about done with single males

cap I listed three ways that a man can bring a woman to orgasm vaginally if he cared about the woman's pleasure. If a man cared about the woman and her pleasure the way swinger men used to, the man would do the exercises to stay hard for a while and get in shape so that he could fuck a woman long enough so she could orgasm during intercourse.

Swingers all took pride in their sexual skills, swingers cared bout the pleasure they could bring to their partners. This is what swinging was all about.

The lifestyle has destroyed this. Single men destroyed this.

Sex hasn't gone down the tubes, Ncal. Maybe for you it has, but I assure you that most people are doing just fine.

"Any man who is good in bed can bring a woman to orgasm with his cock in her pussy or with his cock in her pussy and his finger on her clit or with a vib in her pussy and his tongue on her clit."

That's clitoral stimulation. Most women need that in order to orgasm. That is basic female knowledge. Ask me how I know ;) You aren't so special because you have a penis.

IN ACCORDANCE WITH THE PROPHECY

All women who where swingers where goddesses, that is the point of swinging for women. If a man wanted to be a swinger with his wife he had to treat the women as goddess or they would not be welcomed back.
Women loved and I mean loved swinging because they where goddess for an evening

capal that is such a sad statement and shows just how far down the tubes sex has gone. Any man who is good in bed can bring a woman to orgasm with his cock in her pussy or with his cock in her pussy and his finger on her clit or with a vib in her pussy and his tongue on her clit.

Men used to learn how to stay hard for the time necessary to do this and how to move his cock in her pussy. It was just part of swinging for men to get these skills.

Ncal is stuck in his fantasy world where all women are goddesses that need to be only pleased by married men, who have years of sexual mastery. Single men lack the patience, fortitude and sheer skill to please such a goddess. Any wife/woman that does chose a single male over a married man in playing, is inconsiderate of her wants and desires and will never be pleased by the immmature single male.

The single male lacks what the married man has. With him, the wife will always be disappointed and dissatisfied and come running back to a married man to be pleased like she should.

The married man is God’s gift to women. He knows how to master a woman’s body like no single man can. He.....

Bullshit!!!!!

There are plenty of married men that can’t please their wives. Many wives that would pick their boyfriends over their husbands when it comes to sexual performance in bed. They’re many wives that couldnt have orgasms with their husbands but find themselves having more orgasms in the LS.

You can’t justify the obvious if you tried. You just don’t like single guys. You make up these ideas to make yourself feel better.

As a single male, with a good reputation and success in the LS while also having a good rapport with both parties of the couples that I actively encounter, I am just one example of the type of guys that obliterate your suggested ideas.

We’re out here. And we do well.

HV

"If most men where good in bed then most women would have vaginal orgasms during sex with a man"

You are a lost cause, aren't you? You can have the best fuck of your life but still not have a vaginal orgasm. Why? Because some women can't have an orgasm from vaginal penetration alone. It has nothing to do with skill. But you don't understand that.

If most men where good in bed then most women would have vaginal orgasms during sex with a man

"sure most men suck at sex" -- Ncal
That's not what I said. I said sometimes men suck at sex. It has nothing to do with being married or single.

"As far a s skill in bed not many men have any skills in bed married or single. Sexual skill was a thing in the 80's and 90's but its long gone now."

Then your hooking up with the wrong people. You can only blame yourself.

Hung yes Mrs has her opinion and will never go out with a single man. Married men take time to do the whole peacock dance to be with her in bed and are so appreciative most of the time that a woman treats them nice and just wants to borrow their body not their wallet.

its the taking of the time before sex and the appreciative afterwards that is the difference between a married man and a single man. As far a s skill in bed not many men have any skills in bed married or single. Sexual skill was a thing in the 80's and 90's but its long gone now.

The sex is the reward for a man who does a really good peacock dance for her. She loves that stuff. Single men just do not take the time.

In the old group baysex a guy named Dan was so good at the peacock dance that he could talk the clothes right off a woman, spending lots or time doing so. My wife and all the women just loved him.

njny, miracles might happen (that's why they're called miracles, right?) and I would certainly let you know. It would be so much fun!

