Just how does a MFM or FMF really work?

I would agree with unblocking single Male responses. Not all of us are crepes or have warts :-).

My first mfm was a chance encounter where I met a friendly couple at a bar while on a business trip. The conversation was lighthearted, a mutual attraction developed and the gal starting flirting a bit. I felt a bit uncomfortable at first, but i noticed her husband smiling and affirmatively nodding as i didn't want to overstep my bounds or earn his wrath. Her low cut dress seemed to open up up more and more as she was drawing me to herself in words and physically. We all came up to my room, spent the next three hours mutually pleasing her and being pleased by her. She loved giving oral while being fucked (many positions). She came many more times than either her husband or I did, all enjoyed.

We dont do FMF, she is a total str8 and I have no desire to repeat it (I think I'm the one guy in the world who doesnt want or like FMF!). In MFM (for us) she always controls the speed of what , when and where it happens. It is always about her enjoying 2 men (always me and 1 other) and my enjoyment of sharing her with another guy. She doesnt do anal EVER, so its always a "spit roasting" or "choke and poke". We both love oral and that plays a huge part of our sessions, we always play safe and where either of us guys cum is at her discretion and that can and does vary according to her mood and desire at the moment. It is always (for us) all about her, from beginning to end. Everyone is different, we all have our own interests, our own desires and turn ons, to each their own.

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Our first MFM just kind of happened. It helped she pointed him out to me and we both knew he had a bit of a crush on her. I approached him about it one night and we ended up in a hotel room same night. We had a number of ‘dates’ that all went very well. Even though he and i would get things started, ultimately it was her who drove the night. Think that really helped it be successful and fun for all and not to mention allow her to have multiple orgasms!

I have done both. MFM more often. Typically I have found MFM there is no better way to pleasure the woman.In all cases it started with flirting then kissing and then getting naked. The girl is in the doggy style position giving a blow job to the 1st male as the other Male goes behind her as no starts fucking her from behind. Once he blows his load they switch positions and the 2nd guy blows his load into her drenching pussy. Once done they lay together an I personally like to eat her pussy till she cums. Then the other guy eats her till she cums and she starts blowing the other. Once hard it starts all over again. . FMF my experience was me on the bottom eating one ladies pussy as she was sitting on my face as the other rode my hard cock. Once I blew my load in the 1st lady they both started blowing me and when I was hard again we switched positions and I ducked the 2nd lady as the 1st lady sat on my face as I eat her pussy full of my cum. MFMF. had sex with one lady at the same time as the other guy had sex with the other. We then switched partners.
All great fun.

I love mmf play. I like to have my couples come over for a nice intimate dinner where we can relax and openly discuss our desires and then if all agree act on those desires if all comfortable. The key is open, honest communication

There is no "supposed" to work. And we NEVER have guy-guy play. We always insist on straight guys, never bi or bi-curious guys. It's just our rules. BTW, we also don't play with married guys. Our male partners are there because they enjoy couple play, not just because they are sex-deprived or just want to have sex.

We usually start off with some wine or something like that, although a lot of guys don't drink. Some conversation if he's a new partner. Some play in the LR. Move to the bedroom, lots of kissing and touching, oral sex. I am the center of attention, with both the new guy and my husband playing. Usually if/when we get to intercourse, my husband is just watching. When we are done, then my husband will join, and we like to be watched.

After that, lots of laying around naked, just feeling good. Chatting. It's been a nice afternoon. :)

In our case it's all about giving her a super time. With no hang ups. Usually starts with both of us giving her a massage. Once relaxed it just kind of finds its own course and she controls what does and does not happen. We've had some that were no holds barred successes and others that were just ok. But seems all ended well and led to some hot one on one sex later.

I have to say, I didn’t know how I was going to be with it either the first time. Pleasantly surprised how well it went and found I actually love seeing her enjoy herself, giving her 2 cocks and making her the center of attention. We had a few mfm now and seems the easier scenario. Thank goodness so far we only found good respectful guys otherwise our opinion could be the other way.. good luck

1chocorican; You asked about how to "bring up" your desire for MFM. I looked at your profile and you guys have been on the site for a couple of years and you said you have had other experience so it seems you should be at a stage where it's comfortable to just say "MMM hon. I would love to be the focus of attention for a night. Do you think you and another man can pleasure me for awhile?"
Weare pretty open and honest in what we do so that's just how we approach things - but that's just us.
BTW as a result of her "MMM hon. Can I...?" approach she has enjoyed everything she's asked for!!!

Communication is key. If you want to try something different, just let him know.

If he's OK with you playing with other males in general, I'd just ask him if he's OK with trying something different. Seems only fair. Especially if there are points where both girls work on him when you do FMFs.

Another option might be to invite a couple AND a single male. That way he can play while you get what you want, in the event him sharing a girl with another guy is awkward for him.

You will love being the center of attention. Just tell your husband that you want to experience two cocks at one time, start by telling him that you want his cock in your pussy while you suck off another man.
Men that are not sure about mfm will feel more at ease if its their cock on your pussy.

How do you bring it up to the Mr., I'm wanting to try but I'm pretty sure he don't want another male in the mix, had our share of FMF and like everyone has mentioned it has been with Bi females, and we all pleasure each other, but always making sure she feels like the center of attention, I'm ready to be the center of attention and see how that feels...

They work amazingly well! Having been a part of more than a few MFM the key is that ALL need to want to and want to with each other. That means talking about your desire for that scenario to take place. If the chemistry is there then nirvana for all!!!

Fishin, as you may have noticed from the wide variety of responses, MFM and FMF can work however you want it to work, it all depends on the likes, dislikes and personal proclivities (my big word for the day) of the people involved. The wife and I have been doing MFM's for over 14 yrs, she (and I) love it and it has never resulted in any bi play, it has been offered, but wasnt a problem when we declined. We actually prefer bi or Bi curious guys for partners because thy tend to be less worried about any incidental/accidental contact and for us they tend to be less inclined to be pushy or domineering during play. My only experience with FMF was years before meeting my wife, and I personally didnt care for it...too much like work, fun yes, but there was the ever present concern about satisfying both women that was distracting and worrisome (at least it was for me). I suggest finding an experienced single, and explaining what your want and are interested in and go from there, tailor it to your own interests to make it the best experience possible for everyone involved.

Kurious2c3 , Fishincouple, or you could just start with everyone being naked and then do the drinks, flirting and whatever else develops...

"The MFM always ends in bi play"

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Um, no it does not.

Kurious2c3... We like the way you think!!!

Well, first everyone gets a drink to loosen up. Then you flirt. Then when sexual tension is too much, everyone gets naked and fucks.

@funly: I know right! :-)

Annie

Have done a number of MFMs and, as was mentioned, Bi does not need to come into play for this to work very well. The Mrs enjoys having a cock to suck on/play with while she's getting fucked, and also as mentioned, she too has to stop sucking when she's cumming.

We've also experienced group play where same sex action was limited only to the Bi folks. I will agree that the FMF probably works better if the women are Bi, but also not a requirement to be fun.

It sounds like a big deal for a girl to take on 2 guys, but usually once she does she's like, "Hmmm, that was fun, but no big deal".

"Just_how_does_a_MFM_or_FMF_really_work? "

Very Well! LMAO

You would be correct Annie

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