Fun on a Vanilla Cruise

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So we do this often while cruising.. here is what we do.

As stated dress with some class while at the bars or clubs on ship.. at pool we look for singles, male or female that have a 'bubbly, flirty" Personality. We strike up conversations about fun things eventually turning to sexy things.. we are not bashful and can usually see which way things go but sometimes not.. , Example" on our last cruise we met 2 guys who were single they hooked up a mother daughter duo and at the pool who had a drink package. They would complain to us she was a real pain in the ass.. and personality showed.. daughter was a real nice lady. Eventually our conversation turned to sex and swinging.. they could not believe we were swingers and had no experience in people who were..

Long story short.. Kathy had no plans to teach one about 3sums , swinging and well she just didnt want guys who took advantage of a female just for a drink package.. you get our drift. Have some class, be flirty at the pool and bars, dancing and it works out usually! Same as a vanilla setting in a new town bar or club.. we find many swingers one just has to ask!

Good luck now just be classy and fun!

One more swinger tip.. your profile and selfies are terrible.. get a friend, neighbor, coworker to take some photos of you and ditch them especially the ass selfie.. not classy at all.

Keep it classy.. its what swingers look for and I assure you the ladies' can get laid anytime. They look for something different not same old same old. If you told us you were a swinger and on SLS we would look at your profile first.

Good luck and enjoy we have well over 30 years!

Well, first check the cruise section of the forum. Then post a hot date for your port of departure and you may find someone before you go. There are some other places that have LS folks posting what cruises they will be on.

The odds of getting picked up by a hotwife cruising the dance floor isn’t too high. Do as much as you can to increase your odds. Dress really well especially in the evenings. Be social and be a gentleman and you have a chance of getting someone’s attention. Just be careful not to misread anything especially if you like your teeth. They will find you.

Or you can just wear shirts that say, “Hi! I am a swinger!” with upside down pineapples. Or you can just carry an upside down pineapple everywhere with you… You aren’t a lady and there are no shopping carts but it may work.

Is it easy to meet swingers on a vanilla cruise? Booked for a cruise at the end of April for 6 day's . I would love to play while on the open Seas. What's everyone's thoughts? Any suggestions on how to spot ppl looking for the same?