I changed to bi curious at one point and guys labeled straight were reaching out. I have come to realize I def identify as straight and it's more just being comfortable to do certain things. Like let a guy and my wife give me head at the same time. I like eating my wife out while she's being fucked. I had a phase with pegging. How I realized I wasn't truly bi but just open minded to experimenting was that I couldn't get hard for anything mentioned. I was into it, I enjoyed the moment but couldn't get hard.
More couples with Bi men
@MandC508
not sure why the "straight men" think they are so irresistible
MandC508
I think so too....there is a belief that they will try to force things though that has been the furthest from the truth in my experience. I've seen more straight guys try to force things with women than any bi men trying to force or push things. Of course, that is just my experience.
Plussize4fun,
Have you gotten to explore your curiosity at all? I've been the first bi experience for a few couples and all seemed to really enjoy it. I'm happy to share my experience if you want. Also, I do travel to Pittsburgh some.
I think there is a feeling that bi men will try to make unwanted moves on straight men. That is where a lot of the phobia comes in to play.
I didn't mean it as a smear.
Phobia is a fear of something for no apparent reason.
Fear of being near bi or gay men when there is no reason to belive they have any interest in you, is a phobia.
Fear of being raped by gay or bi men in prison, is not a phobia.
If you are referring to the use of homophobic for a political reason, such as calling your opponent homophobic when you know he is not just to get voters to hate him, then yes, you are correct.
"*phobic" has become a too casual, and nearly always wrong, smear.
Different strokes.
I think a lot of straight guys avoid BI males because they are homophobic. They belive if they even watch a man fuck a woman , they are gay. Many guys believe a MFM is gay. They wont let a woman blow them and another guy at the same time because their dick would be touching another dick.
I am straight but if some guy wanted to do a MM while I was next to them with his wife doing a MFM, I would do it. I do not care what they do over there. I would even do a MMFM, with me as the last M. Those 3 play with each other and I only play with her.
I'm bi, wife isn't bi at all. I changed up my orientation to reflect this. We do enjoy some mfm & mmf fun. Don't know if it will discourage or encourage response, guess we'll see!
Well after we changed our profile to male as Bi Curious, we got way more contacts than before. So many so called "straight" guys both single and as part of a couple are far from Straight.
I've often wondered if us listing me as bi-curious (which is true) has made some people not reach out to us. We list that I'm fine with playing strait, but so many profiles have "no bi men" in capital letters.
There was this one couple that I played with for several years. One of the times we got together the wife asked me if it was okay if her husband sucked my cock. Seeing my cock in his mouth and her kneeling there playing with my balls and my fingers in her pussy well needless to say That opened the flood gates for me and I thank them for it. It wasn't long before his cock was in my mouth. The next time we all met after that actually and for the years following.
At a swing club, we both eyed this hot guy that was sneaking feels of my wife's legs....We invited him to a private room. Prior to both of us fucking her, she was on her knees blowing both of us when I felt his hand rubbing MY ass. I looked at him as he smiled. In our 3some sexual frenzy, we sucked each other in between fucking my wife. In fact, he blew his load while my wife and I sucked him, coating both our faces with his load....
I've encountered exactly one couple where the male was actually entirely straight. There's a large stigma against a guy posting he's bi.
I think there are more couples with bi or bi leaning husbands than we may realize going by who has contacted me. Their profiles say different but that's the way it is.....It is pretty funny that their wives always seem to be "out of town for a few days". lol
We love meeting and playing with bi singles or couples there’s so much fun to have
We're cool with or actually prefer bi-males as they're more open to double barrel blow jobs and DVP which is hot AF.
I agree bi males are not as rare here and always more fun. Expecially bi couples
I wish
I do so enjoy a couple with a bi male and a wife that is into it and encourages him Nothing like a supportive wife that wants to join in
in 20 years of attending parties, I've had more women than I can count grab me without asking. none of them apologized.
funlyfriend........Ha! Both ways, baby! Whatever defines fun!
Hiway, how dare you list as bi if you play straight!
Hiway - We attend bi friendly parties all the time. Bi people in general seem much more comfortable about playing. The action tends to be early and often at these kind of parties, and as you said, bi people can play straight too.
In 10 years of attending parties, I've only ever had one guy grab me without asking. He knew immediately that he had fucked up and profusely apologized. While bi play just doesn't do anything for me, in a way, it was flattering that he found me so hot that he couldn't help himself:-)
We're both bi.....and post as such, but we also note that we play straight as well. Some are hesitant to reach out because of the word "bi" and fear I may take advantage and forcefully grab a male part, but that would only happen if agreed upon beforehand. Single men reach out to me as well that post as straight, when I know their intentions are M/M hookups.

