Giving pleasure through others

Never heard that term, but I think that’s a natural reaction for people in the lifestyle who are very sexual, and ultimately trust each other. The pleasure of your mate intensifies the pleasure you feel!!

Isn’t that what the lifestyle is all about for couples? You hit the nail on the head, it’s exactly how we are with each other…. In fact if there is any amount of jealousy you should probably stop and save the time if all parties.

If you aren’t capable of achieving this, you are not getting everything you can. Trust, Satisfaction, Bond

We practice that always with each other .. 42 Yrs married and over 30 years swinging

It makes our lives fuller, richer, and strengthen what we already have with each other... some cannot do this !

Has anyone heard the term compersion? Basically it is gaining pleasure from your mate receiving pleasure no matter who the source is. It is a loving act of giving your mate the freedom to respond to another person as they would respond to you just for the pure pleasure, without fear of making you jealous or you feeling threatened by the skills of an extra partner. When your mate has that kind of freedom, their resulting orgasms can be very intense.