Couples embarrassed they like MFM?

R&K, sounds like someone isn't getting laid.

And he wonders why he has trouble. Smhh

Roman and Kathy - please go away and get a life. You are a bunch of 50 years old losers

Exactly BJ same here!

Love it BJMax - I found other couples are like that yet they still only search for other couples. Odds are things will turn for the worst. It’s just a matter of time. Wish more couples were like you.

Interesting... Not sure why any couple would be embarrassed about enjoying MFMs. As for us, we actually have found MFMs far easier than couple swapping. We started 18 yrs ago with couple swapping and soon realized that at some point drama from the other couple always seemed to creep in. Alas, we moved to prefer MFMs and have been that way for the majority of the last 16 years. On an occasion we'll dabble back into swapping with a couple or a fun FMF, but MFMs has become a staple in our swinging preference.

4 Real.. amazing isnt it sounds exactly like someone I know.. and hopefully TONIGHT we will have met and played with a new SLS Guy who seems to get it!...

Will let you know how it works out.. he is much younger than our usual ones we play with.. but seems he has some class, well spoken and well traveled in life and music!

We find a MFM to be a really good balance for us as a couple.

4 Real Cpl. Much of the same here with my wife. Absolutely loves cock sucking or fucking. Sometimes she just can't get enough. Can cum numerous times and just when you think she is done she tells you she wants more. Life is good!

We like MFM. Sometimes it's way easier to find a quality SM with a great cock, than a great couple. Besides the Mrs prefers 2cocks most of the time.

She LOVES to suck cock. But even more, she really really loves to get her pussy fucked. Doing both at the same time, well, that is stimulation overload. When either guys cums, it brings on her own orgasm. Her favorite is the guys cums in her mouth, a nice big load that runs down her chin, she will cum like crazy. A full body orgasm where she just looses all control. This can bring an orgasm to the guy fucking her.

As hot and fulfilling as it is, once all parties are done. She is DONE. Don't touch her, don't kiss her, just stay away. She will recover in 10 min, but her body, mind and soul have "left the building"

Oh, the true life challenges of being married to a real Ginger swinger wife.

Life is GOOD

Thanks mayhem8. I thought about that when I wrote it. My error. I should have eliminated any question by adding "woman."

StillUp - Some part of this is "Bi-curious" as a classification sucks. The other part is that some people simply don't read profiles.

I know you have your toggles set for no SMs, but you may want to consider changing this line in your profile -

"Seeking a, mature, confident, secure, couple, or single, for sharing mutual,..."

...to...

"Seeking a, mature, confident, secure, couple, or single woman, for sharing mutual,..."

It won't stop what you're seeing from happening, but it won't hurt.

I post as "bi curious ." My preferences show NO INTEREST in males. I have received many messages from the male half of a "straight" couple asking if I would meet them-just the male- for m/m play. One response to the original post, is that some couples, or some males, don't want to participate in MFM because they fear they will be thought of as "queer", or "gay." I have been told by more than one "straight" husband that his wife doesn't know he's bi.

We both enjoy seeing each other having a good time with others. When SMs reach out to us in a polite way, I usually just let them know this, and that a single of either sex just isn't as much fun for either of us.

It's not that we don't enjoy MFMs, but at parties, we have other options. Many times when the Mrs is doing an MFM at a party, I am not one of the "M's" and I'm playing with someone else, usually in the same room so we can both see each other.

We are big fans of MFM threesomes

We don't usually meet SM, but that's our preferences. Mrs actually enjoys a good MFM when we meet couples. She enjoys being the center of attention

No embarrassment here. We enjoy MFM

Not here.. over 30 years playing with MFM.. and FMF its what we do and enjoy for each other. We both enjoy hotwife and hothusband scene and have all sorts of pick up places we do this in.. its just fun and adds spice to swinging.

We have had a longtime single guy over 20 years in south Florida and one in Georgia over 8 years and taken them both on vacation or they have met us.

We have found trying to make a 4 way connection over the years is way harder and when you find a great couple who isnt jealous, fits what you enjoy they too are keepers!

MFM is our favorite.I love it and my husband loves for me to enjoy myself.No way I would or am embarrassed playing MFM.

MFM… fewer people usually means less chance for drama. Plus, guy’s needs are generally just simpler. Nothing to be embarrassed about; it’s all fun!

We have heard similar things about the LS, we also know that listing Both of us as Bi reduces the amount of couples that reach out, guess they think we can respect the rules couples have but cant be trusted to not touch one of the same sex…?
Anyway Kinda degress
We enjoy couples as well as MFM and eventually I want FFM and ofcourse hubby does to but it will happen when it happens.
Hubby enjoys sharing me and I enjoy the freedom to explore.
Neither of us are from a super religious background but I was taught that the mans needs came before mine and before hubby thats the way things were.
Once we got into the LS and we realized hubby enjoys sharing me it was a total eye opening experience.
The one bad thing is 90% of the messages we get from single guys are short and rude.
Not all but most

At this point we don’t care what others think, if they don’t like something about what we like then they don’t have to reach out!

I can say the first time we desired to try it was with a friend of 20 years. He got us into the lifestyle after I had a few wines to many and said how I enjoyed women in college. He told us how he was enjoying the lifestyle and bet be I could never take my clothes of in front of others. he lost the bet and we were on the path of a new outlook of the bedroom. It took a few more fun nights with no sex but when we did I was looking at my husband watching me take our friend for the first time. I was embarrassed and afraid I made a mistake. It all went away when my hiusband took his turn and was out of this world looking into our friends eyes after he came in me moments before. Now we love all kinds of new friends and new fun

jfg

Thank you for sharing, I play with a couple who had a similar path. Her religious upbringing was something it took a long time to get past. She is now very aware of her her sexuality and embarrasses it. Always good to hear about people's struggles as they delve into the lifestyle and overcome those struggles to enjoy their sensuality to the fullest

My wife was embarrassed by enjoying another man in a threesome, both during sex and the preliminaries with another man. She comes from a religious family and was raised to believe that women don't enjoy sex, nor should they enjoy it, especially with two men at the same time. It's taken her awhile to realize that she has a HUGE sex drive and that she enjoys the attention of two men. It doesn't mean she doesn't love her husband; it just means she enjoys sex so much that some variety is an enjoyable experience for her. Once she understood her feelings, she's really into the experience and learned to enjoy having two men. It's taken her a long time, but I think there a lot of women who feel the same way.

RnK, it will obviously be his loss. Seems like a fool to me.