House party

Thanks for the good advice, sometimes people can be a little hard( not a joke) on here.

See, this is why I like pool parties: People are already naked. Generally though, if you're expecting strip 'n play, even at a pool party, you're going to be sadly disappointed because that's not how it works. You have to find people who want to play with you and vice versa and sometimes that doesn't happen. I've been the first one to take my clothes off at parties but even then it's only with someone(s) I want to get naked with, not an open invitation. And just to be clear, even if it turns into an orgy, you still have to get explicit consent in order to touch someone/kiss them/fuck them.

Good thing you asked here. However, more importantly ask the hosts what the rules for the party are and follow them closely. Strip and play or orgy parties aren't too common, but it is the first thing non-swingers think of when they think of a swinger party. You never touch or do anything without expressed permission to do so. This is very important and can get you in tons of trouble and you might lose some teeth if you get it wrong.

Be an absolute gentleman. Be polite and courteous. Address couples as couples always. There's nothing wrong with slightly overdressing and you better be very well groomed especially where it counts. The big thing is be prepared to go in and not play at all, but simply make some good connections that may lead to play later. It isn't unusual at all to be contacted by someone you met briefly at a party that wants to meet again for drinks or even play. Bring your own condoms unless the hosts provide them. Skyns are a good option because there are ladies with latex allergies. If you do play, always clean yourself after removing the condom. It is common courtesy especially if you may play with multiple people.

Again, get in touch with the hosts and get the rules and details from them. It is their party and they can set their own rules. If you get there and aren't comfortable don't feel pressured to stay. Just thank the hosts and leave graciously.

Going to my first house party , what the process or does everyone just strip and play?