@hotlvrs - "playing with vanillas often turns into a shit show".
Once at a business conference in a nice downtown hotel, the wife and I stopped in the bar late that evening. I got tied up for a bit in a business discussion with some folks at another table and a young man sitting next to her at the bar started flirting with the wife. Long story short, when I returned she whispered to me something like "I found a puppy can I keep him?" and we ended up taking him back to the room with us.
The sex was great fun and the three of us had a ball for a couple hours, but afterward while "sitting in the afterglow" you could sense his demeanor quickly changing. He ended up crying his eyes out and kept saying "I've never cheated on my wife before, what am going to tell her?". A shit show is an understatement.
