also trying to not run through your local pool of players. It's just.... A LOT. I'd be cool to know if you're getting anywhere or you're sending the completely wrong message
ZeemacRegular
Alex, LA, Us
Thanks for the response RonKathy. I would like to ask you, other couples, and single ladies - in your opinion, how long should a Person wait for a message response before assuming the receiver is not interested (I use “Person” because I expect it happens to y’all too)? Without knowing if your message has been read, how long do you wait? Two, three days? A week? I can understand you not replying to the type messages you referred to but do all the other guys (including myself) that send respectful, thought out messages deserve the same treatment? In my humble opinion, no. Shouldn’t people that make an honest, respectful effort (including yourself) be given the courtesy of a simple reply? Maybe that’s only to be expected in a Perfect World … A simple “Message read” notice system would greatly reduce this.
Okay, I’m done with my rant. Being a relative LifeStyle newbie, I’m still adjusting to how this whole LifeStyle “works” ... I've got big shoulders if y'all decide to lower the boom on me ...
ZeemacRegular
Alex, LA, Us
Per TheTravelVeteran: “But every guy on here says they can't even get a reply back and the same thing happens to them” …
Not getting a reply back from a sent message that was polite, well thought out, well intentioned and more-than-a-couple-sentences is the most frustrating part of this website. My experience has only been a 1 to 2% reply rate. Only once have I politely turned down a couple … and what did I get for sending a polite “No Thank you”? They blocked me … go figure …
If I could change one thing on this site, it would be to add a simple “Message read” notice system. It seems a simple “Bold” or “grayed out” check mark, like the vanilla dating site Silver Singles uses, would be fairly easy to implement. It would eliminate a lot of the frustration because the sender would pretty much know the receiver is not interested if no reply is received within a reasonable time of the message being read. As it is now, you don’t know if and when your sent message was even read.
@Slickitup
I don't know where the disconnect comes from on this site.. I see women daily talk about men who just want to talk, just want pics, don't show up, etc.... But every guy on here says they can't even get a reply back and the same thing happens to them...
I can't imagine it'd be hard for a couple to find a single man who wants to play, but it's true. Somewhere there's a long line of non bullshitters, looking for each other in the dark lol
EdandBritneyRegular
Parkville, MD, Usa
Hell yeah Booya69, 0another local couple that likes DP ... it rocks
num1scampRegular
Warren, MI, Us
Personally I really like 3 men and myself. All holes filled. I find it really intense, and have multiple orgasms from it.
booya69Member
Brooklyn Park, MD, Us
DP is awesome.
Why am I not invited to every opportunity to help with DP? ;-)
Wills Point, TX, Us
That’s the best sex there is It’s getting real tough to find a male on here who is willing to meet. It seems all they want to do is text and do on and on messaging and look at pics. It’s a shame it would be nice to meet someone to be an ongoing partner in this. Would be great fun
billnsuzieRegular
Greencastle, PA, Us
last several post sound like a great play list
HouTexCplRegular
Houston, TX, Us
DVP can be enjoyable for the girl if you have the right guys. But it can also be painful with the wrong ones. The guys have to be gentle and very patient while both getting inside of the vagina. Some guys get excited and just want to hurry up and force it in. This is not good for the girl. I know that it feels great for the guys too but you have to think about it and do it right, especially if you ever want to repeat it with that girl. Make sure she is comfortable and you are not hurting her and everyone can have a very pleasurable and memorable experience.
SLOtownerVeteran
San Luis Obispo, CA, Us
Yes suck one while fucking the other
Fuck one while the other licks your clit.
Ride the shorter dick, while taking the longer one from behind. Then think of variations, or the guys will. You sound like a very bad girl!
You may have to take charge and offer them guys to do what you want, because often the guys won’t do it on there own. The guys don’t have to do any overt homosexual acts. I see it as incidental to pleasing you. Your pussy can take it.
SLO
EdandBritneyRegular
Parkville, MD, Usa
Yes, DP Rocks!!!
" I’m looking for suggestions on how we can make it even better."
Bring a 3rd to make yourself airtight.
Double vaginal and one licking the clit while the other is inside are both winners if no one homophobic about incidental touching/licking.
HavingFunTogether2113Veteran
Thornton, CO, Us
Bring in the third guy for oral. My wife loved it in the distant past.