Finding a 3rd female

Ridgefield, WA, Us

She tells me it would have to be someone really special for a man to qualify otherwise she would rather not just settle for a guy because he was the other half of a women that she might want to play with. It is not looks so much as the way the guys acts.

Charles Town, WV, Us

OP: You may want to have a sit down and find out what she wants and expects. I mean, it’s pretty clear that she says she has no interest in men, from your words, but then nullify what you said she did say.

“ I would not say she has no interest with other men”

“ We also want to meet and possibly play with couples but my wife says she has no real interest in being with another man.”

Good luck sorting things out.

~Allen

Las Vegas, NV, Us

“ I would not say she has no interest with other men ”

But princess, you said exactly that. 6/4/21 at 20:58pm you said I would like to actually watch her with a bigger cock than mine but she doesn’t want that. So not only are you insecure, you’re a liar too.

Ridgefield, WA, Us

I did block the person who I felt was harassing me, life is too short. My profile info may need some work. I do not play with anyone's wife with my wife watching and not playing herself. She may play with another man if she wants to we play together or not at all but I am fine with watching her play even if I am not involved. I would not say she has no interest with other men but it is not her top priority. We are still working out what we want in this lifestyle.

Charles Town, WV, Us

“ my wife says she has no real interest in being with another man.”

“ The profiles I see are all couples which is good”

First off, for your level of interest in what you seek, seeing all couples is not good.

Second: Above anything else you have said to anyone in this thread I could care less to read about, but don’t…. don’t….. don’t waste a couple’s time if she doesn’t have a real interest in men, we men do tend to eventually pick up on that putrid shit, albeit late when shit’s getting real and I know it just personally pisses me the fuck off when a guy is having a grand ole time with my wife and I am stuck with his mannequin……..

~Allen

Phoenix, AZ, Us

Justforfun, I'm assuming you're responding to someone I have blocked. Take hotluvrs' advice and block them.

As far as your question, there are very few single women online. It's not that we're uninterested in the lifestyle, but going to a club - usually free or greatly reduced in price - or a party is a much better option for most of us. It's safer and there are multiple options for playmates.
Also, your profile, which is clearly written by a man, isn't going to be nearly as enticing as if the two of you collaborate. Guys are thick on the ground and it's usually less about the guy in a couple than the two of them as a unit (which is the polite way of saying to please put your dick away, at least unless someone asks about it, and focus on more interesting things like who you are as people).

Las Vegas, NV, Us

Justforfun, hotluvrs will provide what you’re looking for. He’ll blow ya while the wives watch. You get blown and nobody touches the princess. Boom, you win!

hotluvrsVeteran
Jeffersonville, IN, Us

Justforfun,

Block early, block often.

It’s pointless to get into arguments with argumentative people.

If you are looking for a connection for your wife it might be better if she does all the searching. Let her write the profiles. Let her make first contact.

Ridgefield, WA, Us

"Yup, I read the part where you said you’re willing to share, nothing about what she may choose to do, just what you’re willing to allow. I love how you made this all about you and your dick. Trust me, there’s bigger and better out there. Let her get a taste of one of them to see how SHE enjoys the lifestyle."

Why are you even posting on here making this about something other than the question? I don't allow her to do anything she can do what she wants. I would actually like to watch her with a bigger cock than mine but she doesn't want that quit being a tool and screwing up my thread that I asked for advice on. I have more info in our profile that hasn't been approved yet we are just getting started on here and I don't appreciate your harassment.

Las Vegas, NV, Us

“ maybe you didn't read the part were she can have a man if she wants and I have a large cock so it isn't something new to her. There are larger men than me but she has a hard time with mine at times. ”

Yup, I read the part where you said you’re willing to share, nothing about what she may choose to do, just what you’re willing to allow. I love how you made this all about you and your dick. Trust me, there’s bigger and better out there. Let her get a taste of one of them to see how SHE enjoys the lifestyle.

Ridgefield, WA, Us

My wife knows about our profile and this post. I did write our profile maybe you didn't read the part were she can have a man if she wants and I have a large cock so it isn't something new to her. There are larger men than me but she has a hard time with mine at times. We have swung before and as lately as last weekend. I am new to this site not new to couple play.

Las Vegas, NV, Us

“ I like to watch my wife have fun with women and join in when the time is right. I am willing to share with another man in a couple type situation no single guys.”

This is from your profile, completely written by you. There’s nothing in there about your wife’s desires, however, at least you’re willing to allow it if you deem the situation to be right. Actually there is nothing in your profile describing what your wife enjoys, but there’s plenty of I’s and we’s, no she’s. Does your wife know you created a profile on here? Is this lifestyle really for the both of you or is it your fantasy to be with 2 women? If this is truly about the two of you, watch her get pounded by a huge dick. Watch her expressions in how much she enjoys it. If you’re happy for her then this is for you. If the idea of it makes you furious or sick to your stomach, this isn’t for you. This lifestyle is all about 50/50, you seem all about you. Good luck!

San Jose, CA, Us

That's why single females are called, "Unicorns." You never see them.

Ridgefield, WA, Us

We are looking for a 3rd of the female sex. We also want to meet and possibly play with couples but my wife says she has no real interest in being with another man. I have no problem with her being with another man if she wants too. The profiles I see are all couples which is good but I don't see any single females to message. Is it a setting I need to change on our profile? I really don't want to block couples because we want to find couple friends and some soft swap possible full swap fun but our main focus is sharing fun with a lady. Advice please.