One person's freak is someone else's perfect match, just like dating and marriage...I hate tats and piercing but love miniskirts, bras and nylons.....Mary Jo
Negative Certs
It would be nice and maybe there is a place where you can warn people about a particular person or couple not being who they said they are or are just someone people would want to stay clear of. Like freaks, weirdos and especially guys who all of a sudden become possessive and almost stalk you. Blocking them may fix your issue with them but how do you warn others.
Actually it's a good thing that people have the final say in the certs that are published with their profile.
Put it to you this way. How many times has a SM messaged you with "Let's Fuck", and when you either ignore or say no, they get all butt-hurt and abusive. Pretty much every couple or SF who has their profile open to SMs has gone through this. Multiple times.
Now imagine that Mr Abusive B. Dickhead can put up a cert without your approval. Because if he had the ability to do so, he damned well is going to, because he's an abusive dickhead.
This is SLS not Yelp...
Will never happen.. I suggest a "Yelp" type rating on all!
Heck we along with 12 couples.. got into an argument with an event person in NOLA .. We all paid big bucks for an all out swinger party on Bourbon St.. only to find out it was nothing more than a meet and greet.. expensive meet and greet .. the people down stairs in bar were more fun than those who paid as many were mad at what he did.
Surprise he gave everyone who paid a CERT a real joke!
There have been times that I wanted to, but since the person who the cert is for has final say on whether it gets posted or not, it would be useless to do so.
Has anyone ever left a negative cert. Ever wanted to and didn’t? No shows, bad sex, hygiene etc