"a good guy will usually not ask up front (without having met) for: extra pictures, access to galleries, phone number, kik, text, etc." Yeah, this really is true. One man gently reminded me, about two hours before our coffee date, that he'd only seen my bits and probably wouldn't recognize me if I didn't send him a photo of my face. Clearly he was a keeper.

ncal: "Single men just do not get enough regular sex to make the sex all about the woman and her pleasure."

Oh, honey, to go along with not understanding women (what's this goddess shite you keep spouting about?) you just don't understand sex, do you? Urgency can be hot as hell. Plus, based on the single guys I know and those who were single when I met them, the good ones are turning away opportunities, precisely because it's clear they know exactly how to make sex about women's pleasure. In fairness, the same is true about married men, because skill, patience, and knowing how to play the long game is not something that is tied to relationship status.

Until Ncal understands the difference between “where” and “were” his comments will be always as silly as his beliefs

Question for Ncal

You’re saying married men are better in bed than single men?

What is your basis?

Is there some scientific evidence to back up your hypothesis?

Who administered the study?

Which scientific journal or publication can I find this in?

Who reviewed the outcomes?

Was there a control group?

Who were the subjects?

Does your wife have an opinion about this?

Because if you’re going to make idiotic and absurd accusations, we’re going to need to see documentation lol

HV

70% of all american men are overweight, that is soft and fat.

More like... IN ACCORDANCE WITH HIS PRIAPISM

BT

IN ACCORDANCE WITH THE PROPHECY

sure most men suck at sex, but those who where swingers treated the women as goddesses and where good at sex or they where not allowed back into the groups with a hot swinger wife or not.

The men who where swingers before single men changed swinging into the lifestyle where very very talented at making the woman live as a goddess for a few hours at a party.

Today most men are so soft and fat they are disgusting.

888, Perhaps. But how can anyone not be?! I don't frequent this part of the site often, but when I do I feel like Bill Murray in Groundhog Day. Only this never ends.

“I can't read it all”

1) We know you really don’t want to.

2) Cacpl is a calm kind of angry at Ncal and that’s hawt!

~Allen

Holy cow a lot of posting. I can't read it all but I'm sure the women are right lol

"sorillo darlin—what happens during girls’ night, well—-no recordings. sowwy."

Hey, it was worth a shot. ;)

"Single men just do not get enough regular sex to make the sex all about the woman and her pleasure."

As a woman who has met with singles over the years, you really have no clue what you are talking about. Married/coupled men can be just as bad, if not worse than singles. I know you're going to come at me with some excuse about how fat they are, or meds they're on, or something. I've been reading; you have an excuse for everything. Because you "do science" or those dems, or something else just as lame. But you don't know who I've been with so STFU. I know this is going to be very difficult for you for you to comprehend, so read slow: Sometimes men suck as sex, because they suck at sex. It isn't because they are single. Several of the singles we have met actually have a lot of sex outside of playing with couples and single women on sites like this. Gasp! They have real relationships, too. And contrary to popular belief, there are good single men on this site. One of my good friends has met quite a few. Whatever reality you have going on in your head, is seriously flawed on several accounts.

And this whole "goddess" thing you keep spewing? I actually laughed. Whatever floats your boat, dude.

IN ACCORDANCE WITH THE PROPHECY

Swinging yes couples only and single women in some clubs, tis is the only way the woman can be a goddess and treated as a goddess. Single men just do not get enough regular sex to make the sex all about the woman and her pleasure.

This is what swinging is all about the goddesses.

Ncal

Are you saying that real swinging/the LS/whatever we’re calling it, should only consist of married couples and single females, right?

HV

ncal: "Based on stories? LOL how about those who actually went to the Edgewater and Barry and Shell clubs? Who went the private groups like Baysex BIO and Jacks.
Stories give me a break."

I agree that anecdotes do not equal data. You are also telling stories. The difference is that those men were telling me stories at a swing club and you're telling yours from behind a profile photo taken sometime before 1985, while burbling elsewhere about a birthday orgy that nobody believes in.

So, your stories lack any credibility. And theirs did not.

Also, happy birthday.